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MonkCakes 3 kids; Texas 20945 posts
6th Jan '13

This is prob a really stupid question but I'm not good at this ovulation stuff



Do you ovulate the same time every month? Or does it change every month?

My♥Maja&Livija Due March 1; 2 kids; Santa Cruz, California 27348 posts
6th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy to Milo&Ava:</b>" How many in here have had a chemical pregnancy? Were you getting positive hpts before AF arrived? The ... [snip!] ... yes, you do usually get positives before AF. But anyone know if its possible not to get a positive and still be a chemical?"</blockquote>




How many BFP's have you gotten? Did u test again?

My♥Maja&Livija Due March 1; 2 kids; Santa Cruz, California 27348 posts
6th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting MonkCakes:</b>" This is prob a really stupid question but I'm not good at this ovulation stuff Do you ovulate the same time every month? Or does it change every month?"</blockquote>




Typically around CD14. But no it can be different every month. I O late like CD 19.

My♥Maja&Livija Due March 1; 2 kids; Santa Cruz, California 27348 posts
6th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ZanesMommy2011:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy to Milo&Ava:</b>" How many in here have had a chemical ... [snip!] ... if its possible not to get a positive and still be a chemical?"</blockquote> What is a chemical pregnancy exactly?"</blockquote>



The egg gets fertilized but doesn't implant. So you have a small amount of HCG in you enough to get you am early BFP but not enough to miss AF.

queso +2 (40!!!) 2 kids; Montana 9466 posts
6th Jan '13
Quoting Mommy to Milo&Ava:" How many in here have had a chemical pregnancy? Were you getting positive hpts before AF arrived? The ... [snip!] ... yes, you do usually get positives before AF. But anyone know if its possible not to get a positive and still be a chemical?"



I had a chemical in february. I hate calling it that though. It makes it sound like its not a miscarriage. The definition of it IS early miscarriage. Its when the blastocyst is unable to implant correctly into the uterine wall OR implanted correctly but the baby is so unhealthy that it just can't grow. I had positives that turned to negatives before I started bleeding. I refuse to call it a period. I feel like it undermines what it actually is. You don't have to believe its a miscarriage... that's your choice... but I do. My friend had a chemical as well. She got a VERY faint questionable positive... was late for her period and then she started spotting... Got another very faint positive and had period-like bleeding.
So its very possible to not get a positive before you bleed from a chemical. It just depnds on if you were testing early enough. My guess is my friends levels already dropped before she could get a real positive. My chemical positive is on my profile. It was faint but obvious and I got it on 10 FRER and a few dollar store tests.

queso +2 (40!!!) 2 kids; Montana 9466 posts
6th Jan '13
Quoting MonkCakes:" This is prob a really stupid question but I'm not good at this ovulation stuff Do you ovulate the same time every month? Or does it change every month?"



not a stupid question. Changes every month... not necessarily for everybody... but for me I ovulated later than cd14 and its never the same cd every month. USE OPKS!!!!

MonkCakes 3 kids; Texas 20945 posts
6th Jan '13
Quoting queso +2curdles(17):" not a stupid question. Changes every month... not necessarily for everybody... but for me I ovulated later than cd14 and its never the same cd every month. USE OPKS!!!!"


ok good to know I used them this month so we will see lol

[JadeLee] 1 child; Minnesota 12190 posts
6th Jan '13
Quoting MonkCakes:" This is prob a really stupid question but I'm not good at this ovulation stuff Do you ovulate the same time every month? Or does it change every month?"

Mine has been different.
I haven't been using OPK's.
But my first cycle I had signs on CD 10 and 11.
Then the cycle after that I had no signs at all (pretty sure my body just skipped it that month because AF was 18 days late).
The cycle after that I was at like CD 16.
And then this cycle I O'd on CD 14.



My cycle length varies between 25 and 28 days too.

[JadeLee] 1 child; Minnesota 12190 posts
6th Jan '13

8 DPO tomorrow and I think I am going to test, and if it is negative I won't test until again until Wednesday.



The smell of SO today (he is a smoker) just made me want to gag. Then DD got into SO's cologne and my stomach is queasy from the smell. b**bs are getting sorer by the day but that could just be because of AF.

MonkCakes 3 kids; Texas 20945 posts
6th Jan '13

ugh I really really suck at all this ovulation stuff im like stupid when it comes to it lol
but I know you get a lot of CM when you ovulate right?



well if that's the case I had LOTSSSSS like a day or 2 ago I mean so much I had to put a panty liner on and change it threw out the day but today (when I should be ovulating ) I have NONE at all...does that mean anything?

MonkCakes 3 kids; Texas 20945 posts
6th Jan '13

can any of yall make since of this?



I had my period for the normal one week (yes 7 straight days of bleeding death) then 3/4 days later I have light bleeding for about a day
it was light light pink and some brown and a lot of discharge then it stopped (that has never ever happen to me )



then a week or so later I got pos O test for 3 days and now I should be O but I don't have any CM no cramping no nothing...does all that sound normal?

~Manda Panda +3 1/2~ 16 kids; Arkansas 39074 posts
7th Jan '13

Nothing like being up because you feel nauseous after sex :/ doubtful its pregnancy btw. But I just feel icky so I end up on FF to just double check my chart lmao. TTC nerd problems.

cman+3•°20weeks°• Due December 15; 1 child; 2 angel babies; Tennessee 2283 posts
status 7th Jan '13

I gwt to baby sit my baby cousin... im so tickled. And glad my cousin needs a sitter. Hes only 3 weeks old. I cant believe its been 3 weeks since I watched him take his first breath. And yes. I cryed.. and I cry just thinking about it! Hes so precious I love this little man!

Z+L mommy 2 kids; Wahiawā, Hawaii 1870 posts
7th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~Manda Panda +3 ~:</b>" Nothing like being up because you feel nauseous after sex :/ doubtful its pregnancy btw. But I just feel icky so I end up on FF to just double check my chart lmao. TTC nerd problems."</blockquote>



I'm having that issue this morning. DH and I BD the last 3 days and this morning I have a headache and feel super queezy.

~Manda Panda +3 1/2~ 16 kids; Arkansas 39074 posts
7th Jan '13
Quoting ZanesMommy2011:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~Manda Panda +3 ~:</b>" Nothing like being up because you feel ... [snip!] ... I'm having that issue this morning. DH and I BD the last 3 days and this morning I have a headache and feel super queezy."


I'm hoping it's not another round of stomach flu. That mess keeps going 'round and 'round this house :(