melindapple 1 child; Michigan 5425 posts
Aug 30th '12
Quoting [P&T's Mama]- Baking#3:" There is no 'ignore' under her name??? It does suck! Like really! Idk how many times she requested me ... [snip!] ... on a few times then stopped then when I got preg with this one I started using it. So I went to look in my pt&there she was!!"


maybe she just wants mommy friends, since she found out she was pregnant? Maybe she never said "hi" to you before because you had nothing in common? Idk, i just don't see why you are this upset over someone PTing and friend requesting you. Since you hardly know this girl, how do you know she is just trying to start drama? Maybe she wants advice from someone around her age?
Random girls from school added me when they got pregnant and started talking to me. I never spoke to them before, but now i have a few new friends because we have something in common. Idk, i just wouldn't get as easily upset as you i guess.

AJosetteMac 3 kids; Farmington, New Mexico 893 posts
Aug 30th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting J+K=Bri:):</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting BαƚMαɳ:</b>" That will keep you from seeing ... [snip!] ... :!: Or unlock ptot. So she can't see them, is she in your pt? Or in the section where others ptd you?"</blockquote>




She pt'd me

AJosetteMac 3 kids; Farmington, New Mexico 893 posts
Aug 30th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting melindapple:</b>" maybe she just wants mommy friends, since she found out she was pregnant? Maybe she never said "hi" ... [snip!] ... but now i have a few new friends because we have something in common. Idk, i just wouldn't get as easily upset as you i guess."</blockquote>




Well for one she's no longer pregnant. Idk why she hasn't changed that crap. She had her baby in May. So if she wanted advice wouldn't she have asked. Or prior to her last times trying to friend me on fb wouldn't she try to contact as to why she wanted to add me if it was that important. She also I THINK dated one of my ex's. We never spoke in high school, in town, at the doctors office or anywhere. I've ran into her multiple times. It gets on my nerves cuz my hometown is all talk. All they do is talk about people. Word spreads about everything like wild fire. So I avoid people I don't know&keep my stuff on private. For this reason. My grandpa is well known&for some reason he knows A LOT of what goes on in my life. That's why. I'm upset cuz she just doesn't stop. If you were denied by soemone would you continue to try&add them to everything else? I would stop.

Bethy-Poodles Due November 14 (boy); 2 kids; Prosser, Washington 5867 posts
Aug 30th '12
Quoting melindapple:" maybe she just wants mommy friends, since she found out she was pregnant? Maybe she never said "hi" ... [snip!] ... but now i have a few new friends because we have something in common. Idk, i just wouldn't get as easily upset as you i guess."

She's following her around. I would be upset too. From Facebook, here, and even instagram. Creeper.

EskimoKiss TTC since Apr 2014; 1 child; Texas 11221 posts
Aug 30th '12

Like another poster said Hide your identity on here. Simple

melindapple 1 child; Michigan 5425 posts
Aug 30th '12
Quoting [P&T's Mama]- Baking#3:" <blockquote><b>Quoting melindapple:</b>" maybe she just wants mommy friends, since ... [snip!] ... cuz she just doesn't stop. If you were denied by soemone would you continue to try&add them to everything else? I would stop."



oh, i misunderstood. I thought all of this was recent (her getting pregnant and adding you on different websites). I was thinking she never had a chance to message/contact you.

♔ BαtMαɳ Gotham, DC, United States 84347 posts
status Aug 30th '12
Quoting EskimoKiss:" Like another poster said Hide your identity on here. Simple"


:!:



That's what I do :D Well kinda.
Ok not really now that I think about it. But it's a good idea if you have stalkers.

EskimoKiss TTC since Apr 2014; 1 child; Texas 11221 posts
Aug 30th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting [P&T's Mama]- Baking#3:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting melindapple:</b>" maybe she just wants mommy friends, since ... [snip!] ... cuz she just doesn't stop. If you were denied by soemone would you continue to try&add them to everything else? I would stop."</blockquote>




You keep everything else private so why not change you pic and give vague info on how many kids u have and where u live and any other identifying info.

AJosetteMac 3 kids; Farmington, New Mexico 893 posts
Aug 30th '12

I honestly think that is complete crap. I shouldn't have to change crap! Cuz she wants to stalk! I shouldn't have to change my crap for her! She shoul just cut her shit! I'm sorry ladies but it doesn't set well with me the fact that she's requested me. Never reached out if she wanted advice. She's seen me after I denied her friend request! Never said "hi" or anything. Don't you think if she wanted "advice" she would have tried to say hi or anything. She NEVER talks to me. EVER. Just tries to request me on everything.

♔ BαtMαɳ Gotham, DC, United States 84347 posts
status Aug 30th '12
Quoting [P&T's Mama]- Baking#3:" I honestly think that is complete crap. I shouldn't have to change crap! Cuz she wants to stalk! I shouldn't ... [snip!] ... "advice" she would have tried to say hi or anything. She NEVER talks to me. EVER. Just tries to request me on everything."


Maybe she is just shy or socially awkward. Why don't you try talking to her?

Bethy-Poodles Due November 14 (boy); 2 kids; Prosser, Washington 5867 posts
Aug 30th '12
Quoting [P&T's Mama]- Baking#3:" I honestly think that is complete crap. I shouldn't have to change crap! Cuz she wants to stalk! I shouldn't ... [snip!] ... "advice" she would have tried to say hi or anything. She NEVER talks to me. EVER. Just tries to request me on everything."

You shouldn't have to, that's true. She should just get the hint and leave you alone. But since she's not giving you any peace, changing your stuff might be the only way to get her out of your hair. You could private message her and tell her how you feel. Maybe she'll stop once you voice your thoughts on the subject.

AJosetteMac 3 kids; Farmington, New Mexico 893 posts
Aug 30th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting EskimoKiss:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting [P&T's Mama]- Baking#3:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... private so why not change you pic and give vague info on how many kids u have and where u live and any other identifying info."</blockquote>



Don't women get called out on here if they seem "fake" like that they aren't real or whatever that is. . . That's my issue with changing info. As kids&such. And no its not recent. She requested me via facebook like two years ago then again&now babygaga and now instagram. But she's NEVER tried to talk. Before or after the requests.

EskimoKiss TTC since Apr 2014; 1 child; Texas 11221 posts
Aug 30th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting BαƚMαɳ:</b>" :!: That's what I do :D Well kinda. Ok not really now that I think about it. But it's a good idea if you have stalkers."</blockquote>




The only identifiable info I have is my DDs profile pic and my location I'm not trying to hide who I am per se but I'm def not trying to wave a red flag like "hey look at me I'm so and so" if I did however run into someone I knew on here I would lock my Shit down lol

Bethy-Poodles Due November 14 (boy); 2 kids; Prosser, Washington 5867 posts
Aug 30th '12
Quoting [P&T's Mama]- Baking#3:" <blockquote><b>Quoting EskimoKiss:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting [P&T's Mama]- ... [snip!] ... like two years ago then again&now babygaga and now instagram. But she's NEVER tried to talk. Before or after the requests."

Well, no. If you don't post your location, and use a different picture for your profile here. That's not going to make you seem fake. It's when mom's lie about how many kids they have, or make up stories and post them on here.

♔ BαtMαɳ Gotham, DC, United States 84347 posts
status Aug 30th '12
Quoting EskimoKiss:" <blockquote><b>Quoting BαƚMαɳ:</b>" :!: That's what I do :D Well ... [snip!] ... a red flag like "hey look at me I'm so and so" if I did however run into someone I knew on here I would lock my Shit down lol"


haha yeah I would do the same thing!! I don't live in Puerto Rico and I am not due with twins (congrats on yours btw). Anyone who knows me on here knows that and I don't go around advertising it either lmao. I don't even have my real name posted on here! Too many crazies.