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Andraya DeCouto Due September 21 (boy); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Turlock, California 191 posts
29th Dec '12
Quoting clay matthews:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Andraya DeCouto:</b>" Today is my 3rd year anniversary with ... [snip!] ... rambling. Oh, and I would like to be added to the facebook page. Sending a request."</blockquote> Happy Anniversary!"


Thank you! :)

Sugar Momma 2 kids; Poughkeepsie, New York 1561 posts
30th Dec '12

What do you guys like better I like
Gabriella Faith Ciraolo
Or hubby likes
Maya May Ciraolo

Lilly and Laya's momma Due May 25; 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Chesapeake, Virginia 7908 posts
30th Dec '12
Quoting Sugar Momma:" What do you guys like better I like Gabriella Faith Ciraolo Or hubby likes Maya May Ciraolo"

Maya May? IMO it doesn't make sense to have Maya then May as a middle name

Leslie Jones Due May 21 (girl); 4 kids; North Carolina 391 posts
30th Dec '12

I like Gabriella Faith. :)

Two Princesses 2 kids; Long Beach, CA, United States 7203 posts
30th Dec '12
Quoting Sugar Momma:" What do you guys like better I like Gabriella Faith Ciraolo Or hubby likes Maya May Ciraolo"


I like Gabriella



but some variations your hub might like better:
Brielle
Briella
Gabrielle

armymommyof3 3 kids; Texas 276 posts
30th Dec '12

Maya with may imo is too much like maybe combine the two my suggestions are
Maya Gabrielle
Gabriella May
Maya faith
If you dont mind me saying both have picked beautiful names so combining them you can both get a name you love

Sugar Momma 2 kids; Poughkeepsie, New York 1561 posts
31st Dec '12

Hubby won't budge on maya may I like Gabriella Faith my 4 year old is Isabella so I would have Isabella and Gabriella I love it hehe

HamHam 18 kids; India 3485 posts
31st Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sugar Momma:</b>" What do you guys like better I like Gabriella Faith Ciraolo Or hubby likes Maya May Ciraolo"</blockquote>



I like Maya, but not May for a middle name. My daughter is Maya Sarafina;)

babycakes! 18 kids; Orem, Utah 1939 posts
31st Dec '12

so we decided that we also like the name allo....
so our guns are up between...



Allo James
or
Soren Riley

Andraya DeCouto Due September 21 (boy); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Turlock, California 191 posts
31st Dec '12

You guys are making me so jealous lol! You are planning out your baby names, and unfortunately I'm the other way around, have a girl and boy named picked out already, but waiting to find out what I'm having lol! Congrats to all you mommas who found out what your having, cause now you can just plan for your little angels. I am just waiting anxiuosly for time to pass to find out, and then I can start to relax a little more, until it's time to start buying things and getting things officially ready for the baby. I'm truely crossing my fingers for a boy! But I will be happy either way as long as it's a healthy baby! :D

Andraya DeCouto Due September 21 (boy); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Turlock, California 191 posts
31st Dec '12

Goodness I am just so upset! My husband is such an embarrassment. I swear I don't think I can be with him anymore. See when in high school I was never a partier, but my husband was. And I swear he still thinks its okay to drink like that. Today he has the day off because one of his bosses is so hungover he told everyone to take the day off. So my husband comes home and drinks a beer at 8:30 in the morning! Then he leaves to one of his coworkers and drinks more! He just came back, and he's stumbling everywhere. I have a big glass of water next to me, and he picks it up and tries to hug me and ends up pouring it all over me! I swear, he does this every weekend and it's getting old! I love him to death, but I'm trying to be an adult, take care of myslef, and this baby, and now I have to take care of him? Like really, you're 23 fucking years old! Grow the fuck up! I'm seriously thinking about divorce, because I have put up with so much in just the 6 years we have been together. I really have! He has done a lot of fucked up shit to me, and he knows I am bipolar, have anxiety problems and everything. I have enough to worry about this baby. How I can afford it, how I'm going to be able to anything for it, since all he does is spend every paycheck on himself. I can't get a job, I've tried for a year, still try everyday, but no one ever calls me back for an interview. I'm just stuck in this rut, and I can't deal any longer. I def do not want my child to learn that acting like this is okay, because it really isn't. ****End rant, sorry, I had to get that out.

Lilly and Laya's momma Due May 25; 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Chesapeake, Virginia 7908 posts
31st Dec '12
Quoting Andraya DeCouto:" Goodness I am just so upset! My husband is such an embarrassment. I swear I don't think I can be with ... [snip!] ... not want my child to learn that acting like this is okay, because it really isn't. ****End rant, sorry, I had to get that out."

How often does he drink? Sounds like he may have an drinking problem. Drinking at 8 in the morning is crossing the line

Two Princesses 2 kids; Long Beach, CA, United States 7203 posts
31st Dec '12
Quoting Sugar Momma:" Hubby won't budge on maya may I like Gabriella Faith my 4 year old is Isabella so I would have Isabella and Gabriella I love it hehe"


Tell him he can have one, but not both lol.

Two Princesses 2 kids; Long Beach, CA, United States 7203 posts
31st Dec '12
Quoting Andraya DeCouto:" Goodness I am just so upset! My husband is such an embarrassment. I swear I don't think I can be with ... [snip!] ... not want my child to learn that acting like this is okay, because it really isn't. ****End rant, sorry, I had to get that out."


How many children do you have together? I ask because it doesn't say at the bottom of your posts like it does for some of us.
I empathize with ya. My ex husband was the kind of drunk who would have molt liquor at 8 in the morning. Hell if he woke up at 3AM and couldn't sleep due to alcoholism disturbing his sleep cycle, he'd go out and get another beer. Steal one if he was broke.
I can tell you it's probably not going to change unless he decides he really wants it too.
My ex husband picked me up to hug me while he was hammered and dropped me. While I was in the second trimester of my pregnancy. I was soo upset.
I also have some psychiatric issues and breaking the cycle was really hard for me.
Feel free to talk to me anytime you need support.

the BEAST Wisconsin 15638 posts
31st Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Andraya DeCouto:</b>" Goodness I am just so upset! My husband is such an embarrassment. I swear I don't think I can be with ... [snip!] ... not want my child to learn that acting like this is okay, because it really isn't. ****End rant, sorry, I had to get that out."</blockquote>




my DH drank a lot before DS was born. Since we've had DS, I can count on one hand the number of times he's been drunk (and DS is 7).



Have you talked to him about this? If you don't think a conversation would go well, write him a letter. I've started doing that with DH when I'm at the end of my patience with him. Sometimes I give him the letter and sometimes I don't; depends on how I'm feeling once I've let everything flow out of me.



Your DH is 23, that's still pretty young. We women grow up a lot faster than guys do, especially when we're going to be parents (this is in general, there ARE some guys who are exceptions rather than the rule). For many guys, they don't really feel like a parent until they actually see their child for the first time.



I personally don't think having a daytime beer is the end of the world on NYE. I wouldn't gt too pissed at DH if he had done that today (provided i was home with the kids and if he left the house his keys stayed with me). Falling down drunk is another story or if this is everyday behavior.