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Sugar N Spice Due November 14 (girl); 16 kids; Brazil 53 posts
16th Sep '12

Well... these options BD is an a*****e his lease is not supposed 2 be finished til April 13' And mom kicked me out and a shelter well i can only stay 4 30 days...

♀NoBoysAllowed 19 kids; San Diego, California 51862 posts
16th Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sugar N Spice:</b>" Should i move into my own place or not im make $800 a month some say im not stable..."</blockquote>




$800 is not enough to pay rent and utilities, let alone pay rent and utilities while raising a baby.

khigh 1 child; Fort Sill, Oklahoma 8101 posts
16th Sep '12
Quoting Sugar N Spice:" Well... these options BD is an a*****e his lease is not supposed 2 be finished til April 13' And mom kicked me out and a shelter well i can only stay 4 30 days..."


Your mom cannot legally kick you out and keep you out. You are under 18 and her responsibility unless you are emancipated. Again, GO HOME. Call CPS. Whatever, but you will not be able to live on your own without help.

Sugar N Spice Due November 14 (girl); 16 kids; Brazil 53 posts
16th Sep '12
Quoting ☾BizzyBeeღ:" OP what about asking your guy friend that you were asking about getting to know better if he can help, since he's been a friend since you were 3. "



I can see ur point girlfriend but i dont want 2 seem desperate...

*~* Superwoman *~* 1 child; Moreno Valley, California 2045 posts
16th Sep '12
Quoting Sugar N Spice:" I can see ur point girlfriend but i dont want 2 seem desperate..."

desperate is the least of your worries right about now.

Sugar N Spice Due November 14 (girl); 16 kids; Brazil 53 posts
16th Sep '12
Quoting ☾BizzyBeeღ:" And sorry, but those are the options. How old is your BD? I'm surprised that with no job he can afford ... [snip!] ... aunts, someone family or even a friend who can take you it. And I've never heard of a shelter kicking you out after 30 days..."



He just turned 17

*~* Superwoman *~* 1 child; Moreno Valley, California 2045 posts
16th Sep '12
Quoting Sugar N Spice:" He just turned 17"

17 and legally on a lease?

Sugar N Spice Due November 14 (girl); 16 kids; Brazil 53 posts
16th Sep '12

He has got emancipated

Sugar N Spice Due November 14 (girl); 16 kids; Brazil 53 posts
16th Sep '12

After he got his place i moved in with him

*~* Superwoman *~* 1 child; Moreno Valley, California 2045 posts
16th Sep '12
Quoting Sugar N Spice:" After he got his place i moved in with him"

where you pregnant then? are you emancipated as well? your mother couldve reported you as a runaway as well as you being able o call the police on her if your not emancipated. it is her legal responsibility to take care of you until you are 18 regardless of the choices you make or have made. your boyfriend if what you have said is correct is a real loser. I wish you the best of luck but put your child first and if you guys do work it out. I would be putting money away because your going to need it.

Sugar N Spice Due November 14 (girl); 16 kids; Brazil 53 posts
16th Sep '12

I've done saved $1600 dollars right now but i am planning 2 get emancipated

Sugar N Spice Due November 14 (girl); 16 kids; Brazil 53 posts
16th Sep '12

His parents said they were sick of him and just finally got him emancipated

Sugar N Spice Due November 14 (girl); 16 kids; Brazil 53 posts
16th Sep '12
Quoting ☾BizzyBeeღ:" :? Can they DO that? You can't just say to your kid one day "Yeah, well I'm sick of your ass. GTFO and let me sign papers to keep you off my ass". "



Yeah well that's what they told me

Sugar N Spice Due November 14 (girl); 16 kids; Brazil 53 posts
16th Sep '12
Quoting ☾BizzyBeeღ:" Hm, something is a little fishy there, methinks... Anyhow, you know your options now, so good luck with them. You need to decide something soon. "



Thx for ur advice

Mrs.O! 18 kids; your moms ass, HI, United States 21401 posts
status 17th Sep '12

why has no one suggested adoption?...this girl is in no position to care for a child(sorry) $1600 will not go far and $800 a month won't get you a place or pay all your bills and then take care of a baby...I mean, unless you were to get on welfare I don't see it ending well..it's another option..if you can't give your baby the life it deserves why not let someone else?......




and btw, I'm soooo not trying to be a b***h, I'm just letting you know that there was a 4th option for you..