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user banned Due February 3; 16 kids; New York 1070 posts
1st Aug '12
Quoting C♥ck Blocker Frodo:" She asked for advice on ONE topic. That topic was not "should I be screwing 3 different guys" but "could ... [snip!] ... move on? Do I agree with it? No. Do you? Obviously not. Is our opinions going to change what she thinks? Hell no. Why bother?"


Again , thank you!

user banned Due February 3; 16 kids; New York 1070 posts
1st Aug '12
Quoting Stu Padasso:" :!: f**king seriously."


Yea , seriously . Lol . :)

Stu Padasso 2 kids; Henderson, Nevada 14638 posts
1st Aug '12
Quoting Rachel Tyson:" Yea , seriously . Lol . :) "


You shouldn't have to feel ashamed for what you choose to do in the bedroom, all I can do is advise you that you take responsibility for your actions.
Getting on birth control or getting free condoms from Planned Parenthood would be a wonderful start! Just be safe, you know? There's a lot of sexually transmitted diseases out there and when you have sex with someone you're sleeping with everyone they've slept and everyone that person has slept with with and so on and so forth.
Be careful, hun. :)

user banned Due February 3; 16 kids; New York 1070 posts
1st Aug '12
Quoting C♥ck Blocker Frodo:" And obviously, it's NOT. You came on here judging her for her choices, telling her she was deserving ... [snip!] ... the internet that you obviously had sex, so by your logic, you've made it my business. Do you see how stupid that sounds yet??"


OMG THANK YOU!:)You make so much sense!Iv'e already owned up to my decisions.If I'm mature enough to spread my legs then I'm mature enough to tell my parents and keep my kid.

user banned Due February 3; 16 kids; New York 1070 posts
1st Aug '12
Quoting Stu Padasso:" You shouldn't have to feel ashamed for what you choose to do in the bedroom, all I can do is advise ... [snip!] ... sleeping with everyone they've slept and everyone that person has slept with with and so on and so forth. Be careful, hun. :)"


Yea , I already had two STIs . But I got cured.(Me and guy #3 had STIs,we've been through a lot)Those were the only two times I didn't use condoms(for GUY #1&2)because of the timing so we didn't expect to have sex.The next time the timing was great and we were at his house(GUY #3)

user banned Due February 3; 16 kids; New York 1070 posts
1st Aug '12
Quoting C♥ck Blocker Frodo:" You're welcome. I saw where you were owning up to the decisions you made. It's not like you became the ... [snip!] ... f**king owning up to and taking responsibility for, which is more than a lot of teens can say they do, is f**king bullshit. "


I agree. And they were all people I knew since I was 11.It's been a while now.And I was with two of them for quite some time and one I truly love but I don't know what I want that's why I'm not ready for a relationship.I think you can test while your pregnant for paternity testing.But I'll look into it a bit more.And thank you.

Bently'sMommy♥ 1 child; Batavia, IA, United States 106 posts
1st Aug '12
Quoting C♥ck Blocker Frodo:" And obviously, it's NOT. You came on here judging her for her choices, telling her she was deserving ... [snip!] ... the internet that you obviously had sex, so by your logic, you've made it my business. Do you see how stupid that sounds yet??"

I know where in my posts said she 'deserved' anything, lady. I stopped replying to her LAST NIGHT, then you come on here and had to get into the arguement and make this huge deal about it, why? I'm not sure. Hey I said she made it public, and made it everyones business, not that she had to answer to the questions she was asked. (: But I've been with the same guy for two and half years, never been with anyone else. Never had STD's either. And because of young mothers like HER, I get looked down upon. That's where the 'wh**e' and 'sleeping around' comes into the society description of a mother my age. My business because she put out for the world to see, yes. Does she have to answer to me? Nope.

Bently'sMommy♥ 1 child; Batavia, IA, United States 106 posts
1st Aug '12

I know I didn't say anywhere in my posts that she 'deserved' anything*

user banned Due February 3; 16 kids; New York 1070 posts
1st Aug '12
Quoting Bently'sMommy♥:" I know where in my posts said she 'deserved' anything, lady. I stopped replying to her LAST NIGHT, then ... [snip!] ... description of a mother my age. My business because she put out for the world to see, yes. Does she have to answer to me? Nope."


LOL!Um you sound kinda stupid . Because I'm not trying to offend anyone with kids...but your the one with the kid , I'm childless . And I don't care how you look at me.I was with one of them for a year and two months and the other I was with for six months.The other was just a long term friend since childhood.Not like they were street people or anything.

Bently'sMommy♥ 1 child; Batavia, IA, United States 106 posts
1st Aug '12
Quoting Rachel Tyson:" LOL!Um you sound kinda stupid . Because I'm not trying to offend anyone with kids...but your the one ... [snip!] ... I was with for six months.The other was just a long term friend since childhood.Not like they were street people or anything. "

I sound stupid? You want to talk about who sounds stupid? How many people had the hardest time reading your posts? Who was stupid enough to ask what to do to find out if you're pregnant or not? Talking about how I am stupid because I'm the one with a child, when you aren't sure if you are or not and if you are you don't know who the father is? I, am the stupid one? Okay you had a 'relationship' with them at some point, but then sleep with all of them in the same week? Okay, makes sense. I'm the 'stupid' one.

Bently'sMommy♥ 1 child; Batavia, IA, United States 106 posts
1st Aug '12
Quoting C♥ck Blocker Frodo:" Good, because hopefully she puts you on ignore. People don't look down on teen moms because they think ... [snip!] ... NOT my business how you got pregnant, or the circumstances. It's not yours when it comes to OP sleeping with whom she wants. "

I don't want any problems with you. But yeah, they do. I hear it every day. You're right we're all mothers on here, which is why I don't want to fight with you.

user banned Due February 3; 16 kids; New York 1070 posts
1st Aug '12
Quoting Bently'sMommy♥:" I sound stupid? You want to talk about who sounds stupid? How many people had the hardest time reading ... [snip!] ... with them at some point, but then sleep with all of them in the same week? Okay, makes sense. I'm the 'stupid' one."

Um first of all . It wasn't that I'm 'stupid' I had a hard time elaborating . Which is normal.You need to stop judging people when your IN THE SAME POSITION AS ALL OF US!And stop speaking for other teen moms.That makes them stupid to judge when your in the SAME POSITION.So,if that's not stupid I seriously don't know what is then . Smh..

user banned Due February 3; 16 kids; New York 1070 posts
1st Aug '12
Quoting C♥ck Blocker Frodo:" She doesn't sound stupid. Name calling just proves people who say you're immature and can't act mature ... [snip!] ... that she has a child on the way. There is nothing wrong with that, she is, like you, taking responsibility for her actions."

And my mother had a baby at 16 and 18 and is VERY judgemental!My father on the other hand is very understanding although , he doesn't agree with me having sex.It's hard to talk to people about how I'm feeling because they don't comprehend or they judge me.I feel comfortable telling friends but my father doesn't want me to and he thinks that I shouldn't trust anyone.He makes a lot of decisions for me.So I only talk to my ex boyfriend Clemente(Guy #3 ; we used a condom on the 25th) he's very understanding and supportive.I HAVE NO SUPPORT!And reread what I said again , because I clearly didn't say how do you get pregnant.Why would I ask a question involving all of this if I WOULDN'T KNOW HOW TO GET PREGNANT?I very well know how to get pregnant.I was wondering if my chances are high ,moderate or not.Shessh .

user banned Due February 3; 16 kids; New York 1070 posts
1st Aug '12

user banned Due February 3; 16 kids; New York 1070 posts
1st Aug '12
Quoting C♥ck Blocker Frodo:" She doesn't sound stupid. Name calling just proves people who say you're immature and can't act mature ... [snip!] ... that she has a child on the way. There is nothing wrong with that, she is, like you, taking responsibility for her actions."


Exactly.I STRONGLY AGREE.