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Nicole Hilt Due August 3; 2 kids; Fargo, North Dakota 48 posts
21st Jul '12
Quoting BG Secrets:" Good idea, I'll just move out. I mean I do have that money tree in back yard and I shit gold bricks ... [snip!] ... every morning. :roll: and I'm NOT harming my child. I take care of her and play with her, she loves me as much as I love her. "


umm you said you got a job.. save up and get an apartment for yourself and your kid..!! If you loved her like you say you do then you would do something about it, you wouldn't say I don't want to be a mom!

Tig Ol' Bitties 2 kids; St Catharines, Ontario 3276 posts
status 21st Jul '12
Quoting Nicole Hilt:" umm you said you got a job.. save up and get an apartment for yourself and your kid..!! If you loved ... [snip!] ... kid..!! If you loved her like you say you do then you would do something about it, you wouldn't say I don't want to be a mom!"


Enough. She doesn't need this bullshit>

BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
21st Jul '12
Quoting Nicole Hilt:" umm you said you got a job.. save up and get an apartment for yourself and your kid..!! If you loved ... [snip!] ... kid..!! If you loved her like you say you do then you would do something about it, you wouldn't say I don't want to be a mom!"


Your right my minimum wage job is going to get us our own apartment in no time. My parents already have custody of her I would have to go out and get my own place and a car before the courts would give me custody back, which is very hard considering I don't get assistance anymore because I don't have custody of my child.

Nicole Hilt Due August 3; 2 kids; Fargo, North Dakota 48 posts
21st Jul '12
Quoting That-Girl:" Enough. She doesn't need this bullshit>"


I'm free to express my opinion. and in my opinion, she should give her kid up for adoption if she has these feelings

JKBC♡ 2 kids; Windsor, PA, United States 9318 posts
21st Jul '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Nicole Hilt:</b>" umm you said you got a job.. save up and get an apartment for yourself and your kid..!! If you loved ... [snip!] ... kid..!! If you loved her like you say you do then you would do something about it, you wouldn't say I don't want to be a mom!"</blockquote>



You don't have to be a b***h.:?

Madi's*Mama Due November 2; 1 child; Holland, Michigan 7391 posts
21st Jul '12
Quoting That-Girl:" Enough. She doesn't need this bullshit>"

:!::!::!::!::!::!::!::!:

melindapple 1 child; Michigan 5425 posts
21st Jul '12
Quoting Nicole Hilt:" uhhhh... Who in their right mind can seriously say they don't want to be a mom anymore?! I just don't ... [snip!] ... want to hear about someone putting their child in danger again just because they are being selfish! It's not just you anymore!"


seriously? you should grow up, not OP. i feel like OP has at least been mature enough even while pregnant to know that she did not want to be a mother. And OP, i agree with the others about looking to give your baby to someone else. It sounds like it is the best option for both your baby and yourself. Being high around your child all of the time doesn't sound healthy for either of you.

BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
21st Jul '12
Quoting Nicole Hilt:" I'm free to express my opinion. and in my opinion, she should give her kid up for adoption if she has these feelings"


After they've already been alive for a year? Already been around a family and gotten used to seeing certain people every day. Not to mention if I did give her up for adoption then I would be disowned my family and left to live on the streets. They don't support me in doing anything, it's like it's their way or the highway. I'm only 18 it's not like I can just up and find my own place on my own, I only work a few hours a week making minimum wage.

AvaMichelle'sMommy 1 child; Plainfield, Illinois 1396 posts
21st Jul '12

OP it may take a while, but you just have to keep at it. If you are not wanting to be a mom, simply because you don't want to adoption is your best option, if you're not wanting to be a mom because of your parents, then try to save save save, there are plenty of places you can get a loan with little to no credit that can get you a decent enough of a car and there are plenty of women shelters that can help you find an apartment, the only way you can prove to your parents is by never giving up, even if it does take a long time. GL OP!

Mama MacGyver* 1 child; Tulsa, Oklahoma 12211 posts
21st Jul '12
Quoting Nicole Hilt:" umm you said you got a job.. save up and get an apartment for yourself and your kid..!! If you loved ... [snip!] ... kid..!! If you loved her like you say you do then you would do something about it, you wouldn't say I don't want to be a mom!"


You are so incredibly ignorant, not to mention a complete b***h.
Congrats that you have perfect baby love for your children, not everyone is cut out to be a mom, especially at such a young age when she was never ready for the baby to begin with. Grow up! You know that you aren't being helpful, just hurtful.

Madi's*Mama Due November 2; 1 child; Holland, Michigan 7391 posts
21st Jul '12
Quoting BG Secrets:" After they've already been alive for a year? Already been around a family and gotten used to seeing ... [snip!] ... I'm only 18 it's not like I can just up and find my own place on my own, I only work a few hours a week making minimum wage."

You said your parents currently have custody? If so, and you really are feeling this way, I would let them keep custody so you can get your life together, got to college (or finish if you are enrolled). Live your life, be a teen. Also, I would seek therapy for the rape, because that could have a lot to do with the feelings.

Andi+Andy=Marley+1 2 kids; Fredericksburg, Virginia 4564 posts
21st Jul '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Nicole Hilt:</b>" umm you said you got a job.. save up and get an apartment for yourself and your kid..!! If you loved ... [snip!] ... kid..!! If you loved her like you say you do then you would do something about it, you wouldn't say I don't want to be a mom!"</blockquote>




Aren't you just f**king perfect! Stop being a horrid bitchface. Just because your life is all rainbows and roses doesn't mean everyone else's is

Mama MacGyver* 1 child; Tulsa, Oklahoma 12211 posts
21st Jul '12
Quoting Andrea Schneider:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Nicole Hilt:</b>" umm you said you got a job.. save up and ... [snip!] ... perfect! Stop being a horrid bitchface. Just because your life is all rainbows and roses doesn't mean everyone else's is"


Seriously!

BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
21st Jul '12
Quoting AvaMichelle'sMommy:" OP it may take a while, but you just have to keep at it. If you are not wanting to be a mom, simply because ... [snip!] ... find an apartment, the only way you can prove to your parents is by never giving up, even if it does take a long time. GL OP!"


Thank you, I don't think I'd be able to handle giving LO up for adoption now so I will just do my best to get us our own place as soon as possible. Talking about it helped me to feel better, hopefully some counseling also helps me.

BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
21st Jul '12
Quoting Carol Woldring:" You said your parents currently have custody? If so, and you really are feeling this way, I would let ... [snip!] ... Live your life, be a teen. Also, I would seek therapy for the rape, because that could have a lot to do with the feelings."


Thank you for the support, this site is the only place that I get any support for my problems. :(