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vivalacandy Texas 82 posts
5th Sep '12
Quoting 1 princess 2 princes(21we:" I've learned from my mother that I can't be afraid to date and not to date someone just cause they say ... [snip!] ... 9 months younger than me.He's even wanting to do so much for Ethan the baby I'm due with in January and hes not his father."

awh i am happy for u. i think at some point i will be ok with it i am so petrified at this poinnt though.

Betty Draper 1 child; Illinois 776 posts
6th Sep '12

I don't receive CS. BD is with our son while I'm at work in the day. He works evenings. So hes watching LO 40 hours +. He has 2 other kids and I make more money than he does. We never talked about CS before.

Beth~N~Lizzie 1 child; Winter Haven, Florida 2755 posts
6th Sep '12

I'm not receiving child support again, and yes I am fighting for it. Which reminds me, it's time to call the child support office...

M walls 4 kids; Keenesburg, Colorado 7267 posts
6th Sep '12
Quoting Mommy1357:" does your kids father have custody or visitation with him ?"


Nope he hasnt seen them in 12 years, he took off out of state when my son was a few months old. He just recently started talking to my daughter(15) on facebook & now on the phone. My son (12) has no interest in talking or meeting him. I was granted physical custody since were in different states and he never showed an interest in seeing them

mommaof2ttc#3 TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Piketon, Ohio 1219 posts
6th Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting vivalacandy:</b>" Are you fighting for it if you are not getting it?"</blockquote>




my dd's sperm donor is ordered to pay $50.00 a month (yep thats it) he don't pay it my dd is 7 and hes paid maybe 8-9 months in 7yrs...we have been to court and he pays 2 months after so he don't go to jail but anyway sandy has a step dad that loves and treats her as his.and.when she wanta it she will be adopted by him (if.sperm donor don't.figgt it)

.::.Mama Bunnie.::. 18 kids; Logan, West Virginia 576 posts
6th Sep '12

i've never recieved any child support from either father.

mommie2.0 33 kids; California 5525 posts
7th Sep '12

My sons sperm donor doesn't have a job so there is no support to collect! I wish there was something I could do!

M walls 4 kids; Keenesburg, Colorado 7267 posts
7th Sep '12
Quoting CiCi.:" My sons sperm donor doesn't have a job so there is no support to collect! I wish there was something I could do!"


you can still file, then whenever he does get a job theyll garnish his check. My cousin is 28 and her mom still gets back child support

mommie2.0 33 kids; California 5525 posts
7th Sep '12

I have an open case so yes it will be garnished as soon as he does. I wish there was something they could do in the mean time.

M walls 4 kids; Keenesburg, Colorado 7267 posts
7th Sep '12
Quoting CiCi.:" I have an open case so yes it will be garnished as soon as he does. I wish there was something they could do in the mean time."


im in the same situation. my ex owes 26grand & were currently going to court. Theyre trying to give him jail time so hopefully he will get a job soon

Jamie Cassiday Due February 13; Japan 1 posts
9th Sep '12

my son is 5 yrs. old today and his dad has never had to pay CS for his son. He was court ordered to not pay since he is on disability and since he only gets 600 n some odd dollars a month he is under the poverty level so he isn't ordered to pay anything. He expects me to pay for everything n to bring his son to see him when he lives an hour and a half away from him. You don't pay anything, I don't pay anything is how I look at it. Fathers who can't support their children or don't want any should be made to get their junk fixed so it doesn't become an "accident" baby. Plus it helps with alot less bills going to people who are on welfare n state aids.

.::.Mama Bunnie.::. 18 kids; Logan, West Virginia 576 posts
9th Sep '12
Quoting Jamie Cassiday:" my son is 5 yrs. old today and his dad has never had to pay CS for his son. He was court ordered to not ... [snip!] ... so it doesn't become an "accident" baby. Plus it helps with alot less bills going to people who are on welfare n state aids."


my son's father was getting disability(620 and some odd dollars) and was still ordered to pay $50 a month.

mommie2.0 33 kids; California 5525 posts
10th Sep '12

I just seen my sons father 3 days in a row. He was sending some threatening texts that I could SO use against him! Also, I got his license plate number as well. What should I do?

M walls 4 kids; Keenesburg, Colorado 7267 posts
11th Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting CiCi.:</b>" I just seen my sons father 3 days in a row. He was sending some threatening texts that I could SO use against him! Also, I got his license plate number as well. What should I do?"</blockquote>



I would make copies 2 show 2 the judge. Or to the police if u need 2.
My ex sent me fb msgs that he's working under the table & that he plans on running if they want 2 lock him up

Beth~N~Lizzie 1 child; Winter Haven, Florida 2755 posts
11th Sep '12

I'm tired of not getting child support.....it's getting old.