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Are you friends with your BD'S Ex Wife? Beth~N~Lizzie 1 child; Winter Haven, Florida 2755 posts
16th Sep '12

Yes/No? I am very much so. We have really become good friends. I wish we were friends before, but because he fed her a ton of lies for 7 yrs. I apparently didn't miss anything, because he was horrible to her. She found out he was cheating, kicked him out, and divorced him. Ever since then we have been friends! Soooo who else is friends with the Ex Wife?



Oh he does not see any of our children

user banned Due November 7; 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
16th Sep '12

I have tried. She hates me. For honest to God no reason. I would love to be.

Elliot Grace (18 weeks) Due September 22; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 18150 posts
status 16th Sep '12

i think that is beyond bizarre...but to each their own i guess!

~Elliott's.Mommy~ 1 child; 1 angel baby; Eugene, Oregon 3796 posts
status 16th Sep '12
Quoting ~Girl Scout Mommy~:" Yes/No? I am very much so. We have really become good friends. I wish we were friends before, but because ... [snip!] ... cheating, kicked him out, and divorced him. Ever since then we have been friends! Soooo who else is friends with the Ex Wife?"


My mom is dating an a*****e and cant seem to let him go. But... she is friends with his ex gf, and he treated her the worst between the two, and he hates the fact that they're friends lol. They just met eachother about a month ago and are really good friends now.

~*Flibbertigibbet*~ Helena, Montana 821 posts
16th Sep '12

I'm not. I've never spoken to her. I don't see us being BFF's, but I wouldn't mind at least having a cordial relationship since we're both going to be raising her DD.



As for my ex-husband's wife? HELL to the NO. I've tried being nice to her, tried being kind and understanding, tried being reasonable. All she does is yell, scream, accuse me of shit I didn't do, and tell me how horrible of a person I am...and then proceed to tell me that I am the one who needs to grow up. So she can go f**k herself.

.::Kayla::. 2 kids; Council Bluffs, Iowa 406 posts
16th Sep '12

I was with my first son's dad for 5 years and then we moved back to his hometown, where his first love was and all, well of course moving here, I had no friends, and she contacted me on myspace and said she'd love for us to hang out and she'd show me around, I thought she was being genuinely nice, and I called her a friend, then we all started hanging out together, I left and took DS with me to my moms to visit her, so she could see him close to his first birthday, and while I was gone he cheated on me with her, so not only did I feel incredibly stupid and it was my own fault, I stayed with him for another year, we didn't talk to her, well at least until one day when he messaged her on FB asking if she would come visit him at work..I blew up, and broke up with him a week later. And so I lived and learned, and never again, will I ever try to be friends with a BF's ex. It's funny, cause my newest LO's dad's ex's have tried to be "friends" with me a few times, and I refuse. It caused too much of a mess last time and I'm not risking my happiness with my man just to have another "friend" I'd rather have no friends than go through all that crap again. Just my story..

rubberduck_smith 2 kids; Elizabeth City, North Carolina 295 posts
16th Sep '12

i hate the ex worse then i have ever imagined someone could hate another!! she doesnt like me either, but that is just a dim glare to the forest-fire type hate i have for her!! i have tried to be civil with her for her kids sake, but i find it easier to avoid her altogether! the sound of her voice or a glimpse of her person makes my adrenaline boil so bad, i began shaking and turn flush! its unhealthy, but i cant help it! congrats to you though, that you are able to have a peaceful relationship!

Hodor is gone. Due October 30; 66 kids; Quebec 18194 posts
16th Sep '12

I do not like SO's ex. She is just not a friendly person. never smiles, barely talk...she is kind of cold...I couldn't be friends with someone like that. Apparently, she likes me a lot since she talks to me( which is, according to everyone who knows her, a freaking miracle.) He is not the father of my kids though.



As for my son's father, his new girlfiriend is an old coworker who then turned his best friend( constantly picking him up to go party or drinking while I was left alone with our baby)...so needless to say I do not like her at all. I think she is an irresponsible cuntwaffle who is far from mature and I can't understand what he sees in her...but hey...not my problem anymore. We're civil to each other for my son,s sake, but she hates me as much as I hate her.

taking a look at life Palm beach gardens, FL, United States 49015 posts
status 16th Sep '12

Im friend with bd other babys mom....

Beth~N~Lizzie 1 child; Winter Haven, Florida 2755 posts
16th Sep '12

I guess my BD ex and I's friendship is one in a million then.....

rubberduck_smith 2 kids; Elizabeth City, North Carolina 295 posts
16th Sep '12

maybe not one in a million, but VERY far and few in between! its good though!

.::Kayla::. 2 kids; Council Bluffs, Iowa 406 posts
16th Sep '12
Quoting Hodor:" I do not like SO's ex. She is just not a friendly person. never smiles, barely talk...she is kind of ... [snip!] ... in her...but hey...not my problem anymore. We're civil to each other for my son,s sake, but she hates me as much as I hate her."



Lmao @ cuntwaffle. This kind of sounds like my SO's other son's mom. Except for talking to me, we only exchange a few words and thats during pick ups and drop offs, other than that she just glares at me, which she glares at SO too, guess she hates us both, but we really don't care. :D