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homes cool TTC since May 2014; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 61144 posts
1st Nov '12

I took my dog to the dog park today, and called one of my friends to come along. She's a very very wonderful, godly woman, who I knew I could talk to about how I'm feeling. She encouraged me to find ways to show love, even if I'm not feeling loving. So, I'm going to make a list today of ways I can serve my husband & just let God take over from there. It was nice talking to her. I'm so glad there's no condemnation in Christ, but mercy.

BBNO5NTHEOVEN Due April 25; 5 kids; California 4935 posts
1st Nov '12
Quoting the grace life:" I took my dog to the dog park today, and called one of my friends to come along. She's a very very wonderful, ... [snip!] ... & just let God take over from there. It was nice talking to her. I'm so glad there's no condemnation in Christ, but mercy."


Sorry I meant to quote my above post to you :) This changed my life!!!

homes cool TTC since May 2014; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 61144 posts
1st Nov '12
Quoting BBNO5NTHEOVEN:" http://www.40daylovedare.com/registration.asp"


We used this! This is what helped bring my husband to the Lord.

Tani. 2 kids; California 1076 posts
1st Nov '12

Hey guys, so I'm Tani. I have been a christian since I was young, I fell off track in high school and now I am seeking God and reading my bible more. I'm glad I found this thread as I have no real christian friends. What is the 40 Day Love Dare??

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44070 posts
1st Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tani.:</b>" Hey guys, so I'm Tani. I have been a christian since I was young, I fell off track in high school and ... [snip!] ... God and reading my bible more. I'm glad I found this thread as I have no real christian friends. What is the 40 Day Love Dare??"</blockquote>



It's a way to show love for your spouse and build your relationship with them.

Tani. 2 kids; California 1076 posts
1st Nov '12
Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tani.:</b>" Hey guys, so I'm Tani. I have been a christian since ... [snip!] ... is the 40 Day Love Dare??"</blockquote> It's a way to show love for your spouse and build your relationship with them."


I can do it by myself or does he have to be involved too? Sounds like something I want to try.

BBNO5NTHEOVEN Due April 25; 5 kids; California 4935 posts
1st Nov '12
Quoting Tani.:" Hey guys, so I'm Tani. I have been a christian since I was young, I fell off track in high school and ... [snip!] ... God and reading my bible more. I'm glad I found this thread as I have no real christian friends. What is the 40 Day Love Dare??"


Welcome! It's actually really cool! It's scripture and a dare to show love to your spouse. You can manipulate the system for other relationships too like with your friends, neighbors etc.

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44070 posts
1st Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tani.:</b>" I can do it by myself or does he have to be involved too? Sounds like something I want to try."</blockquote>



Nope it only takes one person. There's a movie too called fireproof that's good too. Kind of bad acting but I cry when I watch it haha.

BBNO5NTHEOVEN Due April 25; 5 kids; California 4935 posts
1st Nov '12
Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tani.:</b>" I can do it by myself or does he have to be involved ... [snip!] ... only takes one person. There's a movie too called fireproof that's good too. Kind of bad acting but I cry when I watch it haha."


LOL! Yeah the acting isn't even soso BUT I stop paying attention to the bad acting after a while because the movie is so good!

Tani. 2 kids; California 1076 posts
1st Nov '12
Quoting BBNO5NTHEOVEN:" Welcome! It's actually really cool! It's scripture and a dare to show love to your spouse. You can manipulate the system for other relationships too like with your friends, neighbors etc. "

Ok, it is definitely something I want to try. Have you done it?

Tani. 2 kids; California 1076 posts
1st Nov '12
Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tani.:</b>" I can do it by myself or does he have to be involved ... [snip!] ... only takes one person. There's a movie too called fireproof that's good too. Kind of bad acting but I cry when I watch it haha."


I've seen it, and I loved it. I got past the cheesy acting and really appreciated the message. Wait, is that were the Love Dare came from?

BBNO5NTHEOVEN Due April 25; 5 kids; California 4935 posts
1st Nov '12
Quoting Tani.:" Ok, it is definitely something I want to try. Have you done it?"


YES! And it was crazy! I saw how mean I could be (I didn't even realize it before!) And my attitude and gratitude got so much better when it came to my hubby!

BBNO5NTHEOVEN Due April 25; 5 kids; California 4935 posts
1st Nov '12
Quoting Tani.:" I've seen it, and I loved it. I got past the cheesy acting and really appreciated the message. Wait, is that were the Love Dare came from?"


YES! It is!

Tani. 2 kids; California 1076 posts
1st Nov '12
Quoting BBNO5NTHEOVEN:" YES! And it was crazy! I saw how mean I could be (I didn't even realize it before!) And my attitude and gratitude got so much better when it came to my hubby! "


That's awesome! I need to start it, today haha lol That inspired me to do it because I feel like I can do a lot better when it comes to doing things for my husband :(. I'm on the website right now :).