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Mommeee™ 2 kids; Beverly Hills, CA, United States 5268 posts
20th Nov '12
Quoting The Blissful Six:" <blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mommeee
lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44071 posts
22nd Nov '12

Well looks like I got myself out of thanksgiving drama. I ended up in the hospital wed night because I was bleeding. My placenta previa hasn't gotten better and is now bleeding. *sigh* I just got released tonight and now I'm home on bed rest for the next week until I make it to the high risk specialist on Friday. Then he'll decide of I need to remain on bed rest or if I can go back to work. Ugh. This is awful. They had to give me steroid shots for baby's lungs just in case I deliver early. Keep me and baby in your prayers please.

The Blissful Six 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Massachusetts 10260 posts
22nd Nov '12
Quoting lolajessup:" Well looks like I got myself out of thanksgiving drama. I ended up in the hospital wed night because ... [snip!] ... They had to give me steroid shots for baby's lungs just in case I deliver early. Keep me and baby in your prayers please."


Oh man!! I'm sorry...praying!!

homes cool TTC since May 2014; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 61358 posts
23rd Nov '12
Quoting lolajessup:" Well looks like I got myself out of thanksgiving drama. I ended up in the hospital wed night because ... [snip!] ... They had to give me steroid shots for baby's lungs just in case I deliver early. Keep me and baby in your prayers please."


Prayers your way!! I am so sorry!

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44071 posts
23rd Nov '12

Thanks mamas. I'm so bored already :(

DN⚓JB Due October 13 (girl); 2 kids; Connecticut 374 posts
2nd Dec '12

Hope everyone had a great Sunday.


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queso +2 (40!!!) 2 kids; Montana 9467 posts
3rd Dec '12

Havingf a very hard time getting into God's word. My husband's relationship and mine is showing it. I don't know about you ladies, but when he and I are both in the word, on a dialy basis, substantially, our relationship is perfect.... even if we aren't having sex much, not getting to see each other much... we don't feel any stress from those things. We feel close. BUT not right now. Pregnancy has deadened my sex drive of course and I'd rather not even kiss. But I do it for my husband. Just need some prayers. Medicaid is lagging. Not sure if I will get it or not but I applied in October and called 6 times recently and all I have heard is, "we are processing your application and it hasn't been authorized if you get medicaid or not yet" Please pray I get it. We can't afford my bills.

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44071 posts
3rd Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting queso +2curdles(13):</b>" Havingf a very hard time getting into God's word. My husband's relationship and mine is showing it. I ... [snip!] ... your application and it hasn't been authorized if you get medicaid or not yet" Please pray I get it. We can't afford my bills."</blockquote>
Prayers are going out to you mama.



My SO and I have a better relationship when we are intentional about reading books to help our relationship together. Right now we are reading one because of some trust issues I have and some habits SO has that create the trust issues. It has helped us a lot. We also read daily devotionals together. That really helps us too.

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44071 posts
3rd Dec '12

Mamas I really need some prayers right now. I'm having a very difficult time processin and accepting the news I was given at my high risk OB appt Friday. I'm really struggling emotionally. And I feel like I just don't have the strength to get everything ready in time.



Here's what happened. I have had placenta previa since the beginning of the preg but the doctors we're hopeful it would resolve. If not the worst that would happen is I could start bleeding and of it became uncontrollably I would need a csection. And of course wouldn't be able to deliver vaginally. But now my previa gained a whole new level. It's now been diagnosed as Vessa previa. This is the bad part. I could handle worrying about my own well being and bleeding. But now I have to worry about my child's life. With this type of previa the baby's vessel attached next to my cervix so if my cervix dilates or thins out the baby will die in a matter of minutes. I'm so scared I can't even handle it. I worry every second of te day about going into labor or doing anything that might progress my cervix. I'm a nervous wreck. I'm trying to give my fear to god and let him take that burden but it's so much easier said than done. I fear I'll miss a sign that tells me to go to the hospital or skmething.



Not only is the Vessa previa bad enough to mentally deal with, what this means having this condition is that I will need to be hospitalized at the beginning of January. This puts me out of work for two extra months and I am so afraid of how we are going to pay for everything. I have to take next semester off school so I won't even have a student loan check to help out. I know I should trust god and that he will provide, but I just can't help but worry. And then on top of it I'm
Going to have to deliver by 35 weeks (sooner if there's an emergency which creates a whole new layer of fear and challenges). My baby is for sure going to be in the nicu. I just don't know how to emotionally handle this. I'm exhausted already and it's just begun.



Please pray for my strength though this, my ability to let god take my fears, and to trust in gods ability to provide. I'd appreciate it ladies. Thanks so much.

The Blissful Six 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Massachusetts 10260 posts
3rd Dec '12

I<blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" Mamas I really need some prayers right now. I'm having a very difficult time processin and accepting ... [snip!] ... this, my ability to let god take my fears, and to trust in gods ability to provide. I'd appreciate it ladies. Thanks so much."</blockquote>




I'm praying!!! That's so much to go through. I'm sorry!

Mommeee™ 2 kids; Beverly Hills, CA, United States 5268 posts
3rd Dec '12
Quoting lolajessup:" Mamas I really need some prayers right now. I'm having a very difficult time processin and accepting ... [snip!] ... this, my ability to let god take my fears, and to trust in gods ability to provide. I'd appreciate it ladies. Thanks so much."


I will keep you and your family in my prayers. That's so difficult and I am sure everything will be okay. Just continue to pray and try to stay stress free.

homes cool TTC since May 2014; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 61358 posts
3rd Dec '12

Praying for all of you guys. *hugs*

queso +2 (40!!!) 2 kids; Montana 9467 posts
4th Dec '12
Quoting lolajessup:" Mamas I really need some prayers right now. I'm having a very difficult time processin and accepting ... [snip!] ... this, my ability to let god take my fears, and to trust in gods ability to provide. I'd appreciate it ladies. Thanks so much."


praying for you hun. That's a lot to take in!

Mommeee™ 2 kids; Beverly Hills, CA, United States 5268 posts
5th Dec '12

Ladies, how do you emotionally handle those who mock Christianity? Whether it's in real life or here on BG. I know Christmas is coming up and so it seems to blow up more now and close to Easter too. I was just wondering how others deal with things like this.

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44071 posts
5th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mommeee™:</b>" Ladies, how do you emotionally handle those who mock Christianity? Whether it's in real life or here ... [snip!] ... up and so it seems to blow up more now and close to Easter too. I was just wondering how others deal with things like this. "</blockquote>




I just try to clarify for them If they have misconceptions. It kind of depends on the conversation and who it is. Plus it also depends on who it is irl. I have some friends that there's just no getting to. I don't push the issue I just make small comments. But that's skmehing you have to know somebody well to gauge.