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31st Aug '12

So ive been dating this guy for a while now but we have only seen each other in person a few times due to bad schedules between us.i have found out that hes flirted with others girls. Anyways he wants me to move in with him. He feels we can make it work and things will be better that way bc he says he wants to see me everyday. Why would he want me to mive in with him if hes flirting witg other girls? I just don't get his adgenda. He asked me to help with the deposit which is due today and said hell give me keys and if i want for now i can just stay with him part time until i mive in permanent.im so lost

Dawnmarie Naughton 7 kids; Mastic Beach, New York 456 posts
31st Aug '12

i wouldn't do it i would just stay away from him how long is awhile?

kakskvkm_plus 1 Due December 10; 20 kids; 1 angel baby; Nebraska 5043 posts
31st Aug '12
Quoting baby mama bunny:" So ive been dating this guy for a while now but we have only seen each other in person a few times ... [snip!] ... today and said hell give me keys and if i want for now i can just stay with him part time until i mive in permanent.im so lost"


If I were you I wouldn't rush into living together.

user banned 1 child; Illinois 3734 posts
31st Aug '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Dawnmarie Naughton:</b>" i wouldn't do it i would just stay away from him how long is awhile?"</blockquote>




Like 5 months and what do yoy mean by stay away

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56009 posts
31st Aug '12

You've only been together for 5 months? NO WAY would i move in with a guy after just 5 months

Mak&Row 18 kids; Portland, Oregon 763 posts
31st Aug '12

Not sure how old you are...but make a mature choice...don't play house too soon

user banned 1 child; Illinois 3734 posts
31st Aug '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly&Coralie:</b>" You've only been together for 5 months? NO WAY would i move in with a guy after just 5 months"</blockquote>




That how i feel to. I have no problem staying with him a few nights here and there to see how i feel about things but i feel if i help with the deposit then im saying that ive made my choice

user banned 1 child; Illinois 3734 posts
31st Aug '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mak&Row:</b>" Not sure how old you are...but make a mature choice...don't play house too soon"</blockquote>




Im 22 and have 2 year old. Hes 27 and has a 4 year old

ANMELL 2 kids; Detroit, Michigan 190 posts
31st Aug '12

I get the impression him wanting you to help on the deposit is because he cant make the whole thing on his own...and that could be the motivation for asking you to move in. Either way 5 months of only seeing each other a few times doesnt sound like a long enough time to jump into moving in together. Maybe try seeing each other more first. Good luck

tooodles 240 kids; Thailand 5075 posts
31st Aug '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ANMELL:</b>" I get the impression him wanting you to help on the deposit is because he cant make the whole thing on ... [snip!] ... times doesnt sound like a long enough time to jump into moving in together. Maybe try seeing each other more first. Good luck"</blockquote>




That was my first impression to. Dont do it. If he wants you there part time you shouldnt be having to pay for the deposit or anything. Its weird he would even ask that of you for only dating for 5 months.

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56009 posts
31st Aug '12
Quoting baby mama bunny:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly&Coralie:</b>" You've only been together for 5 months? ... [snip!] ... here and there to see how i feel about things but i feel if i help with the deposit then im saying that ive made my choice"



It just sounds shady.
You've only seen each other in person a handful of times. That isn't enough for a relationship



PLus he is looking at/flirting with other girls? Nope. I would end it completely . Something just don't feel right about this situation

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
31st Aug '12
Quoting baby mama bunny:" So ive been dating this guy for a while now but we have only seen each other in person a few times ... [snip!] ... today and said hell give me keys and if i want for now i can just stay with him part time until i mive in permanent.im so lost"


No. You should never move into a guy you've been dating for five months' house WITH your daughter. Especially if you don't even trust him. He's using you for money.
:?

Mak&Row 18 kids; Portland, Oregon 763 posts
31st Aug '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting baby mama bunny:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mak&Row:</b>" Not sure how old you are...but make a mature choice...don't ... [snip!] ... make a mature choice...don't play house too soon"</blockquote> Im 22 and have 2 year old. Hes 27 and has a 4 year old"</blockquote>



It's a disaster waiting to happen and you two need to think about the kids involved...they get attached quickly.

user banned 1 child; Illinois 3734 posts
31st Aug '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ANMELL:</b>" I get the impression him wanting you to help on the deposit is because he cant make the whole thing on ... [snip!] ... times doesnt sound like a long enough time to jump into moving in together. Maybe try seeing each other more first. Good luck"</blockquote>




Thats what i thought too but he said he doesn't even care if i help out with rent and that hell even helo me out with my daughter. He did say he hopes i atleast help out in some way like with cleaning and maybe a few groceries here and there. He said hell give me money on his next check idk im so lost

user banned 1 child; Illinois 3734 posts
31st Aug '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting :*:CHRiSTiNe:*::</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ANMELL:</b>" I get the impression him wanting you to help on ... [snip!] ... shouldnt be having to pay for the deposit or anything. Its weird he would even ask that of you for only dating for 5 months."</blockquote>



He wants me to move in for good but i don't want to yet so hes okay with me living with him part time until im officials moved in