☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
16th Aug '12
Quoting Giraffe Mommy[♥]:" Reading through all these comments make me feel like I am in High School again. Its pretty pathetic. ... [snip!] ... live COMFORTABLY on 4k a month. Thats pretty awesome that your SO makes that much money with yall still being young and all."


I'm 19. It's not her age, I've never had issues with them.
It's her immaturity and quickness to judge their parenting.



If someone told me my kids were going to be raging drug addicts because I didn't spank them, I'd be a c**t too.
She doesn't even have any kids, and she called someone a bad parent for NOT spanking, when she wants to sell her breast milk and give LO formula so she can make money, but then says she doesn't need any money?



I'm nowhere near a breastfeeding nazi. DD is formula fed, it's a personal choice.
But you're going to pump for money and not even give any to your kid? Then call someone a bad parent.




No logic.

Hy'ska 2 kids; Washington 50791 posts
16th Aug '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Giraffe Mommy[♥]:</b>" Reading through all these comments make me feel like I am in High School again. Its pretty pathetic. ... [snip!] ... live COMFORTABLY on 4k a month. Thats pretty awesome that your SO makes that much money with yall still being young and all."</blockquote>




Texas is dirty cheap PA isn't

Piper Chapman 1 child; NeverLand, TX, United States 784 posts
16th Aug '12
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" I'm 19. It's not her age, I've never had issues with them. It's her immaturity and quickness to judge ... [snip!] ... choice. But you're going to pump for money and not even give any to your kid? Then call someone a bad parent. No logic."

:!::!::!::!::!:



And another thing she really didn't have to keep reading this thread if it made her so sick :shock:

May♥ 1 child; Texas 9174 posts
16th Aug '12
Quoting PoopyPolice:" Actually I'm only 23. So old doesn't fit here and old doesn't really fit with anyone younger then 50 ... [snip!] ... needed to be said. And really it was just 2 hours before it died down they really didn't spend that much time on here O.o"


I wasnt talking about you, or Sugar Magnolia.

May♥ 1 child; Texas 9174 posts
16th Aug '12
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" I'm 19. It's not her age, I've never had issues with them. It's her immaturity and quickness to judge ... [snip!] ... choice. But you're going to pump for money and not even give any to your kid? Then call someone a bad parent. No logic."


I wasnt refering to you.
Yeah I read all that and I agree it was shitty. I am not siding with the woman or sticking up for her because she was being a c**t.
I just think some people in here took it way to far trying to humliate her and make her feel like shit.
Like I said, I get it... this is how BG is. But I wouldn't be suprised if someone killed their selves one day because of BG cyber bullying. It's sad. And it makes my heart hurt when I see the snide comments and rude remarks taken to a whole nother extreme.

Piper Chapman 1 child; NeverLand, TX, United States 784 posts
16th Aug '12

Well I didn't catch that but still the whole old hags who have personal life issues because they got defensive when a 18 year old who's never had a child tried to tell someone they were a bad parent is a bit much imo.

May♥ 1 child; Texas 9174 posts
16th Aug '12
Quoting PoopyPolice:" Well I didn't catch that but still the whole old hags who have personal life issues because they got ... [snip!] ... they got defensive when a 18 year old who's never had a child tried to tell someone they were a bad parent is a bit much imo."


Yeah.. Maybe it is because I see the same two woman acting the same way in alot of threads.
But your right. I shouldnt have kept reading on if it made me sick.
I am going to un-subscribe now.

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
16th Aug '12
Quoting Giraffe Mommy[♥]:" I wasnt refering to you. Yeah I read all that and I agree it was shitty. I am not siding with the woman ... [snip!] ... bullying. It's sad. And it makes my heart hurt when I see the snide comments and rude remarks taken to a whole nother extreme."


Anyone who takes an internet forum THAT seriously, has way deeper issues than BG cyber bullying.

Elizabeth 0315 Due February 24; 35 kids; Prince Edward Island 1628 posts
16th Aug '12
Quoting Giraffe Mommy[♥]:" Reading through all these comments make me feel like I am in High School again. Its pretty pathetic. ... [snip!] ... live COMFORTABLY on 4k a month. Thats pretty awesome that your SO makes that much money with yall still being young and all."

Hi there your 35 ?! me too nice to see someone my own age. I think it's sad this post went to hell for a women trying to show off her baby pic and had nothing to do with any of this. I read the whole thing just killing time waiting for the morning sickness to settle so I can sleep . This sadly is the first post I would actually flag as drama .

Fatty McRunnerPants 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Clearlake, California 59390 posts
16th Aug '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Giraffe Mommy[♥]:</b>" Reading through all these comments make me feel like I am in High School again. Its pretty pathetic. ... [snip!] ... live COMFORTABLY on 4k a month. Thats pretty awesome that your SO makes that much money with yall still being young and all."</blockquote>




Psst, youre in the drama corner.



Only on bg is someone considered old at 35. Im not even close to that age and I think thats nuts.

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
16th Aug '12
Quoting Fatty McRunnerPants:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Giraffe Mommy[♥]:</b>" Reading through all these comments ... [snip!] ... youre in the drama corner. Only on bg is someone considered old at 35. Im not even close to that age and I think thats nuts."


So do I. I'm 19, my mom will be 50 in a couple of years and I don't even find her close to old. :?

Redneck Mamma North Carolina 8746 posts
16th Aug '12
Quoting Not tellin:" I don't even want to imagine what it would be like to be her parent at this moment. Honestly, this is a product of spanking. Anyone who thinks spanking is ok, this is what the results are! lol"


Don't group me with her! I was spanked and I didn't turn out like that!

GoldenGirls 1 child; North Carolina 1225 posts
16th Aug '12

Meh, DH makes a little less than 4k a month. We don't have alot extra for date nights, or spur of the moment shopping, but we aren't on FS or WIC. We make due.



I was spanked, I turned out decent enough. But taking it to the "your child is going to be a drug addicted, thief" is a biiiiit much. Not every kid who is spanked is gonna turn out to be a shit bag. Just like, not every kid who is not spanked is going to turn out to be wonderful.



It's the life lessons you can teach your child, the morals you instill in them, your experiences and the knowledge that you share....that is what makes them who they are. Not whether or not you spanked them.



Don't take this as my choice to pop my daughter. Because it isn't. A "no" does her just fine for now, and her grandpa has already made her time out chair. Complete with her name.

Fatty McRunnerPants 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Clearlake, California 59390 posts
16th Aug '12
Quoting usmcsarah:" Meh, DH makes a little less than 4k a month. We don't have alot extra for date nights, or spur of the ... [snip!] ... it isn't. A "no" does her just fine for now, and her grandpa has already made her time out chair. Complete with her name."


I think the whole money thing is if you're going to brag about how much you make, it should be significantly more than the poverty level.

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
16th Aug '12
Quoting usmcsarah:" Meh, DH makes a little less than 4k a month. We don't have alot extra for date nights, or spur of the ... [snip!] ... it isn't. A "no" does her just fine for now, and her grandpa has already made her time out chair. Complete with her name."


Your post count is 666. Fantastic.




I don't think anyone was saying spanking meant your kid was going to be a shit bag, just explained why they don't spank.