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Suraya's Mommy Due February 16; 17 kids; Edmonton, Alberta 2197 posts
17th Jul '12

I feel like there is no hope at this point. I don't know how I'm going to go through with this at all. I want my baby so bad and if things were different I could be happy. I'm worried this little life will feel pain. I will never forgive myself. This feels so wrong and so inhumane.

vagina. 3 kids; Titz, No, Germany 30918 posts
17th Jul '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Suraya's mommy ♥:</b>" I feel like there is no hope at this point. I don't know how I'm going to go through with this at all. ... [snip!] ... could be happy. I'm worried this little life will feel pain. I will never forgive myself. This feels so wrong and so inhumane."</blockquote>



Is tbere any assistance programs that could help you financially if you decide to keep it?

Suraya's Mommy Due February 16; 17 kids; Edmonton, Alberta 2197 posts
17th Jul '12

I literally would rather die than do this. Maybe I just have to wrap my head around it and I'll be okay. Thanks for the kind words everyone. Please keep myself and my little ones in your thoughts and prayers.

Suraya's Mommy Due February 16; 17 kids; Edmonton, Alberta 2197 posts
17th Jul '12
Quoting i don't make vaginas.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Suraya's mommy ♥:</b>" I feel like there is no hope at ... [snip!] ... so inhumane."</blockquote> Is tbere any assistance programs that could help you financially if you decide to keep it?"


I'm already on Learner's Benefits but after I had the baby, I would have to go on welfare until I could get back into college.

On Vacation Texas 1054 posts
17th Jul '12
Quoting Suraya's mommy ♥:" I want to keep this baby, but it's just not going to happen. This is what my SO just said to me, "I'm ... [snip!] ... give me another baby when I'm ready, but this just is not meant to be I guess. Words cannot express the pain I feel right now."

Do what is right for YOU. I am soo anti abortion, but it is YOUR decision.

Suraya's Mommy Due February 16; 17 kids; Edmonton, Alberta 2197 posts
17th Jul '12

I just made the appointment request online and they'll get back to me. I already had an appointment for when I was 7 weeks and I called and cancelled the day of. Maybe this time it will be different. I feel so bad. I cannot stop crying. :'(

Libertarian ♥ 19 kids; San Antonio, Texas 17690 posts
17th Jul '12
Quoting Suraya's mommy ♥:" I want to keep this baby, but it's just not going to happen. This is what my SO just said to me, "I'm ... [snip!] ... give me another baby when I'm ready, but this just is not meant to be I guess. Words cannot express the pain I feel right now."


Do you think counseling will help you? Either way you go it seems like you are going to be upset.



There are resources if you want to keep the baby, there are people that can help you take care of it.



But in the end only you can make the decision, only you have to live your life so only you can know what is right for you. Whatever you do, don't regret. Know that you made the best decision you could with the information that you had.



If you'd like help looking for resources that can help financially to take care of the baby, or for adoption you can PM me. I only say this because you sound so upset. It's your life, and your body hun, don't let anyone decide for you.

~Valentines mommy~ Due August 7; 1 child; Lakeside, California 1091 posts
17th Jul '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Suraya's mommy ♥:</b>" I just made the appointment request online and they'll get back to me. I already had an appointment for ... [snip!] ... 7 weeks and I called and cancelled the day of. Maybe this time it will be different. I feel so bad. I cannot stop crying. :'("</blockquote>




Hun, please don't do this if this is not what you want. If you don't do what you know is right for you, the long term effects can put you in a much worse position.

~Valentines mommy~ Due August 7; 1 child; Lakeside, California 1091 posts
17th Jul '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Libertarian ♥:</b>" Do you think counseling will help you? Either way you go it seems like you are going to be upset. ... [snip!] ... you can PM me. I only say this because you sound so upset. It's your life, and your body hun, don't let anyone decide for you."</blockquote>




Wonderful advice <3

Babycakez & Lil J Due February 24; 1 child; San Jose, CA, United States 2844 posts
17th Jul '12

There is nothing wrong with being on welfare. We are lucky to have such a program exist to help moms and families in situations like yours. It's the people that abuse these programs that give it a bad name. By no means are you any less of a person if you end up having to go on welfare.



If you arn't 100% sure about giving up this baby yet, then don't. You don't want to regret it for the rest of your life thinking what if...

Logan and Noah's Momma 18 kids; North Carolina 982 posts
17th Jul '12
Quoting to mock a killingbird:" Please don't let him tell you what to do. If you honestly feel like its what you want; by all means do it. But don't do it just because he tells you."

:!::!::!::!:

SweetBabyKate 3 kids; Texas 223 posts
17th Jul '12
Quoting Suraya's mommy ♥:" I feel like there is no hope at this point. I don't know how I'm going to go through with this at all. ... [snip!] ... could be happy. I'm worried this little life will feel pain. I will never forgive myself. This feels so wrong and so inhumane."


Sweetie, My baby's dad didn't want this baby either. It was horrible. The things he said to me were awful. I don't know how I'm going to make it all work either. But I have faith. She is due in 7 weeks and I don't regret for a minute telling him to go F himself and keeping my baby. She will be my child forever, he could have been gone at any point. YOU have to do what is best for YOU. Make the decision for what YOU want, not what some man tells you.