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    • It is bad stop doing it -- Votes: 25
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Mami Ana 2 kids; Tallahassee, Florida 3595 posts
7th Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lillie Montalvo:</b>" My boyfriend did not hurt he or hold her the f**k down he just carried her and she did not know how ... [snip!] ... IS NOT HARMING HER IF HE WAS HE WILL BE DEAD OR IN JAIL SO SHE IS NO BEING HARMED & SHE IS SO KIND AND NOT DETACHED FROM US"</blockquote>




I wouldn't give a flying f**k if he is her father or not. You clearly were "heart broken" so you know it's wrong. Don't back track now. How about next time to start with ALL the details instead of coming out with random new details after you get called out

Bob Wehadababyitsaboy 3 kids; 4 angel babies; California 30165 posts
7th Sep '12
Quoting Lillie Montalvo:" No one was holding her down he was holding her in his arms she just could find a way to lift her arms above her head"

But i thought you said he wrapped her like a newborn :?

His Wife & Her Mommy :-) Due April 10 (boy); 1 child; Brentwood, New York 600 posts
7th Sep '12
Quoting Katie. [♥]:" Uhm yeah okay. If that's what you meant, why are you JUST NOW correcting us ?"


Because at 1st i thought you guys thought wrapping her up and holding her (they way i just told you) was bad. Then I really thought about it and I was wow they really thing we put weight or and thing of that matter. The only thing he does is wrap her and does not make her fall out of his hands when she fuss about it.

Isaiah & Delilah's Mama 2 kids; Georgia 8616 posts
7th Sep '12
Quoting Bob Wehadababyitsaboy:" But i thought you said he wrapped her like a newborn :?"


She all of the sudden changed her story :roll:

CatLady Texas 1244 posts
7th Sep '12

"But after like 10-20 mins she got worn out from fighting and cry she fell asleep"



That made it sound like she cried for 10 or 20 minutes straight. You should have said she only cried for a few minutes if that's what happened.

Isaiah & Delilah's Mama 2 kids; Georgia 8616 posts
7th Sep '12
Quoting Lillie Montalvo:" Because at 1st i thought you guys thought wrapping her up and holding her (they way i just told you) ... [snip!] ... thing of that matter. The only thing he does is wrap her and does not make her fall out of his hands when she fuss about it."


Yeah sure....

Isaiah & Delilah's Mama 2 kids; Georgia 8616 posts
7th Sep '12
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" But back peddling is so much fun!! "


:twisted:

His Wife & Her Mommy :-) Due April 10 (boy); 1 child; Brentwood, New York 600 posts
7th Sep '12

I'M NOT CHANGING MY STORY I'M EXPLAIN HOW EXACTLY HE DOES IT BECAUSE YOU GUYS ARE THINKING WE ARE PUTTING WEIGHT ON MY CHILD AND TO THE OTHER COMMENT YES HE PUTS HER LIKE A NEWBORN BUT ITS NOT TIGHT THAT IT HURTS SHE JUST DOES NOT KNOW HOW TO PUT HER HANDS UP AND PUSH THE BLANKET OFF AND THE THE OTHER COMMENT YES IT BROKE MY HEART ANYTIME MY DAUGHTER CRYS FOR ANY REASON IT HURTS ME BECAUSE I SEE HER CRY SO REGARDLESS OF THE SITUATION IT HURTS I THINK IT HURTS ANY MOM TO SEE A BABY CRY EVEN FOR SOMETHING SMALL OR BIG

Evelyn & Owens Mama Due April 7 (boy); 129 kids; Bettendorf, Iowa 4132 posts
7th Sep '12

if you were looking for a "no, that sounds fine. he's being a good dad, and soon she'll fall into a really good sleep pattern. and she'll love you and trust you forever!" you came to the wrong spot. you felt it was wrong, people posting felt it was wrong, and now you're going back trying to stick up for him. i don't care how much you change your story NOW, it's wrong.

Isaiah & Delilah's Mama 2 kids; Georgia 8616 posts
7th Sep '12
Quoting Lillie Montalvo:" I'M NOT CHANGING MY STORY I'M EXPLAIN HOW EXACTLY HE DOES IT BECAUSE YOU GUYS ARE THINKING WE ARE PUTTING ... [snip!] ... SEE HER CRY SO REGARDLESS OF THE SITUATION IT HURTS I THINK IT HURTS ANY MOM TO SEE A BABY CRY EVEN FOR SOMETHING SMALL OR BIG "


:roll:

Isaiah & Delilah's Mama 2 kids; Georgia 8616 posts
7th Sep '12
Quoting Evelyn Lilianas Mama:" if you were looking for a "no, that sounds fine. he's being a good dad, and soon she'll fall into a really ... [snip!] ... was wrong, and now you're going back trying to stick up for him. i don't care how much you change your story NOW, it's wrong."


:!:

Mami Ana 2 kids; Tallahassee, Florida 3595 posts
7th Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting pigeon pair:</b>" "But after like 10-20 mins she got worn out from fighting and cry she fell asleep" That made it sound ... [snip!] ... like she cried for 10 or 20 minutes straight. You should have said she only cried for a few minutes if that's what happened."</blockquote>




Thank you! Seriously makes me sick, then OP has the nerve to call her BABY a drama queen. DH would be dead if he done exactly what the original post said. I wouldn't stand by and let it happen to my kids

Isaiah & Delilah's Mama 2 kids; Georgia 8616 posts
7th Sep '12

" And when she try to fight to get out he just held her from doing so"


You clearly said when she tried to get out he held her from doing so...

Bob Wehadababyitsaboy 3 kids; 4 angel babies; California 30165 posts
7th Sep '12
Quoting Lillie Montalvo:" I'M NOT CHANGING MY STORY I'M EXPLAIN HOW EXACTLY HE DOES IT BECAUSE YOU GUYS ARE THINKING WE ARE PUTTING ... [snip!] ... SEE HER CRY SO REGARDLESS OF THE SITUATION IT HURTS I THINK IT HURTS ANY MOM TO SEE A BABY CRY EVEN FOR SOMETHING SMALL OR BIG "

Okay why are you screaming?...getting a little defensive are we :lol:

His Wife & Her Mommy :-) Due April 10 (boy); 1 child; Brentwood, New York 600 posts
7th Sep '12
Quoting Evelyn Lilianas Mama:" if you were looking for a "no, that sounds fine. he's being a good dad, and soon she'll fall into a really ... [snip!] ... was wrong, and now you're going back trying to stick up for him. i don't care how much you change your story NOW, it's wrong."


I'm not saying it not wrong that's why he stopped after a fight we had and i'm not changing my story i'm just letting you guys know he not a bad dad and does not abuse her she was not crying the hole time and he put no weight all i was saying if you guys agreed i was right for stopping it because he seem so normal about it because thats the way he was brought up and everyone is brought up differently