P3RvYmCp3rv 2 kids; Carlyle, Illinois 11904 posts
18th Sep '12
Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" Hah. You don't have to have children to see ignorant reasons for a decision."


negligence is an ignorant (which btw means uneducated) reason to reduce? I think not.

SR ♥ 1 child; V, AR, United States 7869 posts
18th Sep '12
Quoting Jas ♥:" Its not about sugar coating it. Stop it with that lame excuse for you to be a complete bitch to this ... [snip!] ... with something she is doing with her body? Idgaf what she does, its not my life. Her decision does not affect me or my family. "


Get the fuck over it. That's all I can say. If you don't like my wording, oh well. Don't read it.

P3RvYmCp3rv 2 kids; Carlyle, Illinois 11904 posts
18th Sep '12
Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" I do believe I was replying to the statement about "worrying about money." :roll:"

yea but you are going on about how her reason is ignorant.

Nicole Marie (: 1 child; Madisonville, Tennessee 2 posts
18th Sep '12
Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" Hah. You don't have to have children to see ignorant reasons for a decision."

its not ignorant. shes looking at her choices, and coming to this website for help, NOT for your rude ass to be telling her its stupid. its HER BODY. honestly if she wants to end one, then i have her back 110% , theres no reason to judge, ive had an abortion too. its a tough choice to make in her spot. but she will make the right decision in the end. now just shut the hell up and go on somewhere, she doesnt need to stress out over this (:

SR ♥ 1 child; V, AR, United States 7869 posts
18th Sep '12
Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:" negligence is an ignorant (which btw means uneducated) reason to reduce? I think not."


How can one say that they are going to be negligent while 7 weeks pregnant? I love psychics.

Hathor + A Due December 23 (girl); 16 kids; Spring, Texas 12834 posts
18th Sep '12
Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" She stated she can afford three. If you don't want to be overwhelmed by children, don't have them."

Really? Really? You can't pick if you're going to have one then one.



Maybe if you have read and not skimmed then you would know she was adopted, she doesn't know if multiples runs in her family. Maybe she TTC one. Ever think of that. Bitch.

JΔ$ Georgia 76407 posts
18th Sep '12
Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" Get the fuck over it. That's all I can say. If you don't like my wording, oh well. Don't read it."


Well how the fuck am I suppose to not like something I don't read? :idea:
Fuck outta here. Bitch is still knocked up but has the nerve to chime in about the stress of raising kids and shit. Have a couple of seats.

Jacob & Caleb's mommy Due November 30 (boy); 2 kids; Wolcott, Connecticut 261 posts
18th Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:</b>" Are you SERIOUSLY considering aborting a fetus because "you want to give them individual attention?" That is horrible. You're just going to....point at the screen and say "I don't want that one!""</blockquote>




I agree! so many women are dying to concieve and are not able to. I understand that you want to give them individual attention I would feel the same way but id never sacrifice one of my childrens lives for another.

Milk Monster 2 kids; Arizona 9089 posts
18th Sep '12

OP you need to do what is best for you and your family. If that means reducing to two or even one then by all means do so. None of us know your situation so we can't say yay or nay except for basing it off of personal feelings.



You know what is best for you, your health, and your family. Keeping or terminating is completely up to you.



My only concern would be if the termination of one accidently ending the pregnancy all together.

P3RvYmCp3rv 2 kids; Carlyle, Illinois 11904 posts
18th Sep '12
Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" Get the fuck over it. That's all I can say. If you don't like my wording, oh well. Don't read it."

oh and anybody that says they are blank years young is ignorant.

Hy'ska 2 kids; Washington 50791 posts
18th Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Elaina Layden:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:</b>" Are you SERIOUSLY considering aborting ... [snip!] ... want to give them individual attention I would feel the same way but id never sacrifice one of my childrens lives for another."</blockquote>




Someone else's infertility has nothing to do with OP.

Grniz 2 kids; Illinois 45669 posts
18th Sep '12
Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" How can one say that they are going to be negligent while 7 weeks pregnant? I love psychics."


maybe she has a child and knows how much fucking energy and work go into raising one. I couldn't imagine raising 3 at once.

SR ♥ 1 child; V, AR, United States 7869 posts
18th Sep '12
Quoting Mermaid Hathor Elaina-Wed:" Really? Really? You can't pick if you're going to have one then one. Maybe if you have read and not ... [snip!] ... would know she was adopted, she doesn't know if multiples runs in her family. Maybe she TTC one. Ever think of that. Bitch. "


Every woman TTC runs the risk of having multiples. Bitch. It doesn't have to "run in your family" to get knocked up with multiples.

JΔ$ Georgia 76407 posts
18th Sep '12
Quoting Elaina Layden:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:</b>" Are you SERIOUSLY considering aborting ... [snip!] ... want to give them individual attention I would feel the same way but id never sacrifice one of my childrens lives for another."


The fuck does someone else not able to conceive have to do with OP or anyone else for that matter? Its no one's fault that they aren't capable or having a hard time. Yeah, I said it.

Hathor + A Due December 23 (girl); 16 kids; Spring, Texas 12834 posts
18th Sep '12
Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:" How can one say that they are going to be negligent while 7 weeks pregnant? I love psychics."

Because they know. What if you got pregnant with 4? Do you think you wouldn't have been overwhelmed.