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Would it make me a bad person V & E's Mom! 2 kids; Stockton, California 4782 posts
10th Aug '12

to consider abortion, for a baby we tried to conceive..



god i want this baby so much. but i dont know if i can do this alone..



i really need help. im so hurt and heartbroken and have no where to go. no idea of what to do.

♥ meow 1 child; Palm Bay, Florida 2359 posts
10th Aug '12
Quoting V's Mom! [EXPECTING #2!]:" to consider abortion, for a baby we tried to conceive.. god i want this baby so much. but i dont know ... [snip!] ... know if i can do this alone.. i really need help. im so hurt and heartbroken and have no where to go. no idea of what to do."


I don't think so.
I would just advise don't make a rash decision (whether it be abortion or keeping it)

~The Lunar Flower~ Due January 13; 1 child; Alabama 6738 posts
10th Aug '12

It would be 100% your choice. If you really want the baby then I know you can take the steps necessary to take care of it when it gets here :) I really hope things get better for you. I'd think on it for a few days to a week to see what you believe is going to be the right choice for you & remember, you can always file for childsupport & there are organizations that aim to help those in your situation

BαtMαɳ Secret Bat Cave, CA, United States 53489 posts
10th Aug '12

Absolutely not. Circumstances are constantly changing. The reasons for trying may not apply anymore.



You have to consider yourself & your current situation above anything.

WeenieMachine 3 kids; Japan 27915 posts
10th Aug '12

Not at all. I'm so sorry for your guy bailing on you- what a crappy thing to do. There are resources out there for you whether you decide to abort or not.

Jessica- Mom of 4 52 kids; Topeka, Kansas 4000 posts
10th Aug '12

Nope you only know what is right for your situation. Sounds like you kinda might know what ya want to do. GL momma

Devil's Advocate Beverly Hills, California 18191 posts
10th Aug '12

I'm assuming you are no longer with the person you TTC'd with?




If you don't want to do it alone, there is no shame in abortion at all. Do what is best for YOU. This is your choice.

Hocus Pocus Due September 27; Japan 1096 posts
10th Aug '12

You and only you can make that choice. I could never do it!! But that's me. My kids are the greatest gift ever and when I was left pregnant and alone I didn't think I could do it but I did. You are stronger then u think but u must be the one to live with the result in the end

Promises*Mommy 33 kids; Wildomar, California 1457 posts
10th Aug '12

That's just a very controversial topic. Only you know what's right for you. I had one, and though I feel horrible for doing it, I also know that it was not the right time for a baby. Now I'm pregnant again and happy. Do what's good for you :-)

Piecey. 3 kids; K-Town, KL, Germany 61827 posts
status 10th Aug '12

No it wouldn't mak eyyou a bad person. Circumstances change. I wish you the best.

V & E's Mom! 2 kids; Stockton, California 4782 posts
10th Aug '12
Quoting ♥ meow:" I don't think so. I would just advise don't make a rash decision (whether it be abortion or keeping it)"



of course. but at 9 weeks, i would rather not get too much further and be forced to keep a baby. i wanted this baby so bad, and unfortunately my life just took a shit on me. i need to do whats best for my child i have now, and try to make it out of this crappy situation atleast somewhat okay.



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Super Mommy! Due July 31; 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Costa Mesa, California 9151 posts
10th Aug '12

No, it would not. I'm sorry he left, I read your other post. You do what's best for you.

tooodles 240 kids; Thailand 5075 posts
10th Aug '12

It would absolutely not make you a bad person, but do not do something until you completely think it through. You can do it alone, shit Ill be doing it alone with 2 kiddos come fall time yes it will be tough but its totally doable. If you feel its best for you to abort or adopt then thats fine to. Do what you feel is best for you and what will make you happy.

♥ meow 1 child; Palm Bay, Florida 2359 posts
10th Aug '12
Quoting V's Mom! [EXPECTING #2!]:" of course. but at 9 weeks, i would rather not get too much further and be forced to keep a baby. i ... [snip!] ... me. i need to do whats best for my child i have now, and try to make it out of this crappy situation atleast somewhat okay. i"


completely understandable
Do what's best for you
I wish you all the best

Devil's Advocate Beverly Hills, California 18191 posts
10th Aug '12
Quoting V's Mom! [EXPECTING #2!]:" of course. but at 9 weeks, i would rather not get too much further and be forced to keep a baby. i ... [snip!] ... me. i need to do whats best for my child i have now, and try to make it out of this crappy situation atleast somewhat okay. i"


Do what is best for your current child as well as the one you are carrying. Consider what you would have to sacrifice for this baby and whether it is worth taking a chance on. You would NOT be a bad person at all.