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Can anyone help me...I need advise I Love Blake Michael 1 child; Lindley, New York 34 posts
1st Sep '12

alright i dont know if any of you can help me but im 16 and my husband (baby daddy) is 20 he was 19 when i got pregnant but the court put a restraining order on us so we cant have any contact at all...but my mom did NOT press charges infact she signed for us to get married...does anyone have any advise for us??? could i possibly get a doctors note saying that its streeing me out and get that dropped??? it really is stressing me and the baby out and i know thats not good for either of us

lolajessup Due July 25 (girl); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
1st Sep '12

How did u get married if there's a restraining order? Were u 15 when u got preg?

Gir! 2 kids; Ohio 7504 posts
1st Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting I Love Blake Michael:</b>" alright i dont know if any of you can help me but im 16 and my husband (baby daddy) is 20 he was 19 when ... [snip!] ... streeing me out and get that dropped??? it really is stressing me and the baby out and i know thats not good for either of us"</blockquote>



You would have to right a petition and go to court to have this dropped. That's far reaching as it is. Why is it in place?

*Turtles* Due July 27 (girl); 1 child; Someplace, UT, United States 6090 posts
1st Sep '12

Who put the restraining order on him?

Juggernog-aholic 4 kids; 2 angel babies; P, AR, United States 20116 posts
1st Sep '12

I have no advice, but could you have your mom call the courts and see if she can get it lifted?

Tikaytasha 17 kids; New York 11503 posts
1st Sep '12

Why was a restraining order put on him in the first place?

Manderz576 1 child; Ontario 53 posts
1st Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting I Love Blake Michael:</b>" alright i dont know if any of you can help me but im 16 and my husband (baby daddy) is 20 he was 19 when ... [snip!] ... streeing me out and get that dropped??? it really is stressing me and the baby out and i know thats not good for either of us"</blockquote>




Weird I'f your 16 you're over the consent age ....

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
1st Sep '12

Somebody must have reported the statutory rape. How long have you been married?

Donna Jo Tanner 1 child; Beach Haven, New Jersey 6440 posts
1st Sep '12

Um I'm calling bs because they can't put a restraining order against your HUSBAND AFTER you're married. If it was considered illegal where you live you wouldn't have been able to marry him in the first place....

I Love Blake Michael 1 child; Lindley, New York 34 posts
1st Sep '12

we got married before the judge ordered the restraining order and i was 16 when i got pregnant...my mom was in the court room when the judge ordered it but they wouldnt let her talk....

Donna Jo Tanner 1 child; Beach Haven, New Jersey 6440 posts
1st Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting A❤T=P+[It's a Girl:</b>" Somebody must have reported the statutory rape. How long have you been married?"</blockquote>




But if they already married they can't do anything about it.
If she was younger than 16, she would have had to go before a judge to get permission to get married (in most states), if she is a 16+ than its legal.

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
1st Sep '12
Quoting Manderz576:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I Love Blake Michael:</b>" alright i dont know if any of you ... [snip!] ... baby out and i know thats not good for either of us"</blockquote> Weird I'f your 16 you're over the consent age ...."


Pretty sure in NY it's 17.



user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
1st Sep '12
Quoting I Love Blake Michael:" we got married before the judge ordered the restraining order and i was 16 when i got pregnant...my mom was in the court room when the judge ordered it but they wouldnt let her talk...."


What was the reason for the order?

When did you get married?

1inpink2inblue Switzerland 11961 posts
1st Sep '12

I call BS. They can't do that. Nor would they have a legit reason to if you are already married.

Donna Jo Tanner 1 child; Beach Haven, New Jersey 6440 posts
1st Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting A❤T=P+[It's a Girl:</b>" Pretty sure in NY it's 17. "</blockquote>




Well I'm in nj (most of our laws are the same) and its 16.
I know this because my sister got married on right after her 16th bday to her 18yo DH. She waited two weeks after her 16th so she didn't have to go before a judge and get permission.