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Ashlin's Momma 1 child; Lovell, WY, United States 396 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting ✰ Mrs. B ✰:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Evieprzbrwn:</b>" Mrs.B my doctor told me that if the contractions ... [snip!] ... it probably would lol. They're not painful enough yet for me to worry about having DH come home & getting someone to watch DD."


Don't let the pain fool you!! When I went into the hospital last Tuesday because my contractions were 3-5 mins apart, I sat there for about two hours and after a while they picked up but the pain started subsiding!! So by the time they discharged me, I was having contractions I couldn't feel but I knew were there cause they made the machine "plateau" as the nurse lady said.

Ashlin's Momma 1 child; Lovell, WY, United States 396 posts
4th Feb '13

After not seeing my doctor since 34 weeks, I'm curious as to see how today goes. I wonder if I'm dilated further.. Or if she'll attempt to strip me.. Ooooo so much excitement!! I thought last night my water had broke because my panties were soaked in liquid that smelled like maple syrup (<-- Weird and TMI I know) but I haven't had any more fluid leak so I guess I'll find out what's going on in about 4 hours!!!!

Evieprzbrwn (girl); 20 kids; Lynn Haven, Florida 135 posts
4th Feb '13

oh ok. Hope everything goes well for you today.

Skyelynn---39 wks Due February 13 (girl); 1 child; North Carolina 1256 posts
4th Feb '13

In waiting room for dr apt. Hoping for more progress.

Boog's Mama. 1 child; Little Rock, AR, United States 9064 posts
4th Feb '13

So, still only 1cm and thick at today's appt. My cervix is still really high up and my doctor doesn't see him coming this week. My next appt is next Tuesday at 2:30, I'll be 40w3d. He said we'd talk about induction and all that then if he still isn't here, and he said he'd only let me go a week to ten days over.. So I guess we'll see what happens.

✰ Mrs. B ✰ 2 kids; Texas 2640 posts
4th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jace's Momma (39):</b>" So, still only 1cm and thick at today's appt. My cervix is still really high up and my doctor doesn't ... [snip!] ... that then if he still isn't here, and he said he'd only let me go a week to ten days over.. So I guess we'll see what happens."</blockquote>



My doctor only allows a week over, so that's what we'll be discussing at my appointment tomorrow (@ 40 weeks) if nothing happens before appointment.

Skyelynn---39 wks Due February 13 (girl); 1 child; North Carolina 1256 posts
4th Feb '13

Ok. Only 1 more cm dilated so I am at a 2. Dr said a little more effaced than last week. I don't know what he did though but I am HURTING. Bad cramps in my back. Like I get with my period. And he said baby is very low. Said we will see what happens this week.

Tish baby2cute ~BAB~ 6 kids; Ohio 3224 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Momma Kylee +2.5:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A❤T=P+[It's a Girl:</b>" I am so sorry. Hopefully he ... [snip!] ... I've never even spoken to the guy... Ridiculous. I'm due any day now, i don't need this shit and refuse to put up with it."

So sorry you are being treated that way. You just keep stanging up for yourself and stay strong!

Momma Kylee TTC since Nov 2013; 3 kids; Concho, AZ, United States 3318 posts
4th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tish baby2cute ~BAB~:</b>" So sorry you are being treated that way. You just keep stanging up for yourself and stay strong!"</blockquote>



Thanks. I'm making a list of things to discuss with him when he's sobered up



Being taken advantage of check
Being walked on check
being disrespected check
being abused check



Anything else you ladies would add? In still thinking.



I'm pissed right now cause for the last 2 days in a row I've been up half the night with the kids and he just walked in and took a nap with out saying anything to me. I'm fucking exhausted and he doesn't bat an eye.

Tish baby2cute ~BAB~ 6 kids; Ohio 3224 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Skyelynn---38 wks:" In waiting room for dr apt. Hoping for more progress."

Good luck!

Tish baby2cute ~BAB~ 6 kids; Ohio 3224 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Skyelynn---38 wks:" Ok. Only 1 more cm dilated so I am at a 2. Dr said a little more effaced than last week. I don't know ... [snip!] ... Bad cramps in my back. Like I get with my period. And he said baby is very low. Said we will see what happens this week."

At least you made progress, that's good news!

Tish baby2cute ~BAB~ 6 kids; Ohio 3224 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Momma Kylee +2.5:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tish baby2cute ~BAB~:</b>" So sorry you are being treated that ... [snip!] ... the kids and he just walked in and took a nap with out saying anything to me. I'm fucking exhausted and he doesn't bat an eye."

It sounds like he is too wrapped up in his own wants and needs, to really focus on yours and the kids! Whatever you do, don't back down. He will always think he can smooth things over and treat you that way, if you don't stick to your guns. You sound like a strong woman who knows what she wants and deserves. You and your kids deserve better and if he can't provide that, you need to show him by action that you won't stand for it!

✰ Mrs. B ✰ 2 kids; Texas 2640 posts
4th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Momma Kylee +2.5:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tish baby2cute ~BAB~:</b>" So sorry you are being treated that ... [snip!] ... the kids and he just walked in and took a nap with out saying anything to me. I'm fucking exhausted and he doesn't bat an eye."</blockquote>



How about that his reoccurring binges negatively effect your sobriety?

✰ Mrs. B ✰ 2 kids; Texas 2640 posts
4th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tish baby2cute ~BAB~:</b>" It sounds like he is too wrapped up in his own wants and needs, to really focus on yours and the kids! ... [snip!] ... You and your kids deserve better and if he can't provide that, you need to show him by action that you won't stand for it!"</blockquote>



I agree with all this too. Good luck mama!

Momma Kylee TTC since Nov 2013; 3 kids; Concho, AZ, United States 3318 posts
4th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ✰ Mrs. B ✰:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Momma Kylee +2.5:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tish ... [snip!] ... and he doesn't bat an eye."</blockquote> How about that his reoccurring binges negatively effect your sobriety?"</blockquote>




Mt sobriety is fine, i don't even bat an eye lash at the thought, mention, sight of the drug. But his relapses are negative on our relationship and our family for sure. He thinks I'm cheating on him with his dope dealer when I've never even spoken to the guy. He gets so paranoid. He is dead positive that I'm having an affair.... I never leave the house, i run a24/7 in home day care and I'm 39 weeks pregnant....he works from home so his delusions aren't even feasible lol cause we are both always here ALWAYS