Grniz 2 kids; Illinois 45669 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting May ♥:" Since I'm 17 and think diffrentley then y'all I "don't know shit". Its clear to me alot of people in here are closed minded as f**k, and can't handle opinions diffrent than their own."


I'm not tying to be abitch cause I dont' know the background since I just logged in... but I honestly think you'd act differently..
this is cming from someone who was in an abusive relationship verbally, physically and mentally for 5 1/2 years...
and it started when I was 17.

Grniz 2 kids; Illinois 45669 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting May ♥:" Since I'm 17 and think diffrentley then y'all I "don't know shit". Its clear to me alot of people in here are closed minded as f**k, and can't handle opinions diffrent than their own."


I'm not tying to be abitch cause I dont' know the background since I just logged in... but I honestly think you'd act differently..
this is cming from someone who was in an abusive relationship verbally, physically and mentally for 5 1/2 years...
and it started when I was 17.

Legendary 2 kids; Beverly Hills, California 59667 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting May ♥:" Since I'm 17 and think diffrentley then y'all I "don't know shit". Its clear to me alot of people in here are closed minded as f**k, and can't handle opinions diffrent than their own."


It's not about being closed minded, you're a teenager, likely yet to pay a real grown up bill or have any real responsibility of your own. I don't think you know much of anything about life. There is no way that everyone in K&S (Many of who disagree with each other on the regular) all share one common ground, and that being YOU not knowing wtf you're talking about on this subject.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36713 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting Curlyheadedfck:" I'm not tying to be abitch cause I dont' know the background since I just logged in... but I honestly ... [snip!] ... someone who was in an abusive relationship verbally, physically and mentally for 5 1/2 years... and it started when I was 17."


Same here...



I look at it differently than others do. Because Ill be DAMNED if I am back in that place.

user banned 1 child; Portland, Maine 20613 posts
25th Nov '12

If it were the other way around and she had beaten the shit out of him twice because he slapped her after walking in on her cheating she would be getting her ass chewed out in that thread. Double standard my ass.

Emily Dickinson 18 kids; Indiana 57849 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting May ♥:" I wouldn't slap my SO in anger :? Thats the point. And if I did, his first reaction would not be to ... [snip!] ... would not be to walk away.. he would probably beat the shit out of me. *shrugs* I guess because his mother traumatized him."


Well I guess I am a glad that I have a better husband than you do. One that was raised by a father that taught him that hitting women isn't okay.

I slapped my husband once in anger - before we were ever married. You know what he did? He grabbed me and he held me until I calmed down.

user banned Altadena, California 11084 posts
25th Nov '12

Im not even catching up I do not want to read ignorant statements.

Grniz 2 kids; Illinois 45669 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Same here... I look at it differently than others do. Because Ill be DAMNED if I am back in that place. "


Same here.... It's a dark place I don't ever wanna go back.. I'll be damned if a man EVER lays a hand on me again.

Legendary 2 kids; Beverly Hills, California 59667 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting I'm Marbles:" Im not even catching up I do not want to read ignorant statements. "


It got SO bad.. your mind would blow up.

[Boats&Hoes] 2 kids; Youngstown, Ohio 62980 posts
25th Nov '12

Don't f**king tell me you're gonna bring me a box of clothes or this and that for the baby, then don't bring em. I had shit I needed to do, but I stood here waiting for you to come. I don't need shit from you, if I have to I'll do 3 or 4 loads a day so the little bit of clothes my son does have can be enough. Just don't keep me waiting and promise something you had no intention of doing.

user banned (boy); 2 kids; f**king, Austria 36337 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting May ♥:" Lol okay. It's nice to know what other people *think* I would do. :) It can be argued all day, but I ... [snip!] ... far. I don't get whats not simple about "Don't put your f**king hands on somebody if you don't wanna be hit back." *shrugs*"

What if he stabbed the shit out of her? She had it coming, right?

❀Sarah❀ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Cocking, EU, Europe 126019 posts
status 25th Nov '12
Quoting Emily Dickinson:" Well I guess I am a glad that I have a better husband than you do. One that was raised by a father ... [snip!] ... my husband once in anger - before we were ever married. You know what he did? He grabbed me and he held me until I calmed down."


I think that is the perfect response to a slap from your SO

JΔ$ Georgia 78724 posts
25th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ℳary ℐane:</b>" Would if he stabbed the shit out of her? She had it coming, right?"</blockquote>




Duh. If she would have died as a result, she had it coming of course.

Emily Dickinson 18 kids; Indiana 57849 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:" I think that is the perfect response to a slap from your SO"


He knew I wasn't going to hurt him. He's 5'9 and 230 lbs. I was 5'4 and 175 pounds. He also knew that I wasn't hitting him to hurt him - I was angry and I was uncontrollable and couldn't think straight. Thankfully, he loved me enough to show me compassion instead of hatred.

I would have HATED to be him if he had hurt me in any way. Despite what I had done, my daddy and brothers would have killed him. :shock:

❀Sarah❀ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Cocking, EU, Europe 126019 posts
status 25th Nov '12
Quoting Emily Dickinson:" He knew I wasn't going to hurt him. He's 5'9 and 230 lbs. I was 5'4 and 175 pounds. He also knew that ... [snip!] ... HATED to be him if he had hurt me in any way. Despite what I had done, my daddy and brothers would have killed him. :shock:"


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