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child support question *LeeAnn+3* 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Batesville, Arkansas 12492 posts
22nd Aug '12

I called the child support office today & they are sending me a packet to file for cs.



What does it consist of?
How will Alyssahs father be notified that i filed for cs?

MommaNoodle 2 kids; Pennsylvania 13115 posts
22nd Aug '12
Quoting *Tat'd b***h*:" I called the child support office today & they are sending me a packet to file for cs. What does it consist of? How will Alyssahs father be notified that i filed for cs?"


idk for sure, but i think they send him a letter. i know at one point, my bf's ex filed for it, and he found out because his boss said, "um... i got some child support papers regarding you..." but idk.

K[♥ E&C] 2 kids; Nevada 25704 posts
22nd Aug '12

More than likely he'll be served with the papers. They differ state to state. Mine was included in divorce and it wanted my request for custody, what I make, what he makes, where he works, where I work, bills, etc..
I'm glad I don't have to deal with this crap anymore.

Be prepared, it's stressful.

user banned Due November 7; 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
22nd Aug '12

Just went through this.



They will send him a letter with a hearing date where you will go get a paternity test. <-- unless you were married.



If he does not show up for that, they will send him another one.



You will all 3 go at the same time to give DNA samples so you will know if he goes.

*LeeAnn+3* 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Batesville, Arkansas 12492 posts
22nd Aug '12

We r still married.



I dnt know his address, ss#. I know his dob, and where he works

user banned Due November 7; 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
22nd Aug '12
Quoting *Tat'd b***h*:" We r still married. I dnt know his address, ss#. I know his dob, and where he works"


In that case, they will send him a certified letter in the mail and you will both show up to provide income, child care bills, insurance ect.



He does NOT have to show up to this. If he doesn't they will pull his tax info from that. Or he can have his lawyer send in the paper work without being present.

*LeeAnn+3* 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Batesville, Arkansas 12492 posts
22nd Aug '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Smartass *TNTC*:</b>" In that case, they will send him a certified letter in the mail and you will both show up to provide ... [snip!] ... If he doesn't they will pull his tax info from that. Or he can have his lawyer send in the paper work without being present."</blockquote>




I dnt have any income right now.

user banned Due November 7; 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
22nd Aug '12
Quoting *Tat'd b***h*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Smartass *TNTC*:</b>" In that case, they will send him a certified ... [snip!] ... he can have his lawyer send in the paper work without being present."</blockquote> I dnt have any income right now."

You are still required to show up and report that.

*LeeAnn+3* 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Batesville, Arkansas 12492 posts
22nd Aug '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Smartass *TNTC*:</b>" You are still required to show up and report that."</blockquote>




How do i report that? Just tell them?

user banned Due November 7; 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
22nd Aug '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Tat'd b***h*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Smartass *TNTC*:</b>" You are still required to show up and report that."</blockquote> How do i report that? Just tell them?"</blockquote>




Yes, you will just go tell them. And tell them how you pay your bills. If you're on assistance they will ask. You will have to show how LO is medically insured as well.