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shouldn't you want children with the one you've fallen in lo possibiltylongshot Due April 30; Japan 18 posts
26th Aug '12

I'm 17 and have been with my bf a year. We've been very much in love and we know we are meant for each other. I know I'll be with him forever. And he says he feels like rejected that I dont want to continue. I mean if it's forever and it's meant t be. Nothing will destroy us. It's not him. But it's everything else. Is this wrong?

CircleK 1 child; 1 angel baby; Federal Way, WA, United States 11023 posts
26th Aug '12

You're 17. You shouldn't be wanting children at that age. You've just begun living.

Robbie's Incubator 17 kids; Pearl City, Hawaii 7031 posts
26th Aug '12

Sorry, I'm not really understanding the question here, but...
I met my husband when I was seventeen. I like to believe very deeply that we will be together forever, but things can happen. Who knows?



Either way, good luck with your relationship. :)

♥MomToSilas+1♥ Due December 9; 1 child; ., IL, United States 11500 posts
26th Aug '12

I don't think I understand the question. But you're 17 hun. Live your lives before you try having children..

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36642 posts
26th Aug '12
Quoting Circle K:" You're 17. You shouldn't be wanting children at that age. You've just begun living."



I agree. Things can change in years.. or for a couple months for that matter. I met my oldest sons father at 16. I was with him until 22. Nothing is forever.. Life your life. I am GLAD that I didnt get pregnant when we were TTC at 17... I got pregnant a year and a half later.

Avery 1 child; Arizona 2709 posts
26th Aug '12

I don

Derp Due January 10; 1 child; Camp Lejeune, NC, United States 11610 posts
26th Aug '12

If I had a dime for every couple that said they would be together forever when they were teenagers I would be richer than Bill Gates. It's all a part of teenage naivety. It's adorable in a way, really :lol:



P.S.: I too thought I would be with my first love forever. That lasted for a year and a half.

possibiltylongshot Due April 30; Japan 18 posts
26th Aug '12

yea but he accepts me for everything I am.



anyway my question is like since I like between us are ok whats the problem? It's just familywise I know how bad it can get. I guess it's like I would want to have a child with him I'm just scared of other risks

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36642 posts
26th Aug '12
Quoting possibiltylongshot:" yea but he accepts me for everything I am. anyway my question is like since I like between us are ok ... [snip!] ... familywise I know how bad it can get. I guess it's like I would want to have a child with him I'm just scared of other risks"


Im sorry... but you are stupid. You are 17.. you arent really much of anything right now. you are 17!!!! But do what you want... Damn you are so confusing..

Derp Due January 10; 1 child; Camp Lejeune, NC, United States 11610 posts
26th Aug '12
Quoting possibiltylongshot:" yea but he accepts me for everything I am. anyway my question is like since I like between us are ok ... [snip!] ... familywise I know how bad it can get. I guess it's like I would want to have a child with him I'm just scared of other risks"

Like what? Why are you scared of risks? Be a typical teenager and simply act now and think about it later, it's the thing to do! Be selfish! Go ahead and have that baby because YOU want one and because some guy accepts you. Consequences? Pffft. Worrying about consequences is for smart people and adults.

The Inconspicuous Raccoon 2 kids; Cincinnati, Ohio 1723 posts
26th Aug '12

Are you saying that you are pregnant and that he wants you to have the baby but you don't think you guys are ready?



That's what I'm getting from this.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36642 posts
26th Aug '12
Quoting Raptor Jesus (TTC):" Like what? Why are you scared of risks? Be a typical teenager and simply act now and think about it later, ... [snip!] ... want one and because some guy accepts you. Consequences? Pffft. Worrying about consequences is for smart people and adults. "


I agree!!!! lol.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36642 posts
26th Aug '12
Quoting The Inconspicuous Raccoon:" Are you saying that you are pregnant and that he wants you to have the baby but you don't think you guys are ready? That's what I'm getting from this."


Maybe Im stupid or something but it sounds like she wants to have the baby because its with him..

The Inconspicuous Raccoon 2 kids; Cincinnati, Ohio 1723 posts
26th Aug '12
Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" Maybe Im stupid or something but it sounds like she wants to have the baby because its with him.. "


"And he says he feels like rejected that I dont want to continue. I mean if it's forever and it's meant to be, nothing will destroy us. It's not him but it's everything else. Is this wrong?"

I could be the stupid one or reading this wrong :P

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36642 posts
26th Aug '12
Quoting The Inconspicuous Raccoon:" "And he says he feels like rejected that I dont want to continue. I mean if it's forever and it's meant ... [snip!] ... will destroy us. It's not him but it's everything else. Is this wrong?" I could be the stupid one or reading this wrong :P"


OH ok. It is almost 4 here. lol.