user banned 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4666 posts
5th Aug '12
Quoting omg im pregnant!:" no thats not what i ment im gonna edit tht. its just the point that when it was her first time she got all the attention and shit i just hate it when ever i say something tht she has to one up it... "


Ive been pregnant with my sister, cousins, and friends with my first, second and now third child so i kind of understand how you feel but i would also have them as maybe pregnancy mentors. Shes been there and done that. Maybe you can go to her for advice being that this is your first bc there are some things in pregnancy that we dont understand. To me its not about getting attention, although its nice, its about getting the necessary care for yourself and baby so that you can grow a healthy baby. Im sure both your babies will be loved and get all the attention in the world from your family when they arrive. Dont stress yaself over it.

Gemmas mommy! 1 child; Deposit, New York 1893 posts
5th Aug '12
Quoting A❤T=P[Baking]:" you can edit and try to spin yourself in a more favorable light, but you have been quoted. You sound ... [snip!] ... are pissedd. You knew she was pregnant, if you couldn't handle sharing the attention, you should have waited to get knocked up."


no i changed it cuz i didnt mean it like tht and f**k you you dont know shit ... shes the one who did it on purpose not me...

Mama On The Run 3 kids; 781 posts
5th Aug '12
Quoting A❤T=P[Baking]:" you can edit and try to spin yourself in a more favorable light, but you have been quoted. You sound ... [snip!] ... are pissedd. You knew she was pregnant, if you couldn't handle sharing the attention, you should have waited to get knocked up."


THIS! I'm 28, pregnant with my third. My neice is having her first, she's 21. We're not acting like idiots! And we're due days apart.

aperkins Due December 31; 4 kids; Indiana 900 posts
5th Aug '12

I think personally you should enjoy your pregnancy no matter what she has to say or how she one up's you.



You will have your time to shine when you have your baby or at your shower. Just dont give in and just walk away when there isnt something you like.



Neither of you are right in what you are doing. Time to grow up and just enjoy your pregnancy and not what she is doing.

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
5th Aug '12
Quoting omg im pregnant!:" no i changed it cuz i didnt mean it like tht and f**k you you dont know shit ... shes the one who did it on purpose not me..."


So, because she planned to have a 3rd child, it's less important than your accidental first?

Housewife & Co 1 child; Washington, District of Columbia 600 posts
5th Aug '12

Why should she put her pregnancy on stand-still just because you want all of the attention? Or because it's not her first pregnancy? Her life choices are hers. Just worry about your pregnancy. It should be enough for you to be excited about it, you don't need other people's attention just because your pregnant.

Gemmas mommy! 1 child; Deposit, New York 1893 posts
5th Aug '12
Quoting Tristan Carman:" I'm in a similar situation with my cousin. She's 3 weeks behind me though. I'm super excited about my ... [snip!] ... :) My mom always tells me that my pregnancy seems more important because it is mine. Others don't necessarily feel like that."


thats alot like mine doctors told me i wont be able to get pregnant. so its a huge deal to me even tho i didnt mean that hers isnt as important it came out wrong...

Laventure_Adventure 2 kids; Pennsylvania 675 posts
5th Aug '12
Quoting Landon's Mommy *22wks*:" Well I could say the same about my SIL. She's 34 weeks. I'm 22 weeks. This is her first and this is ... [snip!] ... so is anyone's 2nd, 3rd, 4th, etc..... a pregnancy is a pregnancy. We're all blessed so why even make it like a competition???"

You know I couldn't agree more about the competition part, because my SIL is 4 almost 5 months pregnant with her 3rd and she has an 8 month old as of yesterday. My in-laws are trying to convince me to have a 3rd (which I put my foot down because it's my body and got on a long term birth control) but they go by numbers and want everything 'even' with genders of babies. Lol I'm not going to just pop a kid out to satisfy your wants, my life is MY life and I am happy with my two girls. People can have the strangest renditions of cause sometimes.

Leanne Stanford 2 kids; Wallsend, United Kingdom 101 posts
5th Aug '12

this sounds like a school play ground . than anything else. being pregnant for the first time is scary and good at the same time . its not any less more special or differant than the first . the aunt shud have some sort of consideration for a 1st time mother. with out bein over powering. enough sed

Olivia Foxworth 3 kids; Albuquerque, New Mexico 4184 posts
5th Aug '12
Quoting omg im pregnant!:" i never siad she couldnt talk about her pregnancy i just think its bullshit tht eveytime i say something ... [snip!] ... for month i think it was stupid of her she has 3 diff baby daddys and 3 babys . i think she should have taken things slower. "

That's not your choice to make, it's not your life!!

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36539 posts
status 5th Aug '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting A❤T=P[Baking]:</b>" So, because she planned to have a 3rd child, it's less important than your accidental first?"</blockquote>




This.




Stop acting like a brat.

Gemmas mommy! 1 child; Deposit, New York 1893 posts
5th Aug '12
Quoting Landon's Mommy *22wks*:" Well I could say the same about my SIL. She's 34 weeks. I'm 22 weeks. This is her first and this is ... [snip!] ... so is anyone's 2nd, 3rd, 4th, etc..... a pregnancy is a pregnancy. We're all blessed so why even make it like a competition???"


i didnt mean it like tht i just think shes felt alot of it before and she shouldnt try to one up me everytime im not trying to make it a competeition i just want to share cuz it all amazes me cuz its new all new to me but i never get a chance to.

Landon's Mommy *+2* Due October 20; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Cincinnati, Ohio 14943 posts
5th Aug '12
Quoting Mommy_2_peas:" You know I couldn't agree more about the competition part, because my SIL is 4 almost 5 months pregnant ... [snip!] ... your wants, my life is MY life and I am happy with my two girls. People can have the strangest renditions of cause sometimes."


I couldn't agree more. People suck in general, especially family members lol ESPECIALLY in-laws. That'll never change!

Gemmas mommy! 1 child; Deposit, New York 1893 posts
5th Aug '12
Quoting djhoselyn:" Why should she put her pregnancy on stand-still just because you want all of the attention? Or because ... [snip!] ... It should be enough for you to be excited about it, you don't need other people's attention just because your pregnant."


1. i never said she should put hers on stand still
2. its not about attention i would like to share with my family too
3. her shit with her family is a big deal to me cuz im the one she pushes her other 2 kids off on...90% of the time.

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
5th Aug '12
Quoting omg im pregnant!:" i didnt mean it like tht i just think shes felt alot of it before and she shouldnt try to one up me ... [snip!] ... to make it a competeition i just want to share cuz it all amazes me cuz its new all new to me but i never get a chance to. "


A lot of women actually enjoy sharing their experience. It doesn't have to be a competition.
You posted about showing off your bump, aren't you do in Feb?