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    • It is bad stop doing it -- Votes: 25
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His Wife & Her Mommy :-) Due April 10 (boy); 1 child; Brentwood, New York 600 posts
7th Sep '12
Quoting Bob Wehadababyitsaboy:" Okay why are you screaming?...getting a little defensive are we :lol: "


hell yes because you guys thought he was hurting her so i'm going to defend him if he has not harmed her i disagree with his choice but i stand up for the fact he is not abusive

Isaiah & Delilah's Mama 2 kids; Georgia 8616 posts
7th Sep '12
Quoting Lillie Montalvo:" I'm not saying it not wrong that's why he stopped after a fight we had and i'm not changing my story ... [snip!] ... stopping it because he seem so normal about it because thats the way he was brought up and everyone is brought up differently "


Omg ! you said after 10-20 minutes of crying and fighting she finally went to sleep. Please quit changing your story. You are making yourself look dumb.

Mami Ana 2 kids; Tallahassee, Florida 3595 posts
7th Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lillie Montalvo:</b>" I'M NOT CHANGING MY STORY I'M EXPLAIN HOW EXACTLY HE DOES IT BECAUSE YOU GUYS ARE THINKING WE ARE PUTTING ... [snip!] ... SEE HER CRY SO REGARDLESS OF THE SITUATION IT HURTS I THINK IT HURTS ANY MOM TO SEE A BABY CRY EVEN FOR SOMETHING SMALL OR BIG "</blockquote>




Ugh you are stupid. No one said we thought he was putting weight or pinning her down. How the hell would you like to be "restrained" for more a damn minute. Think about it dumbass, seriously. You are frustrated and clearly distraught and someone is going to restrain you? I freak out when someone tries to restrain me in any way. She's a helpless baby, think about it.

1inpink2inblue Switzerland 11961 posts
7th Sep '12

It doesn't really make a flying f**k at the man in the moon if he didn't hurt her. the point is he physically restrained her for an extended amount of time. She is a BABY! That must have been incredibly scary and confusing to her. And shame on you for trying to defend that behavior AND for calling a 9 month old a drama queen because she laughs when she cries. That is normal of all babies they are fickle (small attention spans and all) not dramatic. Hell I laugh when I am upset sometimes doesn't mean I am not still upset or that I am a drama queen.

Isaiah & Delilah's Mama 2 kids; Georgia 8616 posts
7th Sep '12
Quoting Lillie Montalvo:" I'm not saying it not wrong that's why he stopped after a fight we had and i'm not changing my story ... [snip!] ... stopping it because he seem so normal about it because thats the way he was brought up and everyone is brought up differently "


Some people are brought up to be Racist, Some are taught to abuse animals. ETC ETC. Does that make it okay? NO.

His Wife & Her Mommy :-) Due April 10 (boy); 1 child; Brentwood, New York 600 posts
7th Sep '12
Quoting Katie. [♥]:" Omg ! you said after 10-20 minutes of crying and fighting she finally went to sleep. Please quit changing your story. You are making yourself look dumb."


Okay she did cry for that time period but it was not full 10-20 mins it was off and on

His Wife & Her Mommy :-) Due April 10 (boy); 1 child; Brentwood, New York 600 posts
7th Sep '12

Well you have your way and he has his even though he stopped over our fight. But thats life you bring your kids up your way and I'll do the same.

Isaiah & Delilah's Mama 2 kids; Georgia 8616 posts
7th Sep '12
Quoting Lillie Montalvo:" Well you have your way and he has his even though he stopped over our fight. But thats life you bring your kids up your way and I'll do the same."


Just because he has his "way" doesn't make it right:roll:

Mrs. Conan O'Brien 2 kids; Colorado 20911 posts
7th Sep '12
Quoting Lillie Montalvo:" No one was holding her down he was holding her in his arms she just could find a way to lift her arms above her head"



okay, but she still could not move freely.

Bob Wehadababyitsaboy Due September 5 (girl); 2 kids; 4 angel babies; California 30105 posts
7th Sep '12
Quoting Lillie Montalvo:" Well you have your way and he has his even though he stopped over our fight. But thats life you bring your kids up your way and I'll do the same."

whatever just tell him not to restrain her anymore, figure out a different peaceful way to put her to sleep.

Mami Ana 2 kids; Tallahassee, Florida 3595 posts
7th Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lillie Montalvo:</b>" Well you have your way and he has his even though he stopped over our fight. But thats life you bring your kids up your way and I'll do the same."</blockquote>




Doesnt make it right. You are just as bad as he is for letting it happen and for calling her a drama queen.

Mrs. Conan O'Brien 2 kids; Colorado 20911 posts
7th Sep '12
Quoting Lillie Montalvo:" My boyfriend did not hurt he or hold her the f**k down he just carried her and she did not know how ... [snip!] ... IS NOT HARMING HER IF HE WAS HE WILL BE DEAD OR IN JAIL SO SHE IS NO BEING HARMED & SHE IS SO KIND AND NOT DETACHED FROM US"


:? you said she cried for 10-20 mins, now it's just a few mins? & yes, it is harmful & detremental to her. I don't understand why you even made this thread. You clearly wanted everyone to agree w/ you from the beginning.

His Wife & Her Mommy :-) Due April 10 (boy); 1 child; Brentwood, New York 600 posts
7th Sep '12
Quoting Katie. [♥]:" Just because he has his "way" doesn't make it right:roll:"

And maybe your ways are not right in different situations but its your child if your child is not being abused then who is to tell you your a bad mom or not doing things right. and like i said it never happened again and my daughter is back to her good sleeping ways.

Mrs. Conan O'Brien 2 kids; Colorado 20911 posts
7th Sep '12
Quoting Lillie Montalvo:" hell yes because you guys thought he was hurting her so i'm going to defend him if he has not harmed her i disagree with his choice but i stand up for the fact he is not abusive"


he is hurting her though :? by not allowing her to move freely. if not physically, that is definitely mentally hurting her.

Isaiah & Delilah's Mama 2 kids; Georgia 8616 posts
7th Sep '12
Quoting Lillie Montalvo:" And maybe your ways are not right in different situations but its your child if your child is not being ... [snip!] ... a bad mom or not doing things right. and like i said it never happened again and my daughter is back to her good sleeping ways."

:roll:
Why did you get on here and ask , if you didn't want people to tell you it's wrong?



It's wrong, It's absolutely ridiculous. I feel sorry for your daughter for the times she did have to go through that.



Get over it. Admit it's wrong and move on...