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Momma Rawks 1 child; Iowa 7155 posts
4th Sep '12
Quoting Shaishai3:" its just all weird if i broke up with him he lives with me and we run the buisness that my dad is the ... [snip!] ... im so confussed. :| and if i bring up hm cheating he says okay brake up with me and ill sign all the rights to our son to u."


Does your dad know what a loser he is? That sounds like a shit situation, and he sounds like a lowlife loser (who the f**k offers to just sign away their rights like that?). Ditch his ass, and collect child support from his lazy ass (though based on the little information you've given, I doubt he'll pay it like he ought to). Don't stick around with a cheater, you deserve more than that. Your child also deserves a better role model.

Shaishai3 Due November 16; Japan 57 posts
4th Sep '12
Quoting Mama Massa:" wtf? he is a loser. Get another job somewhere else and kick his ass out. He doesn't seem to care about you or this kid so whats the point? "


i work for my dad out of our house. i answer phones so i can stay home and make money for my baby when he gets here. and when i say our house i mean we live with my parents.

Mama Massa 36 kids; Tampa, Florida 697 posts
4th Sep '12
Quoting Shaishai3:" i have no proof but when his exs say some thing he confesses to it."

i dont care if he was doing nothing wrong, the immaturity shown when he makes a comment like signing away rights to his child tells me he is a loser and not fit to be a daddy yet.

Momma Rawks 1 child; Iowa 7155 posts
4th Sep '12
Quoting Shaishai3:" i work for my dad out of our house. i answer phones so i can stay home and make money for my baby when he gets here. and when i say our house i mean we live with my parents."


Tell your parents what a cheating low-life he is, and tell them to kick his lame ass out.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
4th Sep '12
Quoting Shaishai3:" i work for my dad out of our house. i answer phones so i can stay home and make money for my baby when he gets here. and when i say our house i mean we live with my parents."


Still I would f**king kick him the f**k out and move on. He sounds like an ass....

Mama Massa 36 kids; Tampa, Florida 697 posts
4th Sep '12
Quoting Momma Rawks:" Tell your parents what a cheating low-life he is, and tell them to kick his lame ass out."

:!::!:

Shaishai3 Due November 16; Japan 57 posts
4th Sep '12

My parents do know and I don't know how to just say leave.

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, New York 55087 posts
4th Sep '12
Quoting Shaishai3:" My parents do know and I don't know how to just say leave."


Just do it. Seriously. Just tell him it's over and to get out

Momma Rawks 1 child; Iowa 7155 posts
4th Sep '12
Quoting Shaishai3:" My parents do know and I don't know how to just say leave."


You open your mouth and say, "My child and I deserve better than this, pack your shit and GTFO."

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
4th Sep '12
Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" Just do it. Seriously. Just tell him it's over and to get out"



I agree...



"Get your shit, and get out. We are done."

*~* Superwoman *~* 1 child; Moreno Valley, California 2045 posts
4th Sep '12

He sounds like a douche,and it doesnt sound like a healthy enviornment for a baby to be raised in. when your ready,and you honestly get sick and tired of the drama and lies you will leave without threatening him and without others advice. you will just do it beause you know whats best for you and yours and while he's sitting there telling you he will sign over his rights i would get it in writing or save what other form it came in so just in case something happens you can cover your own ass.

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
4th Sep '12
Quoting Shaishai3:" i have a boyfriend who is 20 years old he has two other kids supposably on baby thats a couple months ... [snip!] ... his number but they have mine im tired of the stress and he gets mad when i bring it up is it time just do do it on my own??"


You sure have a winner there....not.



I would dump his ass.

JustAnotherHB TTC since Feb 2010; California 58 posts
6th Sep '12

Well he sounds like a real winner.

Look, obviously he has to converse with the parents of his kids. That is part of being in a relationship with someone who has kids with other people, so you aer going to have to deal. But he just sounds like a loser overall, and is obviously super responsable getting 3 different women pregnant in the sapn of a couple years. Ack.

Reading this, I know he is cheating on you. It is obvious, and that really blows. The good news is you can do a TON better than this douchecanoe. You do not deserve to be treated in this manner.

Cut your losses and DTMF.