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Mommy&Noah Los Angelos, CA, United States 2036 posts
23rd Aug '12

And the crazy thing is that I am now the bad guy. He's never been there and yeah I know I was dumb for sleeping with him unprotected again but I thought shit had changed. Now he doesn't want to be around me or my son and shit is right back like it used to be. I hate this whole damn situation. He's acting like its the highlight of my day to go get an abortion. I can barely get by with the kid I got now he doesn't help financially so he doesn't know how hard it is.

Blythe. 1 child; Indiana 22567 posts
23rd Aug '12
Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" When I took the pill 3 years ago it was 350. You can also get help for paying for an abortion if you need the help. "


:shock: Holy crap! That is outrageous!

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36713 posts
23rd Aug '12
Quoting Mommy&Noah:" And the crazy thing is that I am now the bad guy. He's never been there and yeah I know I was dumb for ... [snip!] ... go get an abortion. I can barely get by with the kid I got now he doesn't help financially so he doesn't know how hard it is."



I would take him for child support.



He is a jerk for thinking that getting an abortion is the highlight of your day.

Life is G♡♡d 21 kids; 16461 posts
23rd Aug '12
Quoting Mommy&Noah:" And the crazy thing is that I am now the bad guy. He's never been there and yeah I know I was dumb for ... [snip!] ... go get an abortion. I can barely get by with the kid I got now he doesn't help financially so he doesn't know how hard it is."


Have you taken him to court for financial help? (Child support)
Though, even sometimes court ordered child support doesn't change things, especially if he doesn't have a job! It will just put him in arrears if he doesn't pay.
BUT, if he does have a job, it will come directly out of his pay check each week and be sent to you

Mommy&Noah Los Angelos, CA, United States 2036 posts
23rd Aug '12
Quoting Life is G♡♡d :" Have you taken him to court for financial help? (Child support) Though, even sometimes court ordered ... [snip!] ... arrears if he doesn't pay. BUT, if he does have a job, it will come directly out of his pay check each week and be sent to you"


He doesn't have a job right now so he's not paying. It's taken out on him he just can't pay it or he just won't pay it.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36713 posts
23rd Aug '12

Honestly, I think you should do whatever YOU want to do. Not because he wants you to.

Mama Van D Due November 3; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Unity, Maine 2454 posts
23rd Aug '12
Quoting Smartass *TNTC*:" No... the abortion pill...."


There's an abortion pill? I didn't even know that.



Where I live, I might as well live in a cave :P

Mommy&Noah Los Angelos, CA, United States 2036 posts
23rd Aug '12
Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" Honestly, I think you should do whatever YOU want to do. Not because he wants you to. "

An abortion is what I really want. There's no way in hell I can have a child. If i chose to keep this baby it would take away from the child I have now.

Life is G♡♡d 21 kids; 16461 posts
23rd Aug '12
Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" Honestly, I think you should do whatever YOU want to do. Not because he wants you to. "


:!::!::!:

user banned Due November 7 (boy); 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
23rd Aug '12
Quoting Mommy&Noah:" And the crazy thing is that I am now the bad guy. He's never been there and yeah I know I was dumb for ... [snip!] ... go get an abortion. I can barely get by with the kid I got now he doesn't help financially so he doesn't know how hard it is."

Do not listen to anyone but you. You are the only person who will 100% be there to feel the concequences of your decisions.

Mama Van D Due November 3; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Unity, Maine 2454 posts
23rd Aug '12
Quoting Mommy&Noah:" An abortion is what I really want. There's no way in hell I can have a child. If i chose to keep this baby it would take away from the child I have now."


Well, there's your answer. Your body, your choice.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36713 posts
23rd Aug '12
Quoting Mommy&Noah:" An abortion is what I really want. There's no way in hell I can have a child. If i chose to keep this baby it would take away from the child I have now."


Ok. Thats good that you have thought about the pros and cons. I wish you the best. If you need someone to talk to before and afterwards, I am here. I have done all 3 options.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36713 posts
23rd Aug '12
Quoting Mama Van D:" There's an abortion pill? I didn't even know that. Where I live, I might as well live in a cave :P"



Yup. lol....

Mama Van D Due November 3; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Unity, Maine 2454 posts
23rd Aug '12
Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" Yup. lol...."


Yeah that makes more sense. I was totally lost there... my bad!

talexys 1 child; Ontario 1147 posts
23rd Aug '12

Shitty situation, depends where you are, free health care in canada where im from....my daughters 4 months and im always horrified of getting pregnant again, Im on the pill but still scarey, and Im in a healthy relationship so I could not imagin your situation. Good luck and stay strong!