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Angel [Mariah's Mommy] 1 child; Indianapolis, Indiana 18065 posts
14th Aug '12

This might ease your mind a bit, there are several times a year where I'll be 3-4 days into my placebo and haven't started yet, only to start on the 5th day. What pill are you on?

Vindictive 50 kids; Switzerland 30558 posts
14th Aug '12
Quoting NevviesMom:" I could care less if she decides to have the baby or not.She's a big girl. I just know from experience that talking about abortion/religion and politics are touchy subjects."


Couldn't** care less.



And this forum is protected. There should be zero issues here.

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
14th Aug '12
Quoting NevviesMom:" I could care less if she decides to have the baby or not.She's a big girl. I just know from experience that talking about abortion/religion and politics are touchy subjects."


Then exit. She posted this in AS not to be taunted by people.

SerialKiller 2 kids; Virginia 23722 posts
14th Aug '12
Quoting NevviesMom:" I could care less if she decides to have the baby or not.She's a big girl. I just know from experience that talking about abortion/religion and politics are touchy subjects."


look at the forum this is in, this is where people come to talk about abortions. bashing is not allowed nor is forcing your opinion on someone. this is a safe house for people to talk in.

Mrs.Bluitt Due January 20; 1 child; San Jose, California 742 posts
14th Aug '12

I was hard core pro-choice till I got pregnant... Lol. I didn't think I could handle it. My DH (boyfriend at the time) agreed it was best and we couldn't do it. But I broke down last minute and then wanted to adopt. But then someone told me something that changed my mind...."don't make a permanent desision for a temporary solution." we had no money, I was depressed and suicidal and on 6 different meds. We had no place to live and no jobs. But we decided to keep the baby. Our situation would t be like this forever. We set our hearts and minds to do whatever we could. He got a job and has opportunity to expand and hopefully in 3 years he'll be making 100k a year, I'm able to not work. I'm in Counceling and off all meds, we are looking for a better home, and we are happily married and excited to meet our baby girl in a little over 2 months.
If its your situation then maybe put more thought into it. But if you want to abort I'm no one to judge. Hope it works out :)
Financial problems don't last forever.... Lol, me and DH are 10k in debt and live check to check. It's hard but we make it work.

*A&N's Mama* 2 kids; Halifax, Nova Scotia 4627 posts
14th Aug '12
Quoting Vindictive:" Couldn't** care less. And this forum is protected. There should be zero issues here."


Thanks Tips :wink:

*Mary Moon* 1 child; New York 3601 posts
14th Aug '12
Quoting NevviesMom:" Personally, I'm pro life. This is a question that could get a lot of panties in a knot lol"

not in AS it shouldn't. im pretty sure if people shake things up in here it gets modded. Noone has any business in here if it gets their panties in a wad. Its not meant for D&D or tdc. People come to AS for advice and support.

*A&N's Mama* 2 kids; Halifax, Nova Scotia 4627 posts
14th Aug '12
Quoting SerialKiller
SerialKiller 2 kids; Virginia 23722 posts
14th Aug '12
Quoting NevviesMom:" Wow all you people are so touchy. I'm NOT judging her for doing what she wants to do. ALL I said in ... [snip!] ... do. ALL I said in the beginning was that I was pro choice. If anything, you all are judging me for my choice. Also whats AS??"


abortion survivors

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
14th Aug '12
Quoting NevviesMom:" Wow all you people are so touchy. I'm NOT judging her for doing what she wants to do. ALL I said in ... [snip!] ... do. ALL I said in the beginning was that I was pro choice. If anything, you all are judging me for my choice. Also whats AS??"


Abortion survivors. It is a protected forum. If you aren't offering support, you need to exit the thread

*A&N's Mama* 2 kids; Halifax, Nova Scotia 4627 posts
14th Aug '12

wow, really?



I do apologize. I have no idea how I wandered into this forum :oops:

user banned 2 kids; Iowa 7762 posts
14th Aug '12

Thank you all for the advice. I'm going to not stress over it and just see what happens.

I won't dismiss my husband's opinion on the matter since this does effect us both, and our two children.

You ladies are all wonderful.

ℳonster ℳaker 2 kids; Australia 318 posts
14th Aug '12

I would abort. I personally am not strong enough to adopt. But for me I'd really have to think about what I needed over what I wanted. Would I want an abortion? No. Would my other kids suffer if I kept it? Yes. I don't have the time or money for another child.



But I'd get a test before worrying over something you might not even need to be considering.

*Mary Moon* 1 child; New York 3601 posts
14th Aug '12
Quoting NevviesMom:" Wow all you people are so touchy. I'm NOT judging her for doing what she wants to do. ALL I said in ... [snip!] ... do. ALL I said in the beginning was that I was pro choice. If anything, you all are judging me for my choice. Also whats AS??"

honestly the only way I judged you was thinking "wow, what a derp." After reading all your replies. Clearly the issue is you not knowing what AS is and that its protected from bashers. AS is MEANT for topics like this, so you sounded kinda dumb when you voiced your questions; not because you were pro-life, but oblivious.
ETA: I say all this nicely btw. World without syntax makes everyone sound like big meanies.

Vindictive 50 kids; Switzerland 30558 posts
14th Aug '12
Quoting Super Kame Vegeta:" Thank you all for the advice. I'm going to not stress over it and just see what happens. I won't dismiss ... [snip!] ... my husband's opinion on the matter since this does effect us both, and our two children. You ladies are all wonderful."


Good luck! I hope the bloody witch shows her face and eases your mind! :)