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cman+3•°32weeks°• Due December 15; 1 child; 2 angel babies; Tennessee 2497 posts
1st Nov '12

My neighbor took another test she still callen it a negitive.. but "trashes" them before I can see them I have her talked into going and getting her blood drawn

*Lindsey* 3 kids; Alberta 8798 posts
1st Nov '12
Quoting katxo:" it depends on how long you've been TTCing. It's not as easier for others, especially when you hit the ... [snip!] ... for for a very long long time. It's not even an idea of staying positive for me anymore, it's more like a "whatever" haha"


I understand that. Ive never had to try that long, but i cant imagine. And im sure at times if not most the time it gets hard to stay positive. But it is a must for me! Although if i were trying for over a year i cant be sure id be so positive either by then.

*Lindsey* 3 kids; Alberta 8798 posts
1st Nov '12
Quoting Her mama his wife:" Hello ladies! I'm Amelia and have been TTC for 2 years now. A year ago my husband was told that his swimmers ... [snip!] ... with a FR.. which I will do if AF doesnt come this weekend. ANDDDDD I want to give a special thanks to katxo for the invite."


I really hope your hubbys swimmers worked! haha, I will be crossing my fingers for you :)

Squid Kid Unavailable, NA, United States 32450 posts
1st Nov '12
Quoting katxo:" it depends on how long you've been TTCing. It's not as easier for others, especially when you hit the ... [snip!] ... for for a very long long time. It's not even an idea of staying positive for me anymore, it's more like a "whatever" haha"


"Whatever" is much better than being positive. When you're being positive, you easily are crushed if AF shows up.



I found myself in a depression every month when TTC DD.. and she took 7 months to conceive.

*Lindsey* 3 kids; Alberta 8798 posts
1st Nov '12
Quoting **mummyX2.5**:" Hello all!! So much to read! Welcome to everyone new and congrats to the ladies who bfp i missed!! ... [snip!] ... u told him?? My dh just smirked at me lol Whats going on with mummy caroline?? I see af showed up! =( When is ur next o day??"


i just shoved the tests in his face and he had a huge smile and he was like so that means you are?? and i was like yes...then he gave me a kiss haha. Nothing special...i was too excited to tell him. I coulda waited for his birthday on the 20th but that woulda been hard!

*Lindsey* 3 kids; Alberta 8798 posts
1st Nov '12
Quoting Squid Kid:" "Whatever" is much better than being positive. When you're being positive, you easily are crushed if ... [snip!] ... are crushed if AF shows up. I found myself in a depression every month when TTC DD.. and she took 7 months to conceive. "


I was always crushed too with the negative and when af came but then after i collected myself and was like ok here we go again. And i would think positive for that new cycle. But i agree with the ladies trying for long times that it would be hard to be that way after so many negatives.

Squid Kid Unavailable, NA, United States 32450 posts
1st Nov '12
Quoting Her mama his wife:" Hello ladies! I'm Amelia and have been TTC for 2 years now. A year ago my husband was told that his swimmers ... [snip!] ... with a FR.. which I will do if AF doesnt come this weekend. ANDDDDD I want to give a special thanks to katxo for the invite."

Welcome!



I didn't get a positive with DD until 16dpo and it was very fient then. Just try to hold out for testing!

Bryan Ray's Mommy + 1 ♥ Due June 26 (girl); TTC since Nov 2011; 1 child; 2 angel babies; Bryan, TX, United States 4107 posts
1st Nov '12
Quoting katxo:" it depends on how long you've been TTCing. It's not as easier for others, especially when you hit the ... [snip!] ... for for a very long long time. It's not even an idea of staying positive for me anymore, it's more like a "whatever" haha"


lol yep it's definitely a lot easier to not stay positive once you hit the one year mark! I have moments where I'm really positive and then other moments where I'm extremely depressed and hate myself and my body.

Her mama his wife TTC since Nov 2010; 1 child; Puerto Rico 6237 posts
1st Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Bryan Ray's Mommy:</b>" lol yep it's definitely a lot easier to not stay positive once you hit the one year mark! I have moments ... [snip!] ... I have moments where I'm really positive and then other moments where I'm extremely depressed and hate myself and my body. "</blockquote>




I agree

*Lindsey* 3 kids; Alberta 8798 posts
1st Nov '12

When did you ladies book dr. appt's?? Im thinking i probably dont need to go for another 3 weeks at least.

Her mama his wife TTC since Nov 2010; 1 child; Puerto Rico 6237 posts
1st Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Lindsey*:</b>" When did you ladies book dr. appt's?? Im thinking i probably dont need to go for another 3 weeks at least. "</blockquote>



They will probably schedule you for after 8 weeks if you call.

*Lindsey* 3 kids; Alberta 8798 posts
1st Nov '12
Quoting Her mama his wife:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Lindsey*:</b>" When did you ladies book dr. appt's?? Im thinking ... [snip!] ... need to go for another 3 weeks at least. "</blockquote> They will probably schedule you for after 8 weeks if you call."


Yeah i wont call for a bit then. Last time i think thats around the time they wanted to see me. Cant remember though it was so long ago.

Her mama his wife TTC since Nov 2010; 1 child; Puerto Rico 6237 posts
1st Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Lindsey*:</b>" Yeah i wont call for a bit then. Last time i think thats around the time they wanted to see me. Cant remember though it was so long ago."</blockquote>




You could always call now...4 weeks will go by fast

*Lindsey* 3 kids; Alberta 8798 posts
1st Nov '12
Quoting Her mama his wife:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Lindsey*:</b>" Yeah i wont call for a bit then. Last time ... [snip!] ... to see me. Cant remember though it was so long ago."</blockquote> You could always call now...4 weeks will go by fast"


haha ill wait a couple weeks

☮[The Mrs.] FJB Due December 4; 3 kids; North Carolina 14335 posts
1st Nov '12

Ha I finally updated my profile, I am so tired and sick, I'm afraid I'm not going to feel like BD'ing when that time comes :(