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How do I Make This Work.? Desiree Mills Due January 7 (girl); Austin, Texas 16 posts
19th Sep '12

I am currently 19 && the Father Of My Unborn Child is 26. Prior to me getting pregnant I knew He had two boys which he took care of full time wen we met. We always hung out but then it kinda just stopped for about 2 months. && I found out that after 8 weeks && 5 days I was pregnant so I tld him && he told me i would be there for you && there is nothing to worry about. Within 2 weeks later, I found out he has been in a relationship for over a year with the mother of his boys && although I lived across the parking lot in the next apartment building he never tok it upon his self to check on me. I have now moved but only up the street. Nw being 24 weeks I am starting to question whether i should contact him at all to let him know anything as far as the delivery option at hand.

**milfshake** London, United Kingdom 31568 posts
19th Sep '12

He doesn't care obviously...so no.

sweetbea Z&D my loves 1 child; Houston, Texas 3252 posts
19th Sep '12

Sounds like he is a piece of shit but I mean at the end of the day he is the father so that depends on the relationship you want your unborn to have with him. I mean he needs to support your child also

Tash+1 1 child; Canton, Ohio 7839 posts
19th Sep '12

Wow, sounds like a shitface >.<
I would try to get him involved, but don't push it on him. If he doesnt stand up and want anything to do with LO, go after him for child support. Atleast let him know whats going on.

Grniz 2 kids; Illinois 45669 posts
19th Sep '12

take it from someone who has tried for a year to get her sons father to care.
if he wants to he will if not you can't force him to be a father and be involved.
took a lot of disappointment to figure that one out.
best advice really go after him for child support.

Desiree Mills Due January 7 (girl); Austin, Texas 16 posts
19th Sep '12

He claimed i wouldnt be able to keep him from his daughter but i feel like he is doing a pretty good job his self.,, This guy let his other "babymama" threaten me along side of her brother && said absolutely NOTHING. But i have no reason to be upset with him.??? I even gave him a number to call && reach me at but im still suppose to make a trip up three flights of stairs to tell you how the appointment goes.?

Desiree Mills Due January 7 (girl); Austin, Texas 16 posts
19th Sep '12

Quoting Curlyheadedfck:" take it from someone who has tried for a year to get her sons father to care. if he wants to he will ... [snip!] ... father and be involved. took a lot of disappointment to figure that one out. best advice really go after him for child support." Sounds like the only option left to be given.! So maybe the next time i see him should be in family court.!



sweetbea Z&D my loves 1 child; Houston, Texas 3252 posts
20th Sep '12
Quoting Desiree Mills:" He claimed i wouldnt be able to keep him from his daughter but i feel like he is doing a pretty good ... [snip!] ... && reach me at but im still suppose to make a trip up three flights of stairs to tell you how the appointment goes.?"


Sounds like he is a bit immature and so is she why is she cursing you out hell she needs to be mad at him. File child support and keep it moving if he wants to see her he will can't force anyone to do something they don't want to do