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how do I tell him Tabatha killen Due September 9 (girl); 16 kids; Des Moines, Iowa 221 posts
21st Aug '12

I went to the Dr yesterday with my mom because I am leaking some thing and having some really painful contractions they said it read nothing but I didn't tell Jeremy we now have an apt tomorrow and I know their going to want to talk about it either way if I tell him in the morning (he works nights) or wait to go to the Dr and have him figure it out were going to argue about it feel kinda bad not tellin him like when I went but he was sleeping and I wanted to know that everything was ok what do you think tell him our wait

GrumpsMama 1 child; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 16074 posts
21st Aug '12

He would be mad because you didn't tell him?

Donna Jo Tanner 1 child; Beach Haven, New Jersey 6440 posts
21st Aug '12

He would be upsetting didn't tell him you went to get checked out? I'm a little but confused about what you are talking about..

NewMommyXOXO 1 child; South Carolina 1183 posts
21st Aug '12

Just tell him before hand...why is it such a big deal? Glad my hubby isn't like that....

BoogzThaMommy Due January 20 (boy); 1 child; Illinois 36 posts
21st Aug '12

Either way, if you think hes gonna be mad that you went to the doctor and didnt tell him, thats stupid and you should tell him to quit being a b****.. Im sorry but if your concerned of the babies health and hes mad, he sounds like a jerk.

Tabatha killen Due September 9 (girl); 16 kids; Des Moines, Iowa 221 posts
21st Aug '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting GrumpsMama.:</b>" He would be mad because you didn't tell him?"</blockquote>




Yes he want to be as involved as possible but he worked the night before a so I didn't want to be like get up and take me now the last time we went in he told me not to that I would be sent home and I did I think he gets mad that we sir and wait for nothing is in his eyes but even if he doesn't want to go he goes and this time he didn't go so Idk if will argue because I didn't tell him he didn't go or both he is kinda jealous of my mom cause I give her the needy greeti and not him I feel weird talking to him about what's coming out.what color or talk about my bowel movement I mainly just tell him baby stuff Idk just want to tell him but is it to late for it to not be a fight

Tabatha killen Due September 9 (girl); 16 kids; Des Moines, Iowa 221 posts
21st Aug '12

The reason he'd be mad is because he wasn't there I left him at home but didn't want to wake him up to go so I think he'd be mad at that part not that I went but that I didn't take him with me

BoogzThaMommy Due January 20 (boy); 1 child; Illinois 36 posts
21st Aug '12

Sit down with him and explain to him yesterday something serious happened that was extremely concerning to you so you rushed to the doctor and luckily found out nothing was wrong. He should understand. He'll have plenty of appointments to tend to!

Tabatha killen Due September 9 (girl); 16 kids; Des Moines, Iowa 221 posts
21st Aug '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting BoogzThaMommy:</b>" Sit down with him and explain to him yesterday something serious happened that was extremely concerning ... [snip!] ... to the doctor and luckily found out nothing was wrong. He should understand. He'll have plenty of appointments to tend to!"</blockquote>




I think the party that would start the argument is that my mom went with me he feels me mom is taking over the show and pushing him of to the side and I have talked to get about that idk should I tell him before we go in our wait til were their

BoogzThaMommy Due January 20 (boy); 1 child; Illinois 36 posts
21st Aug '12

He'll feel more betrayed if you wait any longer..

Tabatha killen Due September 9 (girl); 16 kids; Des Moines, Iowa 221 posts
21st Aug '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting BoogzThaMommy:</b>" He'll feel more betrayed if you wait any longer.."</blockquote>




That's what I thought just really don't wasn't him mad at me for keeping it toys long

Tabatha killen Due September 9 (girl); 16 kids; Des Moines, Iowa 221 posts
21st Aug '12
Quoting Tabatha King-killen:" <blockquote><b>Quoting BoogzThaMommy:</b>" He'll feel more betrayed if you wait any ... [snip!] ... wait any longer.."</blockquote> That's what I thought just really don't wasn't him mad at me for keeping it toys long"


if you could make sense of half of that im so proud of u i took and ambien to go to sleep yes got permission from the doc but get really loopy kinda like a really good drunken party lol then on top of that was on my droid lol i told him but hes at work so said we will talk later i hope hes not mad i can see where hes coming from but i just didn't want to wake him up we dont ever fight unless its because of my mom hes like extremely jealous thinks shes taking over the whole thing and not leaving him room for nothing which i understand but we have done our thing too i mean if we don't like something i tell her idk i guess he doesn't feel as involved as he wants because of her we wont fight cause hes mad at me well fight because hes made at her