Drunk Blair Waldorf 2 kids; Alpharetta, Georgia 19208 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting the grace life:" She earns the pom poms when she obeys, or we see her doing something that is kind...etc. We take the ... [snip!] ... When she reaches the line (like she did in this photo) she gets to go pick out a little prize from like the dollar store. "


Rayne's class does this monthly. Except of course they actually use marbles. And if they fill the jar by the end of the month, they get a prize such as pajama day.



The monthly goals don't work for Rayne, though. It's too long for him. They also earn tickets all week long and every five tickets, he gets a prize. That also doesn't work. It's too long. We have a treasure box at home that he gets to pick from on good days. He still has bad days because he can't keep his eye on the prize at the end of the day.



So we're trying a new sticker chart. For every good thing he does, he gets a sticker or multiple stickers depending on how quickly we want him to earn the reward because he's been incredibly defiant and argumentative and now it's to the point where he refuses to even TRY and uses the excuse he's afraid to fail.



So he picks a goal and after he gets 10 stickers, he gets the reward immediately.



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Piecey. 3 kids; K-Town, KL, Germany 61862 posts
status 21st Nov '12

Should have started that brine sooner

homes cool 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 60900 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting Blair Waldorf (SuperKink):" Rayne's class does this monthly. Except of course they actually use marbles. And if they fill the jar ... [snip!] ... and uses the excuse he's afraid to fail. So he picks a goal and after he gets 10 stickers, he gets the reward immediately. "


It is all about finding what works for your kid!



This works for K because there are both negative and positive consequences. She has to have both, or she's just a mess.

user banned 1 child; Portland, Maine 20613 posts
21st Nov '12

f**k that catchup made me hungry :x and reminded me to set my alarm so I can be up early to fight over the stove and the mixer with my mom lol

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
21st Nov '12

Everyone's prepping for Thanksgiving dinner or shopping or pre-cooking or planning....
And we just get to go to DHs grandmas and eat there :D
Can't lie, super glad no one ever makes the drive to visit us :lol:

user banned 2 kids; Fucking, Austria 36337 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting Patti.:" Ugh Im a screamer. But f**k with a bunch of a*****es I gotta be louder than them. :evil:"

Mine oldest is only 2 so I'd feel horrible! lol

homes cool 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 60900 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting Mayhem ♥:" Everyone's prepping for Thanksgiving dinner or shopping or pre-cooking or planning.... And we just get ... [snip!] ... And we just get to go to DHs grandmas and eat there :D Can't lie, super glad no one ever makes the drive to visit us :lol:"


Nobody is making me cook this year! We rotate years, and it's my year to cook nothing!

homes cool 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 60900 posts
21st Nov '12

Insanity, right here.



These people (Jax, NC) are already camping out for Black Friday deals...it isn't even Thursday.
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user banned Indiana 33802 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting ℳary ℐane:" Mine oldest is only 2 so I'd feel horrible! lol "


LMAO Just wait until your kids get older :)

user banned 1 child; Portland, Maine 20613 posts
21st Nov '12

I want to go downstairs and get cereal or a sandwich or something, but that would require pants. And I'm happy sitting in my underwear in my room 8)

kthx. TTC since Nov 2012; Cleves, Ohio 65262 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting the grace life:" Insanity, right here. These people (Jax, NC) are already camping out for Black Friday deals...it isn't even Thursday. "


Oh my.....

user banned 2 kids; Fucking, Austria 36337 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting Patti.:" LMAO Just wait until your kids get older :)"

Oh, I know! I am not looking forward to having bratty teenage boys.



I pray they aren't too bad. lol

user banned 1 child; Portland, Maine 20613 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting the grace life:" Insanity, right here. These people (Jax, NC) are already camping out for Black Friday deals...it isn't even Thursday. "


If I saw that at my Best Buy I'd want to set fire to the tents. For some reason that shit rubs me the absolute wrong way.

user banned Indiana 33802 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting ℳary ℐane:" Oh, I know! I am not looking forward to having bratty teenage boys. I pray they aren't too bad. lol "


Boys are such a*****es. Im trying to get mine not to be such a*****es though.. One day at a time

user banned 2 kids; Fucking, Austria 36337 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting the grace life:" Insanity, right here. These people (Jax, NC) are already camping out for Black Friday deals...it isn't even Thursday. "

For dvd's and tv's.



People are nuts. :?