I'm newly pregnant and excitedbut already know my boyfriend preggostudent1 Due April 18; Japan 14 posts
15th Aug '12

my boyfriend is sofocussed on school and becoming a neurosurgeon... He wouldn't let anything get in the way of it. I was pregnant by accident last June and July. I miscarried. I didnt tell him he was under a lot of stress his parents died in an accident and his sister was hospitalizedand diagnosed with schizophrenia. So it's been a bad sumer. that I hadnt felt like I could tell him and when I considered telling him I had mced by then.... Anyhow I was very sad about the miscarriage... I had kept it all in and only told my bff about it and to think I was considering abortion even though deep down I knew I didn't want that. Anyhow I tried well I didn't get back on bc I wanted to have a baby and that's what I want. Idk how to convince him or tell him...Advice?

Bob Wehadababyitsaboy 3 kids; 4 angel babies; California 30128 posts
15th Aug '12

:shock: Wow

Michael Myers 2 kids; Slaughter, Louisiana 3408 posts
15th Aug '12

Wow, poor guy that's a lot to handle. I'm not sure how to tell him, just approach the subject gently.

La Reggaetonista Due July 16; 18 kids; Peru 1211 posts
15th Aug '12

As if he is really gonna want to do that right now...

Mason & Carmen's Mommy 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Michigan 3355 posts
15th Aug '12

uhh... you are pregnant or u just want to be??

кinga Due February 18 (girl); 1 child; Ontario 4606 posts
15th Aug '12

Sorry, you didn't tell him about the m/c and now you want another child but don't know how to tell him?

user banned 3 kids; Florence, South Carolina 39499 posts
15th Aug '12

Well, did he know this could be a possibility? I mean, was birth control used at all?



From your brief post, I gather that you guys don't have a very open line of communication, so that's going to make it harder. The only thing you can really do is just be honest and tell him and prepare yourself the best you can for his reaction. It may hurt if he is disappointed, but that's a real risk with any unplanned pregnancy.



Good luck. :)

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
15th Aug '12
Quoting preggostudent1:" my boyfriend is sofocussed on school and becoming a neurosurgeon... He wouldn't let anything get in the ... [snip!] ... well I didn't get back on bc I wanted to have a baby and that's what I want. Idk how to convince him or tell him...Advice?"


Nothing like trapping a man into pregnancy! Go you! :roll:

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44070 posts
15th Aug '12

So were you trying to get pregnant? just m/c a month ago, were you even on b.c. or any protection?!



Also, why would he have to quit school because youre pregnant? We both still go to school and have 1 kid plus another on the way.

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
15th Aug '12
Quoting lolajessup:" So were you trying to get pregnant? just m/c a month ago, were you even on b.c. or any protection?! ... [snip!] ... why would he have to quit school because youre pregnant? We both still go to school and have 1 kid plus another on the way. "


She didn't get back on her birth control after the M/C. She trapped him because she wanted a baby.




posted 4 min ago
my boyfriend is sofocussed on school and becoming a neurosurgeon... He wouldn't let anything get in the way of it. I was pregnant by accident last June and July. I miscarried. I didnt tell him he was under a lot of stress his parents died in an accident and his sister was hospitalizedand diagnosed with schizophrenia. So it's been a bad sumer. that I hadnt felt like I could tell him and when I considered telling him I had mced by then.... Anyhow I was very sad about the miscarriage... I had kept it all in and only told my bff about it and to think I was considering abortion even though deep down I knew I didn't want that. ***Anyhow I tried well I didn't get back on bc I wanted to have a baby and that's what I want.*** Idk how to convince him or tell him...Advice

♀NoBoysAllowed 19 kids; San Diego, California 51862 posts
15th Aug '12

What I gathered is that she MC june/july 2011, and found out she's pregnant again.

BαtMαɳ Gotham, __, United States 65619 posts
15th Aug '12
Quoting Not tellin:" Nothing like trapping a man into pregnancy! Go you! :roll:"

:!::!:

Lana+Mama ♡ 1 child; 1 angel baby; Illinois 2633 posts
15th Aug '12

So you purposely stopped taking your birth control and didn't tell him? Don't you think that he has enough on his shoulders?

preggostudent1 Due April 18; Japan 14 posts
15th Aug '12

I'm newly pregnant now atleast I took a testand I'm positive..... I used bc before bbut stopped after my pregnancy I wasn't like ready to move on I guess and I wanted to have a child still...

user banned 3 kids; Florence, South Carolina 39499 posts
15th Aug '12
Quoting preggostudent1:" I'm newly pregnant now atleast I took a testand I'm positive..... I used bc before bbut stopped after my pregnancy I wasn't like ready to move on I guess and I wanted to have a child still..."


ohhhhh, i missed that part about the birth control.



that poor guy. ugh, you should be ashamed. :?