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Cast Your Vote:

    • Money -- Votes: 3
    • Personal choices -- Votes: 2
    • Step-parents/gfs/bfs -- Votes: 0
    • Time with your child -- Votes: 6
    • Decisions regarding to your child. -- Votes: 3
    • Other-explain -- Votes: 2
What do you and your ex argue about the most? MahmuhMahmuh 3 kids; Wichita, Kansas 6706 posts
26th Aug '12

Just curious what are other's trouble areas in dealing with the "other parent".

Mommy2Kay 1 child; Florida 4211 posts
26th Aug '12

There should be a all the above option in the poll :D



But that was before, I completely cut him out.

Amber ♡ Due August 13; 1 child; Kansas 17649 posts
26th Aug '12

As of right now, time with our child.

MahmuhMahmuh 3 kids; Wichita, Kansas 6706 posts
26th Aug '12
Quoting Mommy2Kay:" There should be a all the above option in the poll :D But that was before, I completely cut him out."


Hence "the most".. I know most parents probably argue about everything on the list at some point or another.. I know we used to, now we just argue about who has Daniel when..

Bearer of ʞings 9 kids; Santa Cruz de Tenerife, Spain 8251 posts
26th Aug '12

Getting back together :roll: but he is out of my life now :)

Irish Mammy*J,R&A* 19 kids; London, United Kingdom 6065 posts
26th Aug '12

We argue most about the fact he repeatedly tells me sons on the phone 'mummy doesnt want you to have a daddy thats why i live in ireland' and how he plays the victim about not seeing the kids, when it was completely his choice to leave the country

Mommy2Kay 1 child; Florida 4211 posts
26th Aug '12
Quoting MahmuhMahmuh:" Hence "the most".. I know most parents probably argue about everything on the list at some point or another.. I know we used to, now we just argue about who has Daniel when.."


We used to argue about everything! To him I requested him to pay CS because he betrayed me 4 years ago, then we would go on about how he doesn't see him enough and it would lead to him lying his gf was present at times.



Seriously, it was horrible!

MahmuhMahmuh 3 kids; Wichita, Kansas 6706 posts
26th Aug '12
Quoting Mommy2Kay:" We used to argue about everything! To him I requested him to pay CS because he betrayed me 4 years ago, ... [snip!] ... on about how he doesn't see him enough and it would lead to him lying his gf was present at times. Seriously, it was horrible!"


Yeah we used to argue about money, and me forcing him to see his son, and him dating a girl that belonged in a psych ward that would sell her medications to have money for gas to come see him (her text messages said exactly this to him) Him having time to be in the club on the weekends but only saw his son 6 hours a week.. Where our son would go to daycare, what doctors we'd use.. Anything we could argue about, we did.



Now we argue about who gets to have him more, and what style of hair cut he should have... And thankfully, these arguments will be solved when Daniel can make decisions for himself.

Jodie Raggett Due September 13; 3 kids; United Kingdom 138 posts
26th Aug '12
Quoting MahmuhMahmuh:" Just curious what are other's trouble areas in dealing with the "other parent"."


His crap efforts at spending time with his 3kiddies. He has such a different way of thinking to me, like this weekend he wanted 2bring my younger 2 hm (Olivia age 7 and Lee 4) but keep my 10yr old (Grace) there with his new wife and step-daughter till thursday, I thought that was'nt at all fair on my younger 2. I said no 2that, you have 3kiddies to think of, he thought I was being mean?

meggg+J,B&L♥ 3 kids; Nasinu, Fiji 16900 posts
26th Aug '12

his only responsibility, child support. he ran away like a little b***h to brazil so he wouldnt have to pay

Little Vine Japan 422 posts
26th Aug '12

Nada! I have sole custody and he has no contact--his choice.



Thank God.

MahmuhMahmuh 3 kids; Wichita, Kansas 6706 posts
26th Aug '12
Quoting meggg+J&B♥:" his only responsibility, child support. he ran away like a little b***h to brazil so he wouldnt have to pay"


Wow. He's still on track for dad of the year huh?

meggg+J,B&L♥ 3 kids; Nasinu, Fiji 16900 posts
27th Aug '12
Quoting MahmuhMahmuh:" Wow. He's still on track for dad of the year huh?"


hahaha yup! oh well, he has my SO. hes a pathetic excuse for a man and jacob doesnt need him, he never has!

MahmuhMahmuh 3 kids; Wichita, Kansas 6706 posts
27th Aug '12
Quoting meggg+J&B♥:" hahaha yup! oh well, he has my SO. hes a pathetic excuse for a man and jacob doesnt need him, he never has!"


:-/.. At least he has two parents who are there and care.. Ex still off playing football was it?

meggg+J,B&L♥ 3 kids; Nasinu, Fiji 16900 posts
27th Aug '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MahmuhMahmuh:</b>" :-/.. At least he has two parents who are there and care.. Ex still off playing football was it?"</blockquote>




Yup, not sure if he's still doing that