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ILOVEWINE Due April 24; 2 kids; Sweden 10814 posts
19th Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:</b>" At 16 they cannot drive or work really... if you don't help her, she is basically being left out in the cold."</blockquote>




You can drive and work at 16

Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Oceanside, CA, United States 112414 posts
status 19th Sep '12
Quoting BoogerBear's Momma:" I already said what I would do in that thread. Either you need to abort, let someone else raise you ... [snip!] ... at a young age and also be engaged, I would be thinking I did a horrible job of instilling respect and common sense into her. "


Way harsh, brah...way harsh.

Pey and Trista's mommy 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Houston, Texas 42502 posts
20th Sep '12
Quoting ILOVEWINE:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:</b>" At 16 they cannot drive or work really... ... [snip!] ... if you don't help her, she is basically being left out in the cold."</blockquote> You can drive and work at 16"


In Texas people under 25 now have to do drivers ed and some parents can't afford it. I think the job would have to come first so she can earn money for drivers ed.

LA REINA™ Chicago, IL, United States 15863 posts
20th Sep '12
Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:" Way harsh, brah...way harsh."

When she said foster care, I was like
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Emily Thorne 2 kids; Quetzaltenango, Guatemala 26302 posts
20th Sep '12
Quoting ILOVEWINE:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:</b>" At 16 they cannot drive or work really... ... [snip!] ... if you don't help her, she is basically being left out in the cold."</blockquote> You can drive and work at 16"


Oh that's right!! Here you need to be 18 to drive.



Well, still, 16 year olds need help. If you don't babysit for example how will your kid work??

Bad Things 1 child; Blacksburg, SC, United States 15766 posts
status 20th Sep '12
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" You should have aborted her the minute you found out you were having a girl then.... or shouldn't have ... [snip!] ... then.... or shouldn't have gotten pregnant. You shouldn't just dismiss your children because they do something you dislike... "


She is trying to force something on me, and that ain't happening, so I will defiantly be forcing something on her. I feel that is why teenage girls are TTC in the first place, they know their parents will just "get over it" and they will have their child. Not in my house. Maybe she would think about it when she is deciding whether to TTC at 16.

It's a boy!!!!*3/27/13* 19 kids; Kyle, Texas 4215 posts
20th Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:</b>" At 16 they cannot drive or work really... if you don't help her, she is basically being left out in the cold."</blockquote>




There are buses and you can get a license at 16 proving hardship(child) and yes there are jobs there.



I mean if it's a "I have a class then work and the babysitter is sick can you please watch it" then yes because she had a plan and it fell through. It happens. But if it's a "can you watch her so I can go party or just e my babysitter?" then hell no!

Monique and Dominic's mom 2 kids; Wyoming 2768 posts
20th Sep '12

I would say, "That was a stupid move, but I'll help you to the best of my ability."
My daughter is my baby girl, she always will be.

LA REINA™ Chicago, IL, United States 15863 posts
20th Sep '12
Quoting Mel & a girl named Pey:" In Texas people under 25 now have to do drivers ed and some parents can't afford it. I think the job would have to come first so she can earn money for drivers ed."

Once I could afford to support my child and their baby, I would do it and tell her that she needs to do good in school, A's and B's only. A job can come after she's done with school and won't have to work for pennies, wasting time.

Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Oceanside, CA, United States 112414 posts
status 20th Sep '12
Quoting BoogerBear's Momma:" She is trying to force something on me, and that ain't happening, so I will defiantly be forcing something ... [snip!] ... it" and they will have their child. Not in my house. Maybe she would think about it when she is deciding whether to TTC at 16. "


So much for unconditional love.

It's a boy!!!!*3/27/13* 19 kids; Kyle, Texas 4215 posts
20th Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:</b>" I thought this was in D&D!! oops!! "</blockquote>




I should have posted there LOL!



I need sleep!

Tanya Veen Due January 16; 1 child; Lakefield, Minnesota 5 posts
20th Sep '12
Quoting One in the oven{4/2/13}:" Hmmm I must be insane then. I would not let that fly in my house. I wouldn't shove her out in the cold ... [snip!] ... There were times she even had to go to class with me cause the daycare ha no room that day or the babysitter I PAID was sick."


Seriously get over yourself!!!!!!!!

Emily Thorne 2 kids; Quetzaltenango, Guatemala 26302 posts
20th Sep '12
Quoting BoogerBear's Momma:" She is trying to force something on me, and that ain't happening, so I will defiantly be forcing something ... [snip!] ... it" and they will have their child. Not in my house. Maybe she would think about it when she is deciding whether to TTC at 16. "


then you shouldn't have any girls...




See, this is why I am all for gender abortions.... that way mom's like you can abort their daughters so they don't have to risk being "young grandmas" and not put their children into "the system".



How can you put your child in foster care because she did something you didn't like?? Shit.



She is 16... you are an adult... 16 years are capable of plenty, but they do not think like adults, much less American Teenagers.

ILOVEWINE Due April 24; 2 kids; Sweden 10814 posts
20th Sep '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:</b>" Oh that's right!! Here you need to be 18 to drive. Well, still, 16 year olds need help. If you don't babysit for example how will your kid work?? "</blockquote>




You would have to help by babysitting, or help your daughter get daycare assistance.

Bad Things 1 child; Blacksburg, SC, United States 15766 posts
status 20th Sep '12
Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:" So much for unconditional love."


So much for respecting your parents.