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Tish baby2cute ~BAB~ 6 kids; Ohio 3224 posts
9th Mar '13
Quoting Sunkissed.
Momma Kylee TTC since Nov 2013; 3 kids; Concho, AZ, United States 3318 posts
9th Mar '13

Things got worse, I've contacted the women crisis center and will be heading there asap. I can't believe it's c come to this. I'm going to have to start my life completely over from scratch, chances are i won't be able to go until he's asleep so i can't take much.

lolajessup Due July 25 (girl); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
9th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Momma Kylee:</b>" Things got worse, I've contacted the women crisis center and will be heading there asap. I can't believe ... [snip!] ... have to start my life completely over from scratch, chances are i won't be able to go until he's asleep so i can't take much."</blockquote>




Oh my :( I'm so sorry. Are you able to take all the kids there? I wish I was closer to help you :( what r u doing about daycare? Taking a break until you get a new place established? If you need anything let me know. Even if its sending u a pack of diapers or kids clothes or anything. *hugs* I have access to lots of free second hand clothes if you aren't able to get a lot out.

Moi H* 2 kids; Columbia, SC, United States 2224 posts
9th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sunkissed.

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
9th Mar '13
Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Momma Kylee:</b>" Things got worse, I've contacted the women ... [snip!] ... or kids clothes or anything. *hugs* I have access to lots of free second hand clothes if you aren't able to get a lot out."


I second this. I will do whatever I can to help. Good luck Kylee, be safe!

Momma Kylee TTC since Nov 2013; 3 kids; Concho, AZ, United States 3318 posts
9th Mar '13

He came home Abbe packed a bag. Says he'll be back for the rest of his things next week. He says in Monday he's having my name put on the lease and he'll be removing himself from it.

N's Momma☆ 1 child; Spain 2346 posts
9th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Momma Kylee:</b>" He came home Abbe packed a bag. Says he'll be back for the rest of his things next week. He says in Monday he's having my name put on the lease and he'll be removing himself from it."</blockquote>



:( Oh my! I'm sorry.

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
10th Mar '13
Quoting Momma Kylee:" He came home Abbe packed a bag. Says he'll be back for the rest of his things next week. He says in Monday he's having my name put on the lease and he'll be removing himself from it."


I'm sorry it has come to that, maybe it's for the best tho. You and the kids will still have a home and be safe. and you can keep doing the daycare to keep making money, since you were the only one paying them before.



*hugs*

lolajessup Due July 25 (girl); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
10th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting A❤T=P&W:</b>" I'm sorry it has come to that, maybe it's for the best tho. You and the kids will still have a home ... [snip!] ... and be safe. and you can keep doing the daycare to keep making money, since you were the only one paying them before. *hugs*"</blockquote>




Yup this. It might be for the best that he goes out on his own. Then maybe he'll be forced to shape up and might realize what he is losing. I'm so sorry sweetie. I know it's hard but you need to keep you and your kids safe and they're not safe when their dad is on drugs :(

Tish baby2cute ~BAB~ 6 kids; Ohio 3224 posts
10th Mar '13
Quoting Momma Kylee:" Things got worse, I've contacted the women crisis center and will be heading there asap. I can't believe ... [snip!] ... have to start my life completely over from scratch, chances are i won't be able to go until he's asleep so i can't take much."

So sorry to hear this. I hope you and your kids get the help you need to stay on your feet. Stay strong, *hugs*!!

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
10th Mar '13

FYI c-section mamas....I have been using the vitamin e oil on my incision a few times a week for a couple of weeks, the hard spots and raised places are gone, the discoloration is barely visible and the incision is just a thin line.

lolajessup Due July 25 (girl); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
10th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting A❤T=P&W:</b>" FYI c-section mamas....I have been using the vitamin e oil on my incision a few times a week for a couple ... [snip!] ... of weeks, the hard spots and raised places are gone, the discoloration is barely visible and the incision is just a thin line."</blockquote>



I use it on mine too but mine just seems to keep getting worse. It was a thin light line. Now it's darker red. Idk if its just a stage in in of the healing process or what. :( and the lumps inside feel bigger. But you can't see them. I can just feel them inside.

✰ Mrs. B ✰ 2 kids; Texas 2640 posts
10th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" Yeah id wait at least a week or two. I would pick up some acidipholus (sp?) to help keep it at bay. "</blockquote>



I've been taking my probiotics, which has it in it along with several different others. It says to take 1 a day but I take it as much as 3 times a day for right now to help get rid of the thrush faster & hopefully keep it from returning. So far all symptoms have cleared, he's back to latching good again & eating like a champ & my milk supply is exploding again...holy leakage the last 2 days! Woke up to my shirt & sheets soaked more than once last night. So from what I've read since thrush can affect milk supply, it seems to be another sign the thrush has cleared up.

lolajessup Due July 25 (girl); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
10th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ✰ Mrs. B ✰:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" Yeah id wait at least a week or two. I would ... [snip!] ... last night. So from what I've read since thrush can affect milk supply, it seems to be another sign the thrush has cleared up."</blockquote>



That's great!! Just make sure you're b**bs are emptying because thrush grows when milk is just sitting in there.

Leah + 4 4 kids; 1 angel baby; United Kingdom 6374 posts
11th Mar '13

9 days overdue :( I see my midwife tomorrow morning for my 3rd sweep and to book induction