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user banned 19 kids; Japan 4077 posts
23rd Aug '12
Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 16143 posts
23rd Aug '12
Quoting ℳizz ℊiz. :" oh no way am i farther than 4 weeks. i was on birth control before this month. took it out july 22nd. exactly a month ago. and i had negative HPT's before the light positives."


If there is a question usually they just do blood work and if the HCG fails to zero out then they'd want to do an ultrasound.

Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 16143 posts
23rd Aug '12
Quoting ℳizz ℊiz. :" ya same with me right now. ready to just try again. just scared of having another. ugh i just want to start "AF" already because until i do theres always that thought, "well maybe there's a chance"."


Honestly, what helped me the most to keep my sanity was being grateful that 1) I didn't have to tell anyone I wasn't pregnant after all and 2) I didn't have to go through the whole long drawn out process of D&C and waiting for another cycle to try again. Take some comfort in knowing that the vast majority of chemicals are flukes and when you get pregnant again the odds are in your favor for you to carry to term.

user banned 19 kids; Japan 4077 posts
23rd Aug '12
user banned 19 kids; Japan 4077 posts
23rd Aug '12
user banned 19 kids; Japan 4077 posts
23rd Aug '12
meℓissa♡ TTC since Sep 2014; 1 child; ., CA, United States 18318 posts
24th Aug '12
Quoting ℳizz ℊiz. :" just thought id update. just started bleeding/miscarrying. :( was indeed a chemical pregnancy."


:(



*hugs*

3 Little Ladies + Mommy & Due April 17 (girl); 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Maryland 7447 posts
24th Aug '12

I had a chemical this past December. I got a faint, BFP on November 29 and my tests kept getting lighter and lighter and I started bleeding on December 3 so it took four days. I'm sorry you're going through this:(


*Edit*
I just saw your update. I'm so sorry:(

Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 16143 posts
24th Aug '12
Quoting ℳizz ℊiz. :" ugh you are SO right. the whole D&C process took a HORRIBLE emotional toll on my husband and i. ... [snip!] ... sad or anything. you don't need to answer if its hard. i just don't really know what to expect. i've only ever had a D&C."


No it's not hard for me to talk about. My chemical honestly was no different than a regular period. For some women they're like a bad period and you may pass some clots, but there shouldn't be any tissue or a sac or anything.

Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 16143 posts
24th Aug '12
Quoting ℳizz ℊiz. :" just thought id update. just started bleeding/miscarrying. :( was indeed a chemical pregnancy."


:(

SherryandMatt Due February 15 (boy); 1 child; 6 angel babies; Arizona 4001 posts
24th Aug '12
Quoting ℳizz ℊiz. :" thanks and im sorry for your loss. were those chemical pregnancies you had??"



No I was 8 weeks with both. But if you got positives you can't be totally sure they were chemical, you may have mc really early? I really wish you the best!




edit.... just saw your update:( Sorry