user banned 6 kids; 1 angel baby; Los Angeles, CA, United States 3597 posts
19th Aug '12
Quoting JiLLiAN.:" I wish the fuck i was, but he's at his dad's cause we have an actual custody order in place. & i had a house fire so i'm currently bored off my ass sitting in a hotel room, thank you very much."


now see if this was me, i'd have a million and one statements coming my way.
"you're so irresponsible."
"get off your ass."
"get your child."



lol the double standard is beautiful

ෆ Mαgicαℓ ℓove ෆ 3 kids; Amsterdam, No, Netherlands 1521 posts
status 19th Aug '12

I think you look alright! And I
feel sorry for you, having women bashing you in every
post you make. :S

Disco Llama 33 kids; Texas 1233 posts
19th Aug '12
Quoting ♥Frodolicious♥:" :? That was a little rude, don't you think? I think a LOT of OP's issues, now that I'm genuinely thinking ... [snip!] ... I'm genuinely thinking about it, are body-image, and you're going to insinuate that her body's gone to shit after five kids? "


Hell My body is shit after just one.

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
19th Aug '12
Quoting krystle*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting JiLLiAN.:</b>" I wish the fuck i was, but he's at his dad's ... [snip!] ... my ass sitting in a hotel room, thank you very much."</blockquote> I seen that on fb. Was it bad ?! I'm so sorry :("


the fire, no...but the smoke damage, yes. Everything needs to be replaced - all appliances, all of Carson's stuff (they could be cleaned but they don't like to risk it for children), our mattresses, our one set of stairs is half gone (it started at the top of the stairs)..



it sucks. I don't know how long we will be in a hotel. :(

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36616 posts
19th Aug '12
Quoting Mommy to 6 ღ 23wks:" now see if this was me, i'd have a million and one statements coming my way. "you're so irresponsible." "get off your ass." "get your child." lol the double standard is beautiful"


How is that a double standard? You moved your kids away from their fathers that actually want to be in their lives so you can have a suga daddah.

Krystle ♥ 2 kids; New York 3923 posts
19th Aug '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting JiLLiAN.:</b>" no, medina. my parents are in cheektowaga."</blockquote>




I'm sorry woman.

user banned 6 kids; 1 angel baby; Los Angeles, CA, United States 3597 posts
19th Aug '12
Quoting Magical Love
Gor-Jess! Due December 30 (girl); TTC since Jan 2014; 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Queen Creek, Arizona 10198 posts
19th Aug '12
Quoting Mommy to 6 ღ 23wks:" 5 kids later: "



Ok I yelled without seeing that someone asked for your pic. But still...post some pics of your kids for once and not of YOU

Krystle ♥ 2 kids; New York 3923 posts
19th Aug '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting JiLLiAN.:</b>" the fire, no...but the smoke damage, yes. Everything needs to be replaced - all appliances, all of Carson's ... [snip!] ... set of stairs is half gone (it started at the top of the stairs).. it sucks. I don't know how long we will be in a hotel. :("</blockquote>




Man I couldn't image. I'm glad you guys are all okay.
Is insurance paying for the hotel?!

Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 16146 posts
19th Aug '12
Quoting Mommy to 6 ღ 23wks:" "


You totally photobombed your kid's picture. That wasn't nice at all.

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
19th Aug '12
Quoting ♥Frodolicious♥:" No, her child is with her biological father. They have a custody arrangement. I'd go get my child, ... [snip!] ... one. >.> I refuse to go near it until it's had 7 hours of sleep AT LEAST. :P j/k. But I sure as hell won't wake it up."


We are in court alllll the time. Hopefully this arrangement will stick for a bit. And/or BD will grow the fuck up and start to deal with things outside of lawyers and judges, because it sucks. & he just wants to be manipulative.

MinnesotaMommy2One 1 child; Minnesota 2565 posts
19th Aug '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥Frodolicious♥:</b>" :? That was a little rude, don't you think? I think a LOT of OP's issues, now that I'm genuinely thinking ... [snip!] ... I'm genuinely thinking about it, are body-image, and you're going to insinuate that her body's gone to shit after five kids? "</blockquote>



Uh it was a question and a pretty legitimate one. Most women don't stay tgin after that many kids. Obviously the OP is unusual in that aspect

user banned 6 kids; 1 angel baby; Los Angeles, CA, United States 3597 posts
19th Aug '12
Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" How is that a double standard? You moved your kids away from their fathers that actually want to be in their lives so you can have a suga daddah. "


If I posted about possibly burning down my home or in this case, all the smoke damage that had happened, the responses would be totally different.

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
19th Aug '12
Quoting krystle*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting JiLLiAN.:</b>" the fire, no...but the smoke damage, yes. Everything ... [snip!] ... a hotel. :("</blockquote> Man I couldn't image. I'm glad you guys are all okay. Is insurance paying for the hotel?!"

Yeah, everything. Hotel, food, everything that needs to be replaced (and they do it at market value, so we might get more than we need) - but we were just looking at new houses & were going to put the house up for sale this week. Great timing, huh?



At least it happened before baby came.

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
19th Aug '12
Quoting Mommy to 6 ღ 23wks:" If I posted about possibly burning down my home or in this case, all the smoke damage that had happened, the responses would be totally different."


No, i think people would actually feel sympathetic toward you if you posted anything that had to do with real life and things that actually matter.