May♥ 1 child; Texas 9183 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:" I think that is the perfect response to a slap from your SO"



So let me guess, if a chick would've been slapped by her SO out of anger... that wouldv'e been okay right? And she shouldn't have done nothing but just stand there and comfort him? Lmao. Now this is just a f**king joke.




Lol okay I'm done talking about this... :roll:

Grniz 2 kids; Illinois 45669 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting Emily Dickinson:" He knew I wasn't going to hurt him. He's 5'9 and 230 lbs. I was 5'4 and 175 pounds. He also knew that ... [snip!] ... HATED to be him if he had hurt me in any way. Despite what I had done, my daddy and brothers would have killed him. :shock:"


There is a line of guys starting with my daddy and brother that if my ex ever shows his face around here again... he'd be lucky to walk away without every bone broken :oops:

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36713 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting Curlyheadedfck:" Same here.... It's a dark place I don't ever wanna go back.. I'll be damned if a man EVER lays a hand on me again."



Yeah. out of 6 years I really dont remember shit. I dont remember my son being a baby, nor holidays. Ive blocked most of it out. I still get verbally abused by him sometimes even when I try to block it out.

Grniz 2 kids; Illinois 45669 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting May ♥:" So let me guess, if a chick would've been slapped by her SO out of anger... that wouldv'e been okay ... [snip!] ... but just stand there and comfort him? Lmao. Now this is just a f**king joke. Lol okay I'm done talking about this... :roll:"


A real man doesn't hit a woman. NO MATTER WHAT the circumstances are.

JΔ$ Georgia 78699 posts
25th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting May ♥:</b>" So let me guess, if a chick would've been slapped by her SO out of anger... that wouldv'e been okay ... [snip!] ... but just stand there and comfort him? Lmao. Now this is just a f**king joke. Lol okay I'm done talking about this... :roll:"</blockquote>




Who said it was okay?



Did anyone say it was okay? Oh, no one? Oh okay. May, wtf are you on?

Emily Dickinson 18 kids; Indiana 57849 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting May ♥:" So let me guess, if a chick would've been slapped by her SO out of anger... that wouldv'e been okay ... [snip!] ... but just stand there and comfort him? Lmao. Now this is just a f**king joke. Lol okay I'm done talking about this... :roll:"


If he had slapped me like that in the heat of the moment and was crying and freaking out and truly uncontrollable, you are damned right that I would have tried to hold him and comfort him.



ETA: I never once said that what I did was okay. In fact, he told me to leave that night and I thought that my relationship was OVER. The problem you are seeing here is that you don't have to "beat the shit" out of someone to let them know it wasn't okay. He made sure I knew it.

Bawse Litchfield, NY, United States 72202 posts
25th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting May ♥:</b>" So let me guess, if a chick would've been slapped by her SO out of anger... that wouldv'e been okay ... [snip!] ... but just stand there and comfort him? Lmao. Now this is just a f**king joke. Lol okay I'm done talking about this... :roll:"</blockquote>



You're a f**king joke.
Not one person said her slapping him was ok....and it wouldn't be ok if it were the other way around. Equally, it wouldn't be ok for a woman to brutally beat her man.

❀Sarah❀ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Cocking, EU, Europe 125987 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting Emily Dickinson:" If he had slapped me like that in the heat of the moment and was crying and freaking out and truly uncontrollable, you are damned right that I would have tried to hold him and comfort him. "


I would do the same. My husband is not an angry person anymore and if he were to get to that point I know he would need help not to be slapped back.

Legendary 2 kids; Beverly Hills, California 59667 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting May ♥:" So let me guess, if a chick would've been slapped by her SO out of anger... that wouldv'e been okay ... [snip!] ... but just stand there and comfort him? Lmao. Now this is just a f**king joke. Lol okay I'm done talking about this... :roll:"


She could have slapped him back and I wouldn't have said a word, although the right thing to do would be walk away.



What she shouldn't do, is put on a pair of steel toe boots and kick him all over his body. Come back 10 minutes later and attack him with a weapon.



But you're slow, ignorant ass doesn't understand a word I or anyone else is saying so what's the point? Idiot.

May♥ 1 child; Texas 9183 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting Curlyheadedfck:" A real man doesn't hit a woman. NO MATTER WHAT the circumstances are."



Are you f**king kidding me? Wtf? That is one of the oldest, most ignorant statements in the f**king book... Damn it's 2012 and I thought we were way past the dumb ass mindset.

Emily Dickinson 18 kids; Indiana 57849 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting Curlyheadedfck:" A real man doesn't hit a woman. NO MATTER WHAT the circumstances are."


I am not disagreeing with you here - but I do want to make one clarification.

I have gotten into knock down, drag out fights with people I was not in a relationship with. Boys (since it was in highschool), not men. I do not fault them for hitting me back - or attempting to. I was literally punching them in the face repeatedly. THAT, IMO, is different.



Legendary 2 kids; Beverly Hills, California 59667 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting May ♥:" Are you f**king kidding me? Wtf? That is one of the oldest, most ignorant statements in the f**king book... Damn it's 2012 and I thought we were way past the dumb ass mindset."


Dude, you're dating a child with mommy issues. What the f**k do you know about "real men" ?

Bawse Litchfield, NY, United States 72202 posts
25th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting May ♥:</b>" Are you f**king kidding me? Wtf? That is one of the oldest, most ignorant statements in the f**king book... Damn it's 2012 and I thought we were way past the dumb ass mindset."</blockquote>




As the child of a woman who ended up being murdered by her abusive husband....you should really stfu now. You are being ignorant and slightly offensive to any of us who have been affected by domestic violence.

Grniz 2 kids; Illinois 45669 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting May ♥:" Are you f**king kidding me? Wtf? That is one of the oldest, most ignorant statements in the f**king book... Damn it's 2012 and I thought we were way past the dumb ass mindset."


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Emily Dickinson 18 kids; Indiana 57849 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting May ♥:" Are you f**king kidding me? Wtf? That is one of the oldest, most ignorant statements in the f**king book... Damn it's 2012 and I thought we were way past the dumb ass mindset."



It's okay, dear.
I thought I knew everything at 17 too.



I am not at all trying to be condescending. Its the truth. One day, your opinions on a lot of things will change. It comes with maturity.