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Cattails TTC since Oct 2011; 64 kids; North Carolina 857 posts
6th Sep '12

I had an abortion. I regret the fact that I had one, now that I'm having problems TTC, but I was 12 and an emotional wreck. If you are strong enough to handle the child, then there is no reason to embrace the pregnancy. You aren't excited about your rapist, you're excited about your baby growing inside you.

justayounggirl1 Due May 17; Grand Rapids, Michigan 33 posts
6th Sep '12

maybe it's the people I know but they all seem to be like act like that is the only natural response. I guess I always expected myself to feel that way.



and I'm like 4 weeks along or something. 3 weeks from lmp 2 weeks since the incident.
and yea I just have always thought my first would be a girl maybe it's more hope but that's what I think... For the most part....

Mrs. Conan O'Brien 2 kids; Colorado 20924 posts
6th Sep '12
Quoting Cattails:" I had an abortion. I regret the fact that I had one, now that I'm having problems TTC, but I was 12 and ... [snip!] ... is no reason to embrace the pregnancy. You aren't excited about your rapist, you're excited about your baby growing inside you."


I'm so sorry. wow... 12 is so young though. don't feel bad about that!

[♥Permanent♥] 50 kids; Georgia 2956 posts
6th Sep '12

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Katie[ღ]Siℓas 17 kids; Grand Haven, Michigan 2071 posts
6th Sep '12
Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" I did the same thing before I knew the sex of my baby. "


I am guilty of still calling him an "it" sometimes :oops: I guess I just don't feel that connection with him yet and I've still got a bit of gender disappointment.



Anyway, it's not wrong to feel that way, like everyone said people have different outlooks on things.

Log,Ash,&Kolt~ Due May 5; 3 kids; West Union, Ohio 8430 posts
6th Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting InnocencesDemise:</b>" I called my Lo a girl before the gender scan. but that was only cuz i was hoping for a girl"</blockquote>




Same and he is a boy and I'm happy.

[♥Permanent♥] 50 kids; Georgia 2956 posts
6th Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting justayounggirl1:</b>" maybe it's the people I know but they all seem to be like act like that is the only natural response. ... [snip!] ... yea I just have always thought my first would be a girl maybe it's more hope but that's what I think... For the most part...."</blockquote>



Say what?! If it was two weeks ago how the hell do u know

Riahbug's Mommy California 198 posts
6th Sep '12

Not all. I recently came into contact with a girl on a writing site I go on who was raped at a party and is now pregnant, whom she's deciding to keep. It's a very tough decision but it's still a baby regardless. I think it depends on how YOU personally feel about it. Like someone else said, it's okay to feel that way just like it's okay to NOT feel that way. I find that a bit inspiring to be honest, as long as you are happy that is what matters. I also referred to my daughter as "she" before I knew the gender :P it was a bad habit of mine lol.

Cayden&Paisley's Mommy 2 kids; Hickory, North Carolina 682 posts
status 6th Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Laurnabeth:</b>" Wait, on a previous post did you say your 2 weeks pregnant?"</blockquote>




Yes. She did say she was newly pregnant. Anyways its not wrong. Its ur baby and u love it.

Cattails TTC since Oct 2011; 64 kids; North Carolina 857 posts
6th Sep '12
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Lady Anon Due December 25 (girl); 1 child; Davenport, Iowa 4610 posts
6th Sep '12
Quoting [♥Permanent♥]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting justayounggirl1:</b>" maybe it's the people I know but they ... [snip!] ... that's what I think... For the most part...."</blockquote> Say what?! If it was two weeks ago how the hell do u know"


I was just wondering how you can be 4 weeks pregnant if it only happened 2 weeks ago?

[♥Permanent♥] 50 kids; Georgia 2956 posts
6th Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Laurnabeth:</b>" I was just wondering how you can be 4 weeks pregnant if it only happened 2 weeks ago?"</blockquote>




She must have that super hcg......

Log,Ash,&Kolt~ Due May 5; 3 kids; West Union, Ohio 8430 posts
6th Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting justayounggirl1:</b>" maybe it's the people I know but they all seem to be like act like that is the only natural response. ... [snip!] ... yea I just have always thought my first would be a girl maybe it's more hope but that's what I think... For the most part...."</blockquote>




You can't be 4 weeks pregnant if it only happened two weeks ago... Hmm

Lady Anon Due December 25 (girl); 1 child; Davenport, Iowa 4610 posts
6th Sep '12
Quoting Log,Ash,&Colt~23wks~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting justayounggirl1:</b>" maybe it's the people I know but they ... [snip!] ... I think... For the most part...."</blockquote> You can't be 4 weeks pregnant if it only happened two weeks ago... Hmm"


Exactly.

[♥Permanent♥] 50 kids; Georgia 2956 posts
6th Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Log,Ash,&Colt~23wks~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting justayounggirl1:</b>" maybe it's the people I know but they ... [snip!] ... I think... For the most part...."</blockquote> You can't be 4 weeks pregnant if it only happened two weeks ago... Hmm"</blockquote>



Lol don't say it.....