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im 18 and fed up.. i need advice Shaishai3 Due November 16 (boy); Japan 57 posts
4th Sep '12

i have a boyfriend who is 20 years old he has two other kids supposably on baby thats a couple months old and one thats about to me born and mine thats supposed to be here in nov. all i do is here bout the to girls with the kids how he does stuff with them blah blah he lives with me and works for my dad he has talked to them in a cheating like manner. like facebook and meets up with them. either one of the girls have his number but they have mine im tired of the stress and he gets mad when i bring it up is it time just do do it on my own??

HungryHippo 2 kids; Missouri 12139 posts
4th Sep '12

you dont want him to talk to the mother of his other children?

BαtMαɳ Secret Bat Cave, FK, Oman 62870 posts
4th Sep '12

If I understand this correctly... yes you do. He seems like a douche.

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56008 posts
4th Sep '12

Why can't he talk to the mother of this children? I assume he needs to talk to her so he can see his children.

Momma Rawks 1 child; Iowa 7171 posts
4th Sep '12

So, you're pregnant with his fifth kid?



If he's talking to them, no big deal... they are the mothers of his other children. If he's cheating on you with them (or anyone), then you need to ditch the relationship and talk to him purely as the father of your child.

Mama Massa 36 kids; Tampa, Florida 697 posts
4th Sep '12

um being that he has a child that is a few months old and 2 other girls pregnant at the same time,one of them being you, i would say that it's your call. I mean, were you in a relationship when you got pregnant?

Shaishai3 Due November 16 (boy); Japan 57 posts
4th Sep '12

its not that i dont want them to talk the girls are always trying to say nasty things to him and im just tired of being in the middle.

Shaishai3 Due November 16 (boy); Japan 57 posts
4th Sep '12

no i have his third. and yes we were together when i got prego. its emarrisng but we dated not even a month when it happened. and now whe are 7 months. i just dont know what are lies and the truth any more.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36477 posts
4th Sep '12

I would leave. Been there, done that shit... glad I left. Glad I placed our kid for adoption because now when our child is 15 months old he will have another kid which would be his 4th.

Shaishai3 Due November 16 (boy); Japan 57 posts
4th Sep '12
Quoting Momma Rawks:" So, you're pregnant with his fifth kid? If he's talking to them, no big deal... they are the mothers ... [snip!] ... on you with them (or anyone), then you need to ditch the relationship and talk to him purely as the father of your child."

its just all weird if i broke up with him he lives with me and we run the buisness that my dad is the owner of and he works and i answer phones. im so confussed. :| and if i bring up hm cheating he says okay brake up with me and ill sign all the rights to our son to u.

Mama Massa 36 kids; Tampa, Florida 697 posts
4th Sep '12
Quoting Shaishai3:" no i have his third. and yes we were together when i got prego. its emarrisng but we dated not even a ... [snip!] ... we dated not even a month when it happened. and now whe are 7 months. i just dont know what are lies and the truth any more."

as long as he hasn't been cheating and has been faithful for the 7 months, he really can't be faulted since you knew his past but i would be cautious. If you consider what he is doing to be wrong and he doesn't care about your feelings, then move on.

Shaishai3 Due November 16 (boy); Japan 57 posts
4th Sep '12
Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" I would leave. Been there, done that shit... glad I left. Glad I placed our kid for adoption because now when our child is 15 months old he will have another kid which would be his 4th. "


wow. yeah. i just feel like another baby momma when he clams to love me and he does alot for us im just to the point where im done.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36477 posts
4th Sep '12
Quoting Shaishai3:" its just all weird if i broke up with him he lives with me and we run the buisness that my dad is the ... [snip!] ... im so confussed. :| and if i bring up hm cheating he says okay brake up with me and ill sign all the rights to our son to u."


yeah he is a douche.

Mama Massa 36 kids; Tampa, Florida 697 posts
4th Sep '12
Quoting Shaishai3:" its just all weird if i broke up with him he lives with me and we run the buisness that my dad is the ... [snip!] ... im so confussed. :| and if i bring up hm cheating he says okay brake up with me and ill sign all the rights to our son to u."

wtf? he is a loser. Get another job somewhere else and kick his ass out. He doesn't seem to care about you or this kid so whats the point?

Shaishai3 Due November 16 (boy); Japan 57 posts
4th Sep '12
Quoting Mama Massa:" as long as he hasn't been cheating and has been faithful for the 7 months, he really can't be faulted ... [snip!] ... but i would be cautious. If you consider what he is doing to be wrong and he doesn't care about your feelings, then move on."

i have no proof but when his exs say some thing he confesses to it.