Danielle Bow Due January 11; New Zealand 42 posts
18th Sep '12

I personally wouldn't be able to terminate, let alone choose which two to keep.



But, its completely your decision, but take time and think about why you would be making that decision, and if your doing it for the right reasons.
I don't think you would struggle to love them equally and give them individual attention, after all, they all would have their own characteristics and personalities that make them individual.



Do what you both think will work for you. :)

SR ♥ 1 child; V, AR, United States 7830 posts
18th Sep '12
Quoting Jas ♥:" And? Its not your business. She's asking for HELP, not your dumb ass ignorance. If you don't agree with her reducing, you can say it more nicely. I was able to."


"Say it more nicely..." No. There is no point in sugar coating it.



Also, it's not my business because I don't agree with it, but...It is your business because you do agree with it?

BαtMαɳ Secret Bat Cave, CA, United States 53489 posts
18th Sep '12
Quoting Jas ♥:" Exactly. I'm so glad that I don't have the brain the size of a pea like some of these women in this thread. "


:lol:

Curlyheadedfck 2 kids; Illinois 45661 posts
18th Sep '12
Quoting Jayannes Mommyy&& Tylers :" u need to stfu. you dont even have kids YET. so you wouldnt even know what its like to take care of your own.. babysitting doesnt count. and being pregnant doesnt count."


took the words right outta my mouth :)

Ren and Carson's mommy + Due March 29; 2 kids; Wyoming 1621 posts
18th Sep '12
Quoting Jayannes Mommyy&& Tylers :" well drs said i would have a better chance at carrying near term. because my last single pregnancy ... [snip!] ... greater chance of going into pre term labor even sooner if kept at triplets. or they may not make it to age of viability at all"


You have time to sit down with your hubby and decide what to do. I'm sure it's going to be a very hard decision either way...lot's of pros and cons to both sides. Only you can choose what's best for you in the end. I wish you the best of luck hun!

Hy'ska 2 kids; Washington 50677 posts
18th Sep '12

I didn't know you could reduce. Op do whats right for your family. Multiples scare me lol twins seem manageable triplets seem overwhelming

bia. 2 kids; ., ., Portugal 71848 posts
status 18th Sep '12
Quoting Curlyheadedfck:" wow. you're somethign else."


Only because she doesn't agree. :?



Big deal, bro.

P3RvYmCp3rv 2 kids; Carlyle, Illinois 11903 posts
18th Sep '12

I by no means meant for my reply to be rude if it came off that way. OP those would just be my concerns. :) If you need an ear to listen I'm always here.

SR ♥ 1 child; V, AR, United States 7830 posts
18th Sep '12
Quoting Jayannes Mommyy&& Tylers :" u need to stfu. you dont even have kids YET. so you wouldnt even know what its like to take care of your own.. babysitting doesnt count. and being pregnant doesnt count."


Hah. You don't have to have children to see ignorant reasons for a decision.

Curlyheadedfck 2 kids; Illinois 45661 posts
18th Sep '12
Quoting bia.:" Only because she doesn't agree. :? Big deal, bro."


not agreeing fine.
adding the bitchy comments
not necessary.

P3RvYmCp3rv 2 kids; Carlyle, Illinois 11903 posts
18th Sep '12
Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" She stated she can afford three. If you don't want to be overwhelmed by children, don't have them."


wait so the kids deserve a mother that can't physically or emotionally provide everything for them? You know babies cost more than just money right?

JΔS Georgia 70894 posts
18th Sep '12
Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" "Say it more nicely..." No. There is no point in sugar coating it. Also, it's not my business because I don't agree with it, but...It is your business because you do agree with it?"


Its not about sugar coating it. Stop it with that lame excuse for you to be a complete b***h to this girl. If you didn't agree with her reducing, you can simply say "I do not agree with that. Its nothing something that I would do." But no. You need to come down on this girl just to build yourself back up. Insecure much?




Who said I agreed with it? Did I indicate ANY WHERE that I agreed or disagreed with something she is doing with her body? Idgaf what she does, its not my life. Her decision does not affect me or my family.

Hy'ska 2 kids; Washington 50677 posts
18th Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:</b>" wait so the kids deserve a mother that can't physically or emotionally provide everything for them? You know babies cost more than just money right? "</blockquote>




:!:



Like sanity hahah and yeah today mine is shot :D

SR ♥ 1 child; V, AR, United States 7830 posts
18th Sep '12
Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:" wait so the kids deserve a mother that can't physically or emotionally provide everything for them? You know babies cost more than just money right? "


I do believe I was replying to the statement about "worrying about money." :roll:

BαtMαɳ Secret Bat Cave, CA, United States 53489 posts
18th Sep '12
Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" Hah. You don't have to have children to see ignorant reasons for a decision."


How is that ignorant? :?