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cman+1•°6weeks°• Due December 13; 1 child; 2 angel babies; Tennessee 1749 posts
1st Nov '12

My neighbor took another test she still callen it a negitive.. but "trashes" them before I can see them I have her talked into going and getting her blood drawn

*Lindsey* 3 kids; Alberta 8798 posts
1st Nov '12
Quoting katxo:" it depends on how long you've been TTCing. It's not as easier for others, especially when you hit the ... [snip!] ... for for a very long long time. It's not even an idea of staying positive for me anymore, it's more like a "whatever" haha"


I understand that. Ive never had to try that long, but i cant imagine. And im sure at times if not most the time it gets hard to stay positive. But it is a must for me! Although if i were trying for over a year i cant be sure id be so positive either by then.

*Lindsey* 3 kids; Alberta 8798 posts
1st Nov '12
Quoting Her mama his wife:" Hello ladies! I'm Amelia and have been TTC for 2 years now. A year ago my husband was told that his swimmers ... [snip!] ... with a FR.. which I will do if AF doesnt come this weekend. ANDDDDD I want to give a special thanks to katxo for the invite."


I really hope your hubbys swimmers worked! haha, I will be crossing my fingers for you :)

Squid Kid Due July 2 (girl); 1 child; 5 angel babies; Tennessee 27907 posts
status 1st Nov '12
Quoting katxo:" it depends on how long you've been TTCing. It's not as easier for others, especially when you hit the ... [snip!] ... for for a very long long time. It's not even an idea of staying positive for me anymore, it's more like a "whatever" haha"


"Whatever" is much better than being positive. When you're being positive, you easily are crushed if AF shows up.



I found myself in a depression every month when TTC DD.. and she took 7 months to conceive.

*Lindsey* 3 kids; Alberta 8798 posts
1st Nov '12
Quoting **mummyX2.5**:" Hello all!! So much to read! Welcome to everyone new and congrats to the ladies who bfp i missed!! ... [snip!] ... u told him?? My dh just smirked at me lol Whats going on with mummy caroline?? I see af showed up! =( When is ur next o day??"


i just shoved the tests in his face and he had a huge smile and he was like so that means you are?? and i was like yes...then he gave me a kiss haha. Nothing special...i was too excited to tell him. I coulda waited for his birthday on the 20th but that woulda been hard!

*Lindsey* 3 kids; Alberta 8798 posts
1st Nov '12
Quoting Squid Kid:" "Whatever" is much better than being positive. When you're being positive, you easily are crushed if ... [snip!] ... are crushed if AF shows up. I found myself in a depression every month when TTC DD.. and she took 7 months to conceive. "


I was always crushed too with the negative and when af came but then after i collected myself and was like ok here we go again. And i would think positive for that new cycle. But i agree with the ladies trying for long times that it would be hard to be that way after so many negatives.

Squid Kid Due July 2 (girl); 1 child; 5 angel babies; Tennessee 27907 posts
status 1st Nov '12
Quoting Her mama his wife:" Hello ladies! I'm Amelia and have been TTC for 2 years now. A year ago my husband was told that his swimmers ... [snip!] ... with a FR.. which I will do if AF doesnt come this weekend. ANDDDDD I want to give a special thanks to katxo for the invite."

Welcome!



I didn't get a positive with DD until 16dpo and it was very fient then. Just try to hold out for testing!

Bryan Ray's Mommy + 1 ♥ Due June 26 (girl); TTC since Nov 2011; 1 child; 2 angel babies; Bryan, TX, United States 4090 posts
1st Nov '12
Quoting katxo:" it depends on how long you've been TTCing. It's not as easier for others, especially when you hit the ... [snip!] ... for for a very long long time. It's not even an idea of staying positive for me anymore, it's more like a "whatever" haha"


lol yep it's definitely a lot easier to not stay positive once you hit the one year mark! I have moments where I'm really positive and then other moments where I'm extremely depressed and hate myself and my body.

Her mama his wife TTC since Nov 2010; 1 child; Puerto Rico 6237 posts
1st Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Bryan Ray's Mommy:</b>" lol yep it's definitely a lot easier to not stay positive once you hit the one year mark! I have moments ... [snip!] ... I have moments where I'm really positive and then other moments where I'm extremely depressed and hate myself and my body. "</blockquote>




I agree

*Lindsey* 3 kids; Alberta 8798 posts
1st Nov '12

When did you ladies book dr. appt's?? Im thinking i probably dont need to go for another 3 weeks at least.

Her mama his wife TTC since Nov 2010; 1 child; Puerto Rico 6237 posts
1st Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Lindsey*:</b>" When did you ladies book dr. appt's?? Im thinking i probably dont need to go for another 3 weeks at least. "</blockquote>



They will probably schedule you for after 8 weeks if you call.

*Lindsey* 3 kids; Alberta 8798 posts
1st Nov '12
Quoting Her mama his wife:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Lindsey*:</b>" When did you ladies book dr. appt's?? Im thinking ... [snip!] ... need to go for another 3 weeks at least. "</blockquote> They will probably schedule you for after 8 weeks if you call."


Yeah i wont call for a bit then. Last time i think thats around the time they wanted to see me. Cant remember though it was so long ago.

Her mama his wife TTC since Nov 2010; 1 child; Puerto Rico 6237 posts
1st Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Lindsey*:</b>" Yeah i wont call for a bit then. Last time i think thats around the time they wanted to see me. Cant remember though it was so long ago."</blockquote>




You could always call now...4 weeks will go by fast

*Lindsey* 3 kids; Alberta 8798 posts
1st Nov '12
Quoting Her mama his wife:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Lindsey*:</b>" Yeah i wont call for a bit then. Last time ... [snip!] ... to see me. Cant remember though it was so long ago."</blockquote> You could always call now...4 weeks will go by fast"


haha ill wait a couple weeks

☮[The Mrs.] FJB Due December 4; 3 kids; North Carolina 14335 posts
1st Nov '12

Ha I finally updated my profile, I am so tired and sick, I'm afraid I'm not going to feel like BD'ing when that time comes :(