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He said he doesn't want to see his son anymore. lolarose 1 child; London, United Kingdom 217 posts
8th Aug '12

because of me.
I did nothing to him, all I did was not let him inside the flat. He came knocking at 2am and expecting me to open the door,. he was saying that it was an emergency and something happened to where he lived. I told him to go away as it wasn't my problem as we are not together and that it was my choice who I let in. and if you need help go to your current girlfriend not me. too bad he ain't currently working otherwise I wouldn't have no problem in filling out a form for csa to make him pay.



There is another problem :
I think the girl who he cheated on me with had his baby and she doesn't want anything to do with him, I don't think he even knows she kept it .. I think she is in a relationship with another guy. Should I tell him about the baby just incase he doesn't know or should I keep my nose out.



Thank you everyone.

user banned 2 kids; North Carolina 10274 posts
8th Aug '12

I'd leave it alone.

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56008 posts
8th Aug '12

A. Good on your for not letting him in at 2 AM

B. Still go after child support. He will HAVE to get a job and pay or risk his license and going to jail.

C. Don't tell him a thing about what you suspect. It isn't your business and it isn't your news to share.

Carter&Violet♥ She Gone! 2 kids; Virginia 14177 posts
8th Aug '12

Nose out, just becuse it's the same time frame doesn't mean you know that she wasn't sleeping with other people.

lolarose 1 child; London, United Kingdom 217 posts
8th Aug '12
Quoting Carter&Violet♥20:" Nose out, just becuse it's the same time frame doesn't mean you know that she wasn't sleeping with other people."


So I shouldn't feel guilty for not letting him know?

Carter&Violet♥ She Gone! 2 kids; Virginia 14177 posts
8th Aug '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting lolarose:</b>" So I shouldn't feel guilty for not letting him know?"</blockquote>



No it could be anyone's baby, she could have had multiple partners.

The Great Mustachio Suck It, PO, Uzbekistan 9383 posts
8th Aug '12
Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" A. Good on your for not letting him in at 2 AM B. Still go after child support. He will HAVE to get ... [snip!] ... going to jail. C. Don't tell him a thing about what you suspect. It isn't your business and it isn't your news to share."


:!:



Couldn't have said it better if I tried.

Lin Brown 2 kids; Tunnel Hill, Georgia 1797 posts
8th Aug '12

no stay out of it, maybe there is a reason why she doesn't want him to know and you may not know if its actually his.

lolarose 1 child; London, United Kingdom 217 posts
8th Aug '12
Quoting The Great Mustachio:" :!: Couldn't have said it better if I tried."


So I shouldn't feel bad for not letting him know?

lolarose 1 child; London, United Kingdom 217 posts
8th Aug '12
Quoting Lin Brown:" no stay out of it, maybe there is a reason why she doesn't want him to know and you may not know if its actually his. "


There is a chance it's his because the dates work out, but I ain't really bothered about her, I just feel guilty for not letting him know because I don't think he does.

Lin Brown 2 kids; Tunnel Hill, Georgia 1797 posts
8th Aug '12
Quoting lolarose:" There is a chance it's his because the dates work out, but I ain't really bothered about her, I just feel guilty for not letting him know because I don't think he does."

no you shouldn't feel bad, like I said, maybe there is a reason why she doesn't want him to know.

Summerfrost 51 kids; Massachusetts 6571 posts
8th Aug '12
Quoting Lin Brown:" no you shouldn't feel bad, like I said, maybe there is a reason why she doesn't want him to know. "


... Maybe she doesn't want him to know because he's a jerk to her too. :)

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36477 posts
8th Aug '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting lolarose:</b>" So I shouldn't feel bad for not letting him know?"</blockquote>




f**k no... harsh but not.

SO + Me=3 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 201 posts
8th Aug '12
Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" A. Good on your for not letting him in at 2 AM B. Still go after child support. He will HAVE to get ... [snip!] ... going to jail. C. Don't tell him a thing about what you suspect. It isn't your business and it isn't your news to share."

very well put, I approve this message



(too many political ads on TV...)

lolarose 1 child; London, United Kingdom 217 posts
8th Aug '12
Quoting Summerfrost:" ... Maybe she doesn't want him to know because he's a jerk to her too. :)"


If that guy was dating a supermodel he still wouldn't be happy. He is a jerk to all the girls he has dated and I'm just waiting for the current girlfriend to find out what he is really like.