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Supporting something you're not comfortable with. La Reggaetonista Due July 16; 18 kids; Peru 1211 posts
16th Jul '12

I had an abortion last month, I was raped.
My best friend had an abortion on Saturday, her and her boyfriend are breaking up.
I understand and respect situations different than my own and I love her to death, but I've almost been feeling like I'm mourning for her? In a sense. I don't want to talk about her abortion and I tried everything I could to beg her to do adoption. I've tacked it up to me feeling awful about my decision regardless of what happened. I could have made it work. Any suggestions? Have you ever disagreed but didn't express it?



Edit: Also, how can I be more supportive to her? I am not good with grief and I know she is sad.

The Icebox {MBRD} 17 kids; New Mexico 18558 posts
16th Jul '12

It's not your place to disagree with her decision. That being said, yes I have, sometimes you just have to keep your mouth shut

La Reggaetonista Due July 16; 18 kids; Peru 1211 posts
16th Jul '12

I couldn't find the right way to word it. I don't really DISAGREE per say, I think I'm just sad because I know exactly how she feels..

кinga Due February 18 (girl); 1 child; Ontario 4606 posts
16th Jul '12
Quoting The Icebox {MBRD}:" It's not your place to disagree with her decision. That being said, yes I have, sometimes you just have to keep your mouth shut"


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user banned 2 kids; Saint Catharines, Ontario 151075 posts
16th Jul '12
Quoting The Icebox {MBRD}:" It's not your place to disagree with her decision. That being said, yes I have, sometimes you just have to keep your mouth shut"


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LumpySpacePrincess 2 kids; New Zealand 17060 posts
16th Jul '12
Quoting The Icebox {MBRD}:" It's not your place to disagree with her decision. That being said, yes I have, sometimes you just have to keep your mouth shut"


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Witty Whit™ 1 child; Japan 347 posts
16th Jul '12

I think you need to resolve the issues within yourself before trying to extend a hand to someone else. IF you still havent fully accepted your own abortion how could you help her get through the aftermath of hers?

La Reggaetonista Due July 16; 18 kids; Peru 1211 posts
16th Jul '12
Quoting Witty Whit
slayera 4 kids; 3 angel babies; nowhere, ca, United States 706 posts
17th Jul '12
Quoting Witty Whit