smASHface 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Chicago, IL, United States 57887 posts
Dec 11th '12
Quoting B&R + J:" Why don't doctors like to do VBAC's?"


they like the money surgery brings...



I honestly really don't know because from the things I've learned, the risks seem pretty much even. I will be looking though because I want a labor and birth naturally...

smASHface 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Chicago, IL, United States 57887 posts
Dec 11th '12
Quoting Lovelyyy KD*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Nichole+3girls:</b>" I can dream. :( My 3rd section was ... [snip!] ... is that it's tilted, which by the way my doc was talking is what I'm pretty sure it is. Which means it won't spread at all "/"


I'm not sure I'll get mine either mainly because my body has never gone into labor...even at 41 weeks, I had zero dilation so I just think my body fails me completely....

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23103 posts
Dec 11th '12

Amy (I'm Marbles), she had her baby. Before the year end.

Blaine Edwards 1 child; Georgia 13858 posts
Dec 11th '12

i used to think you were alright..maybe a little misunderstood....
now i see that you're thrown.

cfxfdfdfdsfdafdsf Vacaville, California 71166 posts
Dec 11th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Nichole+3girls:</b>" age didnt have anything to do with that since your body wasnt completley mature yet? either way, ... [snip!] ... either way, i'll be having a 4th section when its time because I'm getting a tubal anyways. Kill two birds with one stone."</blockquote>



I was 19, so I dunno. I don't think so though. I dilated and progressed fine, I was around an 8 when my OB was like "there's no way this baby's coming out like this, lets prep". Once he was done with the csection and everything he said my pelvis didnt spread and that he wasn't completely sure why. I never went and got X-rays to find out for sure if its tilted or not. It could be age though. I had the worst pregnancy and labor/delivery ever. Im hoping that next time around its a lot less stressful and not nearly as bad.

cfxfdfdfdsfdafdsf Vacaville, California 71166 posts
Dec 11th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting 3LittleMonkeys:</b>" I'm not sure I'll get mine either mainly because my body has never gone into labor...even at 41 weeks, I had zero dilation so I just think my body fails me completely...."</blockquote>




I was pretty upset. I wanted a natural birth. I ended up induced because I was in early labor for 2 weeks and it just wouldn't kick into actual labor on its own. I was miserable (and 39 weeks). I was okay with the induction as long as I could still have as natural of a birth as possible, but nope.

user banned Indiana 33802 posts
Dec 11th '12
Quoting Nichole+3girls:" thats f**king sick. I dont understand how peoples houses get infected with fleas. how the f**k do you think your kids feel... and the other 8 people in your house. f**king nasty"


I dont understand it either. Theres a difference in having a few fleas and being infested though.



When we were moving into the house before this one I had taken some stuff over. Only 2 rooms and the stairs had carpet. They reaked of cat piss and I walked up stairs and was covered in flea bites. It was horrible. The land lord replaced the carpets of course, and we still had to bomb a couple times before we could move in there. It was horrible

smASHface 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Chicago, IL, United States 57887 posts
Dec 11th '12
Quoting Lovelyyy KD*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 3LittleMonkeys:</b>" I'm not sure I'll get mine either mainly ... [snip!] ... (and 39 weeks). I was okay with the induction as long as I could still have as natural of a birth as possible, but nope."


I know. It stinks and I'm not sure I'll ever quite get over my births. I'm okay with them I just still wish they had gone differently.

vagina. 3 kids; Titz, No, Germany 30934 posts
Dec 11th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" Viagra, girl :lol:"</blockquote>




:lol:

Drunk Blair Waldorf 2 kids; Alpharetta, Georgia 19630 posts
Dec 11th '12
Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" Amy (I'm Marbles), she had her baby. Before the year end."


At least it was for a legit reason and not for tax purposes. :?

cfxfdfdfdsfdafdsf Vacaville, California 71166 posts
Dec 11th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting 3LittleMonkeys:</b>" I know. It stinks and I'm not sure I'll ever quite get over my births. I'm okay with them I just still wish they had gone differently."</blockquote>



Same.
I have to find a new doctor too because mine moved. Which terrifies me. I loved my doctor and I don't feel comfortable with just anyone cutting into me.

Drunk Blair Waldorf 2 kids; Alpharetta, Georgia 19630 posts
Dec 11th '12
Quoting 3LittleMonkeys:" they like the money surgery brings... I honestly really don't know because from the things I've learned, ... [snip!] ... things I've learned, the risks seem pretty much even. I will be looking though because I want a labor and birth naturally..."


The way my doc explained it to me, there's a chance that something could catch on the scar tissue I guess and then of course there's risks to the baby, but like you said, the risks are pretty much the same. I think my doc said something like there's a 1% chance that something could happen to the baby and once you get over that, then it's fine to proceed with a VBAC. I have no idea how she feels about VBA2Cs because I ended up with low fluids. Lol. And I'll be in Indiana next time I have a baby, so it won't actually matter HOW awesome my current OB/GYNs are. :x

B Turner Due August 31; 1 child; 2 angel babies; Carlisle, OH, United States 3762 posts
Dec 11th '12
Quoting 3LittleMonkeys:" they like the money surgery brings... I honestly really don't know because from the things I've learned, ... [snip!] ... things I've learned, the risks seem pretty much even. I will be looking though because I want a labor and birth naturally..."


wow, i hate money hungry doctors.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23103 posts
Dec 11th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Blair Waldorf (SuperKink):</b>" At least it was for a legit reason and not for tax purposes. :?"</blockquote>




I know. I know. I agree.

user banned Indiana 33802 posts
Dec 11th '12
Quoting Blaine Edwards:" i have no willpower. screw it. i'm not dieting until after new year's. "


My will power went out the window at Halloween. Come Jan 1 my ass is on a diet