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Mommy&Bay 1 child; Comanche, Texas 15 posts
29th Jul '12
Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" Ok first off I dont know why you are talking badly about your BD to your 5 month old son. And why you ... [snip!] ... he wont remember anything. Anything that is on him. But let him try. Some guys just take a little bit longer to come around. "


I dont talk bad about him . I believe in early impressions. I like talking to him about stuff even though he doesnt understand.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36693 posts
29th Jul '12
Quoting Mommy&Bay:" I dont talk bad about him . I believe in early impressions. I like talking to him about stuff even though he doesnt understand."


Yes but you want to keep things netural about bd.. you are telling him that he is impotent [sp]. Fuck I dont even say that stuff to my son about his dad. I tell him that his dad is busy and cant come to visit him and he is 5.

user banned Due November 7 (boy); 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
29th Jul '12

If he is serious and wants to be involved he can go file for a paternity test for free. They will order child support and he can file in juvenile court for visitation.

Mommy&Bay 1 child; Comanche, Texas 15 posts
29th Jul '12
Quoting Regina Phalange:" I'm not sure what you mean but if he moved to Alaska then he'd have to come back to Texas to see him..."


Yes i have told him he could come visit. he will come down for his frst birthday but thats all.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36693 posts
29th Jul '12
Quoting Mommy&Bay:" Yes i have told him he could come visit. he will come down for his frst birthday but thats all."


Then that is on him. Let him file for custody.... but let it be known that you dont want your son leaving the city wit ha man that your son barely knows until 2... [I dont know if they can do that, but stilll]

Mommy&Bay 1 child; Comanche, Texas 15 posts
29th Jul '12
Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" Yes but you want to keep things netural about bd.. you are telling him that he is impotent [sp]. Fuck ... [snip!] ... I dont even say that stuff to my son about his dad. I tell him that his dad is busy and cant come to visit him and he is 5. "


Did i once say i was talking bad about him!???!?!?! no. i said i want him to be part of his life i tell him about his father all the time. i never talk about where or y or anyting just tell him what hes like. If u dont mind please quit comenting if all your going to do is gripe about somthing i never said.

Mommy&Bay 1 child; Comanche, Texas 15 posts
29th Jul '12
Quoting Smartass *TNTC*:" If he is serious and wants to be involved he can go file for a paternity test for free. They will order child support and he can file in juvenile court for visitation."


Why juvenile court? and he wont file. he says he kows noththing about it and its my job to do it.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36693 posts
29th Jul '12
Quoting Mommy&Bay:" Why juvenile court? and he wont file. he says he kows noththing about it and its my job to do it."



Then dont do it.

Ciara mom of 4 :) Due August 7 (boy); 19 kids; Lansing, Michigan 110 posts
29th Jul '12
Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" Yes but you want to keep things netural about bd.. you are telling him that he is impotent [sp]. Fuck ... [snip!] ... I dont even say that stuff to my son about his dad. I tell him that his dad is busy and cant come to visit him and he is 5. "


There was nothing said about her talking negatively about the dad to the baby this is supposed to be somewhere people can vent it isn't about knocking someone down for asking help...

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36693 posts
29th Jul '12
Quoting Ciara Kirkbride:" There was nothing said about her talking negatively about the dad to the baby this is supposed to be somewhere people can vent it isn't about knocking someone down for asking help..."


Well.. she was telling her son that his dad is incompetent ... So yeah she was.. But whatever.. and you only have 3 posts.. you know oh so much..

Ciara mom of 4 :) Due August 7 (boy); 19 kids; Lansing, Michigan 110 posts
29th Jul '12
Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" Well.. she was telling her son that his dad is incompetent ... So yeah she was.. But whatever.. and you only have 3 posts.. you know oh so much.. "

Oh so how many posts I have matter? I read everything she said never not once was anything bad being said to her son she blankly said she shows him pictures of him so therefore that's irrelevant and all the posts u have been making are negative so why don't u learn to have some common sense and stop being so negative all the time...I however am not going to argue with u cause im too mature and grown for

user banned Due November 7 (boy); 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
30th Jul '12
Quoting Mommy&Bay:" Why juvenile court? and he wont file. he says he kows noththing about it and its my job to do it."


Juvi court is who handles visitation. Child Support Enforcement Agency will do the DNA and the child support order. But visitaton and child support are 2 separate issues. If he wants visitation, then HE can do it. Not your problem. See how motivated he is.

Mommy&Bay 1 child; Comanche, Texas 15 posts
4th Aug '12

Thank you everyone for the advice. No i dont talk bad about him. I was telling yall his short comings and y i dont want him having to big of an influence in my sons life. I recently received paternity papers asking all kinds of info so the battle is soon to begin.