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kthx. Due January 13 (girl); Cleves, Ohio 66885 posts
status 1st Jul '13
Quoting Simply Mom:" i really hope u guys get your bfps soon. i feel so bad for those of us who have been trying for awhile. i hope this yr is it for me"


I get so jealous when I see new TTCers getting BFP's within the first few months. It's making me bitter. It's nothing against them... I'm just sad. So I stay away when I see a BFP :(

Simply, Mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Upland, 11735 posts
1st Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>" I get so jealous when I see new TTCers getting BFP's within the first few months. It's making me bitter. It's nothing against them... I'm just sad. So I stay away when I see a BFP :("</blockquote>




i tried so many months last yr with no luck.... then this year tried for a few months and nothing. I am just praying everyday that it happens sept or oct

*Berrrr Due November 19; 1 child; Ohio 2724 posts
1st Jul '13
Quoting HotMom21ERF:" im so sorry he is being such a butt. i couldnt imagine the frustration youre feeling. DH isnt really....tuned ... [snip!] ... in to the whole TTC thing, he wants another baby , he is basically like, "just tell me what to do and when to do it" lol"


Yeah. DH is kinda TTC-stupid. He's like uhhh isn't it just "don't use protection and bam?" and I was like uhhh we haven't used protection in over 2 years. Don't you think if it was that easy, we'd have more than DD...whom technically isn't even his... so it's like WHY must you be a torn in my side?



Then the idiot never has a sex drive...which pisses me off to no end because I have a high sex drive... so we're constantly at war. haha. He thinks I overthink everything and yahyahyah. :roll:

*Berrrr Due November 19; 1 child; Ohio 2724 posts
1st Jul '13
Quoting kthx.:" I get so jealous when I see new TTCers getting BFP's within the first few months. It's making me bitter. It's nothing against them... I'm just sad. So I stay away when I see a BFP :("


This is so me! It drives me insane. Or the girls I know that have been getting pregnant recently, are all ones who either have no job, no support, no relationship, or no desire to even have the baby.



And here I am getting prodded with questions "Now you and Benn are married, when are you gonna have a baby?" They all get the super surprised face when I tell them we've been trying for two years... then it's all awkward. haha

♥ Jen ♥ 5 kids; Shawnee, Kansas 9056 posts
1st Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>" I get so jealous when I see new TTCers getting BFP's within the first few months. It's making me bitter. It's nothing against them... I'm just sad. So I stay away when I see a BFP :("</blockquote>




I get jealous too. I know I haven't been TTC as long as you or others. But each month that goes by I think that's one less egg. I'm not getting any younger here. :(

♥ Jen ♥ 5 kids; Shawnee, Kansas 9056 posts
1st Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Berrrr:</b>" This is so me! It drives me insane. Or the girls I know that have been getting pregnant recently, are ... [snip!] ... a baby?" They all get the super surprised face when I tell them we've been trying for two years... then it's all awkward. haha"</blockquote>



I'm sorry people have to be so nosey. I know its got to hurt every time some asks.

*Berrrr Due November 19; 1 child; Ohio 2724 posts
1st Jul '13
Quoting Jen S&C Momma:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Berrrr:</b>" This is so me! It drives me insane. Or the girls ... [snip!] ... it's all awkward. haha"</blockquote> I'm sorry people have to be so nosey. I know its got to hurt every time some asks."


At first it was bothersome... now I just laugh at their faces when I tell them. No point in being bothered by them. It's a common question, hell I've even asked people the same one. Ya know? No biggie.



It's worse just seeing others get pregnant with no effort.

♥ Jen ♥ 5 kids; Shawnee, Kansas 9056 posts
1st Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Berrrr:</b>" At first it was bothersome... now I just laugh at their faces when I tell them. No point in being bothered ... [snip!] ... hell I've even asked people the same one. Ya know? No biggie. It's worse just seeing others get pregnant with no effort."</blockquote>




Yeah the ones that say oh it was an accident we weren't even trying. Ugh!

ღCeceღ 2 kids; Somewhere in, GA, United States 12619 posts
1st Jul '13
Quoting kthx.:" I get so jealous when I see new TTCers getting BFP's within the first few months. It's making me bitter. It's nothing against them... I'm just sad. So I stay away when I see a BFP :("


:(



I feel like I've become bitter after my mc

Simply, Mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Upland, 11735 posts
1st Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ღCeCeღ:</b>" :( I feel like I've become bitter after my mc "</blockquote>




me too.



well it was a chemical so a little different but ya .



trying 6 months last yr... 3 this yr... im just like surprised because i didnt try with my other two.



iuno i feel bad for bitching because it isnt like years and years but almost a yr put together of trying.



ugh.

Simply, Mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Upland, 11735 posts
1st Jul '13

i mean the chemical one my old friend brittani witnessed... it started at her house and its just all bad.



i was excited.

B★B's Mama 2 kids; :), Tx, United States 11845 posts
1st Jul '13

Hello im delicia n im ttc I have 2 children n im scheduled to get my mirena removed tomorrow

ღCeceღ 2 kids; Somewhere in, GA, United States 12619 posts
1st Jul '13

So had my u/s...he said he doesn't see any tissue...he saw "something" which could've been a new pregnancy but he didn't see any definite signs..which idk if there would be if we only had sex on the 15th...so I had a blood draw and he's checking my hcg, prolactin, and a few other things I don't remember lol I'll get my results tomorrow

Simply, Mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Upland, 11735 posts
1st Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ღCeCeღ:</b>" So had my u/s...he said he doesn't see any tissue...he saw "something" which could've been a new pregnancy ... [snip!] ... had a blood draw and he's checking my hcg, prolactin, and a few other things I don't remember lol I'll get my results tomorrow"</blockquote>




crossing my fingers momma :)

HotMom21ERF Due December 17 (twins); 1 child; Kentucky 20669 posts
1st Jul '13

FX, i think AF is really letting up, don't even need a tampon, just a panty liner. I'm so nervous/excited as we will be REALLY TTC soon! The pamphlet that came with the Clomid said ovulation usually occurs 5-10 days after your last dose, but, to be on the safe side, I think DH and I will start BDing like...3 days after lol .