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life is getting hard Tabiie Moran Due November 7 (boy); Ponca City, Oklahoma 4 posts
4th Sep '12

Most of my friends turned on me.
and i have no one to talk to really everyone always at work.
so i have questions if you could answer them please message me.
and i need girls around my age to talk to I'm 14.
Questions
How bad does it hurt?
would i really need the shot in my back?
Why does my stomach hurt sometimes?
Why can't i remember alot of things that just happened?
Please help me,

Mocha Mommy™ 1 child; Illinois 81 posts
4th Sep '12

Sweetie most of us have experienced childbirth...you dont need someone your age to tell you what to expect.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36521 posts
4th Sep '12

If you think you can handle the pain you dont need an epiduial. Your stomach hurts sometimes because it is still growing.



Also.. I am not your age.. I am 11 years older than you are. My youngest is the one that was placed. And he will be a year when your baby is born.

Mocha Mommy™ 1 child; Illinois 81 posts
4th Sep '12

And I did not need the epidural. The pain was pretty bad but I could handle it. However if you cant then you should not be afraid to get the epidural.

user banned Due November 7 (boy); 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
4th Sep '12

You have more in common with the 20 year olds here than a 14 year old.

deleted 2 kids; Fort Wayne, Indiana 6874 posts
4th Sep '12

Well forget your friends..you have nothing in common with them anymore being pregnant.
You're about to take on an adult life. Kiss your teenage years goodbye.
Start planning for the future.
And childbirth is messy, painful, but worth every second. Don't let TV glorify it.

Tabiie Moran Due November 7 (boy); Ponca City, Oklahoma 4 posts
4th Sep '12

My sister is adopting him,

deleted 2 kids; Fort Wayne, Indiana 6874 posts
4th Sep '12
Quoting Tabiie Moran:" My sister is adopting him,"


Adoption or not your life will never be the same.

user banned Due November 7 (boy); 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
4th Sep '12
Quoting I ❥ Cupcakes:" Adoption or not your life will never be the same."


:!:

mommabear84 Due September 5; 1 child; Dallas, Texas 412 posts
4th Sep '12
Quoting I ❥ Cupcakes:" Adoption or not your life will never be the same."


Why not? :?

user banned Due November 7 (boy); 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
4th Sep '12
Quoting Julie Benson:" Why not? :?"

bc she had a baby at 14?

I♥RYLEIGH 49 kids; Windsor, Ontario 10437 posts
4th Sep '12
Quoting Julie Benson:" Why not? :?"


Because regardless of the fact that she doesn't have custody of the child, she still gave birth at 14 and has to live with that for the rest of her life. It's an on going battle that doesn't just vanish from the mind.