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Moi H* 2 kids; Columbia, SC, United States 2224 posts
4th Jan '13
Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Moi H*:</b>" It was 100/70. Which is higher than it usually ... [snip!] ... than it usually is. It's using 85-95/whatever."</blockquote> Oh geeze. Weird. So maybe it's a little top high for you?"


Yeah. I had 3 liters of water yesterday along with a serving of milk, a bit of coffee and some juice. The only other time I get headaches is when my iron is low, but I've been taking my pills and the prenatals with iron. My doctor isn't worried because my pressure wasn't high. :( I hope they go away soon.



How are you doing? How's everything going?

Jae- DJ Jordyn & Cams Mom 3 kids; San Diego, California 5928 posts
4th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Moi H*:</b>" I've tried stretching and caffeine. Nothing works. Not even Tylenol."</blockquote>




I hate those headaches that never go away :( all that seems to work for me is dark chocolate, a coke and a nap in the dark. Not the most healthy but it works 75% of tr time so I go with it.

Moi H* 2 kids; Columbia, SC, United States 2224 posts
4th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jae=Devin & Jordyns Mommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Moi H*:</b>" I've tried stretching and caffeine. Nothing works. ... [snip!] ... work for me is dark chocolate, a coke and a nap in the dark. Not the most healthy but it works 75% of tr time so I go with it."</blockquote>



I haven't tried coke yet. I usually do coke and tylenol since I can't have excedrin. DH says I'm spending too much time on the computer and phone.

Jae- DJ Jordyn & Cams Mom 3 kids; San Diego, California 5928 posts
4th Jan '13

I met with the new Dr yesterday. She was awesome! I passed my 3 hours with no problems! She's still ok with the VBA2C as long as I progress on my own and everything happens naturally. She just wanted to make sure I knew the risks and said ok, as long as you are aware. She also warned me to stay home as long as possible as some of the other Drs on call won't be very patient given my history. That was my plan anyways. I spent an entire day at the hospital with DD dilated to a 1! Much rater be at home for that this time.



She also said last Dr was watching my size as I was measuring ahead and wanted poss ultrasound but she said I'm right on this time and its not needed! ( I'm not a fan of late US for size as they can be off by so much and then they just use them to try and talk you into the C-Section)



And she was soo good with DS and let him help her use the Doppler to check baby's heart beat. It was soo cute. (Usually I go alone but DH wanted to meet the new Dr)

Jae- DJ Jordyn & Cams Mom 3 kids; San Diego, California 5928 posts
4th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jae=Devin & Jordyns Mommy:</b>" I met with the new Dr yesterday. She was awesome! I passed my 3 hours with no problems! She's still ok ... [snip!] ... him help her use the Doppler to check baby's heart beat. It was soo cute. (Usually I go alone but DH wanted to meet the new Dr)"</blockquote>




Also forgot to add C-Section scheduled for 2/28.. So I know I'll have a Feb baby... I just pray I go into labor prior on my own so I can at least try labor once more.

Moi H* 2 kids; Columbia, SC, United States 2224 posts
4th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jae=Devin & Jordyns Mommy:</b>" I met with the new Dr yesterday. She was awesome! I passed my 3 hours with no problems! She's still ok ... [snip!] ... him help her use the Doppler to check baby's heart beat. It was soo cute. (Usually I go alone but DH wanted to meet the new Dr)"</blockquote>



Glad that you like your new Dr. I hope everything goes the way you want it.

lolajessup Due July 25; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
4th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Moi H*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jae=Devin & Jordyns Mommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... yet. I usually do coke and tylenol since I can't have excedrin. DH says I'm spending too much time on the computer and phone."</blockquote>



Yeah that could do it. Maybe your eyes are strained :( I try to take time
Off the screens and do sudoku or rub oil on my belly, anything to stop my eyes from straining.

lolajessup Due July 25; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
4th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Moi H*:</b>" Yeah. I had 3 liters of water yesterday along with a serving of milk, a bit of coffee and some juice. ... [snip!] ... doctor isn't worried because my pressure wasn't high. :( I hope they go away soon. How are you doing? How's everything going?"</blockquote>



I'm fine. Just overwhelmed with all this emotional strain.

lolajessup Due July 25; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
4th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jae=Devin & Jordyns Mommy:</b>" I met with the new Dr yesterday. She was awesome! I passed my 3 hours with no problems! She's still ok ... [snip!] ... him help her use the Doppler to check baby's heart beat. It was soo cute. (Usually I go alone but DH wanted to meet the new Dr)"</blockquote>



Awwe I'm glad your appt was good :) its so nice to have a dr who's willing to do what YOU want to do. I hope you go into labor before the 28th :( do they just not want you to go overdue and get baby too big?

Jae- DJ Jordyn & Cams Mom 3 kids; San Diego, California 5928 posts
4th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Moi H*:</b>" Yeah. I had 3 liters of water yesterday along ... [snip!] ... How are you doing? How's everything going?"</blockquote> I'm fine. Just overwhelmed with all this emotional strain."</blockquote>




I can't imagine dealing with all that while trapped in a hospital bed. Are you planning on moving any of your stuff or just waiting until you have the baby and going from there?

Jae- DJ Jordyn & Cams Mom 3 kids; San Diego, California 5928 posts
4th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jae=Devin & Jordyns Mommy:</b>" I met with the new Dr yesterday. ... [snip!] ... what YOU want to do. I hope you go into labor before the 28th :( do they just not want you to go overdue and get baby too big?"</blockquote>




Yea that's one of the rules you can't go overdue as the risks increase. She wanted to schedule on my due-date 2/27 but I talked her into 2/28.

lolajessup Due July 25; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
4th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jae=Devin & Jordyns Mommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Moi H*:</b>" ... [snip!] ... in a hospital bed. Are you planning on moving any of your stuff or just waiting until you have the baby and going from there?"</blockquote>



No he doesn't want me to leave but idk if I'll sleep on the couch maybe. It might be easier after a csection anyway. I haven't thought that far. But I'm giving him a chance to try to win me back and start over from just friends. I told him what it will take but I couldn't make any promises as idk if I can let this go. And I said he needs help. Maybe counseling. Idk. But I old him to come today with a plan as to What he's gonna do to fix himself. Because I'm obviously not enough for him to change. It's an addiction really. His mind set is to justify his lies. It's a problem and ive tried to help him break it and understand but I just can't do it alone. I've tried Everytime. But it never works.

Jae- DJ Jordyn & Cams Mom 3 kids; San Diego, California 5928 posts
4th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jae=Devin & Jordyns Mommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... and ive tried to help him break it and understand but I just can't do it alone. I've tried Everytime. But it never works."</blockquote>




Hopefully this is the wake-up call he needs. I had a friend who married a younger woman (he loved her to death) but would allways lie to her- for no reason at all. Over everything, I mean to the point that he'd go to Carl's Jr and told her he went to Jack in the Box... Why would you lie about that. She started to grow up and mature and realized it wasn't right. She divorced him and they spent at least 1-2 years apart, they are together again and happier then ever. Sometimes what I'm tryin to say is you standing up and being willing to end it and walk away is what it takes for men to change. My friend allways saw his wife a pretty young girl never a maitre responsible woman until she left!

Tish baby2cute ~BAB~ 6 kids; Ohio 3224 posts
4th Jan '13
Quoting Jae=Devin & Jordyns Mommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jae=Devin & Jordyns Mommy:</b>" I met with the new Dr yesterday. ... [snip!] ... for 2/28.. So I know I'll have a Feb baby... I just pray I go into labor prior on my own so I can at least try labor once more."

I hope you do to. I'm not allowed to go overdue either. If you remember, i wanted to try a VBA2C. My doctor is being less reasonable though, she is now telling me absolutely not. I've also had two prior hernia surgeries so she thinks my risks are high for hemorrhage or uterine rupture. At first i was going to labor at home as long as possible, but i'm not sure what's best for me or the baby. Everyone seems to think a scheduled c-section:(

lolajessup Due July 25; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
4th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jae=Devin & Jordyns Mommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jae=Devin ... [snip!] ... it takes for men to change. My friend allways saw his wife a pretty young girl never a maitre responsible woman until she left!"</blockquote>



Thats how he is. It's just such stupid crap. There have Been big things but really most of it is just stupidity. I ask him all the time if it's really worth risking out relationship over. But apparently he didn't care or take me seriously. So hopefully now he takes me seriously and gets help. Idk what strategies there are To help compulsive liars.