So i meet this guy from a friend and at a party we ended up having sex and I got pregnant. I tried to make it work. My parents even let him move in with us so he could help take care of me and our daughter. Well i went to the doctor and they told me my due date and it was much earlier than what i though i should have been if it was his baby, well i confided in a friend and told her that the doctor said the baby couldnt be his. Well i found out he gave me chalymdia(sp?) and the week before i got that test i went to the health department they testd me and it came back neg then go to my ob a week later and found out i had it. i was pissed we ended up breaking up, then my "friend" i confided in told him after they got together that my daughter might not be his. We still talkd for months and even dated for like 3 weeks and then i found out another girl was pregnant with his child and that he cheated on me when we got back together for those 3 weeks. He then told me he didnt want to have anything to do with out daughter, and i told him once he walks out on my daughter theres not coming back. He said ok. His friends and family think im a bitch bc of everythings that happend.
Well he moved out of state to find work, Im 31 weeks, Im scared hes gonna find out im in labor and come down here and start a whole bunch of crap. Idk what to do!!!
Nothing now. DNA test when she is born but the doctor already said it isn't his. Soooo DNA is your only option.
Do you think it's his?
DNA,you should have him be a part of the baby life
If the due date doesn't add up and it's not his kid then you need to leave him alone. Tell him it's not his kid and stop bothering him. He sounds like a douch anyway.
What day did you have sex with him and what is your due date? Was that due date determined by an early ultrasound?
i havent talked to him in months. The doc that said it wasnt his didnt do my ultrasound, the ultrasound date adds up to it being his. Im not bothering him, when he denied her i changed my number so he couldnt contact me ne more
Quoting Diana Brock:" i havent talked to him in months. The doc that said it wasnt his didnt do my ultrasound, the ultrasound ... [snip!] ... date adds up to it being his. Im not bothering him, when he denied her i changed my number so he couldnt contact me ne more"
When was your first ultrasound and what due date did they give you based on that ultrasound?
Quoting Mrs. Post-tato Head
Do you know who else the father may be, has he been contacted?
Quoting Diana Brock:" i remember my last day of my last period being jan 19 and my due date is oct 19, the doc that said ... [snip!] ... it wasnt his said my uterus was measuring big. but my due date has been the same since i got my first ultrasound done in feb. "
What day did you have sex with him?
Quoting ~a girl and a boy~:" Do you know who else the father may be, has he been contacted?"
yes i do and he has been contacted and he acts like i dont exist.
Quoting Mrs. Post-tato Head
Quoting Diana Brock:" like jan 20 or 21 something like that "
So right when you got off your period?