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lolajessup Due July 25 (girl); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
3rd Jan '13

So i broke off my engagement last night. I found out Sam was keeping things from me again. It's stupid stuff usually but there have been big things do its just another betrayal of my trust. I told him I can't marry him until he figured himself out. I told him we need to go back to being friends and start over. And if I'm what he really wants then he can win me back over. But for now I'm just gonna focus on keep Scarlytt in and let him do his thing. If he really does love me he needs to prove it. I'm done letting him hurt me time after time. Obviously me taking him back isnt changing anything so I needed to do something drastic because 6 years is just too long to put up with this crap.

Tish baby2cute ~BAB~ 6 kids; Ohio 3224 posts
3rd Jan '13
Quoting lolajessup:" So i broke off my engagement last night. I found out Sam was keeping things from me again. It's stupid ... [snip!] ... him back isnt changing anything so I needed to do something drastic because 6 years is just too long to put up with this crap."

I'm sorry mama. But i'm glad you are focusing on you and your kids and what's best for you guys. It's good to take a stand for yourself, sometimes that's all it takes for people to see where they need to change before they mess up a good thing. Stay strong, hugs!!

lolajessup Due July 25 (girl); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
3rd Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tish baby2cute ~BAB~:</b>" I'm sorry mama. But i'm glad you are focusing on you and your kids and what's best for you guys. It's ... [snip!] ... sometimes that's all it takes for people to see where they need to change before they mess up a good thing. Stay strong, hugs!!"</blockquote>



Thanks. I really hope this kicks him into gear. I'm just don't letting him think it's ok and I'll always be there. He was very hurt by me doing this. So I hope it's a reality check.

Boog's Mama. 1 child; Little Rock, AR, United States 9063 posts
3rd Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting T + T = A S G ♥:</b>" I don't know if any/many of you were following the Emilee and her daughter Leila Grace story. She was ... [snip!] ... My heart breaks for her and I wanted to ask those of you who pray, to pray for the boyfriend and son she leaves behind."</blockquote>



oh my gosh :( I've been following her page on Facebook

.t a y l o r. 3 kids; Indiana 3847 posts
3rd Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jace's Momma (34):</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting T + T = A S G ♥:</b>" I don't know if any/many of you ... [snip!] ... pray for the boyfriend and son she leaves behind."</blockquote> oh my gosh :( I've been following her page on Facebook"</blockquote>




A lot of us are really heartbroken :/ A few of the girls got incredibly close to her. She was suffering from severe depression and a lot of suicidal thoughts, she was supposed to actually be starting to get help yesterday or today. They're calling it an accidental suicide right now as she was on several medications and drank at the same time to try and numb the pain. I couldn't imagine the amount of pain she was in :(

✰ Mrs. B ✰ 2 kids; Texas 2640 posts
3rd Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting T + T = A S G ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jace's Momma (34):</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting T ... [snip!] ... on several medications and drank at the same time to try and numb the pain. I couldn't imagine the amount of pain she was in :("</blockquote>




So sorry to hear that. Prayers for everyone she left behind; family and friends (even BG friends!).

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
3rd Jan '13
Quoting T + T = A S G ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jace's Momma (34):</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting T ... [snip!] ... on several medications and drank at the same time to try and numb the pain. I couldn't imagine the amount of pain she was in :("


That is incredibly sad! Keeping the family in my thoughts

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
3rd Jan '13
Quoting lolajessup:" So i broke off my engagement last night. I found out Sam was keeping things from me again. It's stupid ... [snip!] ... him back isnt changing anything so I needed to do something drastic because 6 years is just too long to put up with this crap."


:( :(
I am sorry to hear you guys are having problems. If you need to talk, I'm hear for you!

✰ Mrs. B ✰ 2 kids; Texas 2640 posts
4th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" So i broke off my engagement last night. I found out Sam was keeping things from me again. It's stupid ... [snip!] ... him back isnt changing anything so I needed to do something drastic because 6 years is just too long to put up with this crap."</blockquote>



Hope things work out :) best of luck to you guys

Moi H* 2 kids; Columbia, SC, United States 2224 posts
4th Jan '13

I've had a terrible headache for two days. I've had my pressure checked and it isn't high. No swelling or anything. Maybe I just need to get out of the house.

lolajessup Due July 25 (girl); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
4th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Moi H*:</b>" I've had a terrible headache for two days. I've had my pressure checked and it isn't high. No swelling or anything. Maybe I just need to get out of the house."</blockquote>



Did u try a little caffeine? Sometimes when im laying down all day I tend to bend my neck weird and that gives me headaches. Try stretching.

Moi H* 2 kids; Columbia, SC, United States 2224 posts
4th Jan '13
Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Moi H*:</b>" I've had a terrible headache for two days. I've ... [snip!] ... caffeine? Sometimes when im laying down all day I tend to bend my neck weird and that gives me headaches. Try stretching."


I've tried stretching and caffeine. Nothing works. Not even Tylenol.

lolajessup Due July 25 (girl); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
4th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Moi H*:</b>" I've tried stretching and caffeine. Nothing works. Not even Tylenol."</blockquote>



:( sometimes low blood pressure causes it too. Since I've been sitting more my Bo has been going lower. Today it was 95/something. She kept retaking it had me sit up and everything. Usually my average is 120/whatever.

Moi H* 2 kids; Columbia, SC, United States 2224 posts
4th Jan '13
Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Moi H*:</b>" I've tried stretching and caffeine. Nothing works. ... [snip!] ... going lower. Today it was 95/something. She kept retaking it had me sit up and everything. Usually my average is 120/whatever."


It was 100/70. Which is higher than it usually is. It's using 85-95/whatever.

lolajessup Due July 25 (girl); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
4th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Moi H*:</b>" It was 100/70. Which is higher than it usually is. It's using 85-95/whatever."</blockquote>



Oh geeze. Weird. So maybe it's a little top high for you?