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    • yes -- Votes: 62
    • no -- Votes: 3
tom n tina Aqua84 1 child; California 7165 posts
6th Aug '12

awe shucks!

John Mayer. 2 kids; Modesto, California 21992 posts
6th Aug '12

Of course I would want to know, so I could get my kids and leave his ass.

BαtMαɳ Gotham, __, United States 66956 posts
6th Aug '12

While you were married?

bia. 2 kids; ., ., Portugal 74634 posts
status 6th Aug '12
Quoting Keyboard Warrior.:" Of course I would want to know, so I could get my kids and leave his ass."


:wink:

Preston, Adam, Eli's Momm 19 kids; Colorado Springs, Colorado 4057 posts
6th Aug '12

I would want to know... I dont deserve to have stuff kept from me... And i deserve better than someone who is going to do that to me.

I♥RYLEIGH 49 kids; Windsor, Ontario 10437 posts
6th Aug '12
Quoting Batman ♥:" While you were married?"


Why would you not want to know? I wouldn't turn a blind eye.

BαtMαɳ Gotham, __, United States 66956 posts
6th Aug '12
Quoting triple'x*x:" Why would you not want to know? I wouldn't turn a blind eye."


:!:

Crystal Mom of 4 4 kids; New York 6309 posts
6th Aug '12
Quoting Keyboard Warrior.:" Of course I would want to know, so I could get my kids and leave his ass."


Exactly.

yo moyo 1 child; Ishim, Russian Federation 1335 posts
6th Aug '12

I'd say yeah, I'd wanna know.

Aqua84 1 child; California 7165 posts
6th Aug '12

But if you have been together for over 10 years and have a seemingly happy life...and you didn't want to leave because you loved him!?

NicoThunders 2 kids; Michigan 12847 posts
6th Aug '12

I would definitely want to know.
That way I could file for divorce and kick his ass out.
Not worth staying with a cheater just to "protect the kids".

Preston, Adam, Eli's Momm 19 kids; Colorado Springs, Colorado 4057 posts
6th Aug '12

I would feel like totql crap not knowing and walking around all the time thinking it could be... And if he does that can he really say he truely loves you?

iLL-Legal Unicorn Alien 3 kids; New York, TX, United States 37137 posts
6th Aug '12
Quoting Sadie: So in ♥:"


No amount of time would make cheating OK to me...I don't care if we've been together 10, 20, 30 years. I don't want to live a lie, I have the right to be the one to choose to stay or not. I have the right to know there is someone else. I don't want to be kept in the dark and pretend things are OK.

NicoThunders 2 kids; Michigan 12847 posts
6th Aug '12
Quoting Sadie: So in ♥:"


It wouldn't matter how long we've been together. If he's willing to cheat then the relationship can't be that important to him.

Aqua84 1 child; California 7165 posts
6th Aug '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting iLL-Legal Alien T -7 wks:</b>" No amount of time would make cheating OK to me...I don't care if we've been together 10, 20, 30 years. ... [snip!] ... to stay or not. I have the right to know there is someone else. I don't want to be kept in the dark and pretend things are OK."</blockquote>




Pretty well said
I wonder if its easier to say you would want to know when your not in the situation ya know as a outsider looking in...